Getdabag:
Papa like Op wan form father to small pikin wey Don see ur gbola and thinks respect go dey, funny thing is after paying her fees and giving monthly stipends, without having sex with her, Na one poly sharp guy go dey chop her, while his left to pick the pieces of whats left of his marriage

Josepin:


Thanks, sure I will get over this. My wife is beginning to listen though she kept crying. I wish there is any move I can make against that girl that is one of the reasons I brought this matter to this forum.

Josepin:


I reported her to her father and her brother but there responses was looks suspicious to me. As if the have a hand in the whole thing

TheZeezle:



Bro you can't sue the girl! If you no penetrate, u kissed and press Bounda so you can only make her feel the heat to realize she bleeped up.

Idonweak:



I think it's your wife you need to talk to for now and not bother about the nonetity that is trying to ruin your marriage. Apologize to your wife, show remorse and since she know about the ordeal then tell her everything without hiding any details. If she truly forgive she might even give you an idea on how you'll deal with that wicked girl. Women sabi themselves

But normally you no dey fear, you go dey challenge a gen z girl that you're having affair with and you didn't think that it will backfire?

Josepin:


You know her right?

Josepin:
Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids.
About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.

To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.

Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.

From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.

I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.

Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical bluders.

Josepin:


Why I feel like suing her, is because I felt she took advantage of my simplicity. Though I have blocked her off completely but I still feel cheated

Socratiz:
Your major problem now is how to restore the trust in your marriage. Stop thinking about how you can punish this girl.

Face your wife. Do everything to regain her trust and confidence in your marriage.

And stop behaving like a big uncle to a random girl. Even if you know her parents, it's not your problem if she chooses to share her nude pictures on social media.

Stay on your own lane.

Learn from this mistake and move in with your life

Josepin:


Why I feel like suing her, is because I felt she took advantage of my simplicity. Though I have blocked her off completely but I still feel cheated

GoldSantana:
Na wao... It's either this girl lock your sense inside Pepsi bottle or na higher level of simping.
Tell your wife the truth, but spare the details.

advanceDNA:
This is funny and pathetic at the same time

Op did not have sex yet he's paying school fees and upkeep and still got burned......


There's level to this thing called simping oooo

Its like some people are born simps

advanceDNA:


He ddnt knkw the girl doesnt need him anymore.....babe don step up her olosho game as soon as she enter higher institution ....

Funniest part be say ..she fit call the baba, scope am say she was angry, apologize and promise baba brezz... and he will still be paying her steady...

Josepin:
Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids.
About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.

To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.

Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.

From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.

I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.

Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical bluders.

LUAN1:
through out my 5yrs in the university as an engineering student in the east where things were very expensive, I was not even privilege to see something close to 10k a month. But my fellow man dey send random girl 20k-30k monthly. You have make me remember my University days, am crying in my heart now. There are many guys in school now struggling, but op will never see those ones to help. Na one olosho dey Enter your eyes. SIMPing get level ahswear.

Josepin:


Bros be calming down I too didn't receive 5k from anybody when I was in school. You too might do the same with time. Sorry I fall your hand

Josepin:

I have tried to let her know what happened but is very hard to believe because I took the girl to a guest house

dollytino4real:
try more

Josepin:


We are still on it sir,

dollytino4real:
am ma not sir

Josepin:


Okay, thanks for your encouragement, I believe everything will soon get back to normal

Ugwoji101:
Get this girl arrested, employ a lawyer to write a petition of malicious falsehood, criminal defamation of character and conduct likely to cause breach of the peace. Make sure you teach this silly girl a lesson.If you need a well detailed petition you can contact me.

Josepin:
Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids.
About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.

To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.

Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.

From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.

I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.

Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical bluders.

emmanuelpopson:



mr no penetration. u were enjoying the free pvssy and all but you didnt mind your biz. a student who was enjoying her life kos u still want the gal to be under your control. u went ahead and scolded her.. that serves u right kos u have a beautiful wife and kids but u still cheating.. u better confess and beg your wife..

Ugwoji101:
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