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Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Ishilove: 5:05pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:No dey talk this kain tin in a forum like Nairaland. Dem go use am troll you |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 5:06pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Ishilove:I never mind being trolled since I am not ashamed of these things. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by harmony75: 5:07pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Even if it is juju guy you don't love yourself even if you don't love yourself pity the woman that married you and your kids please make a decision and pray God to show you mercy. No one can do it if you agree your God will agree so you can do it � � ❤️ |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Ishilove: 5:11pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Toh. Don't say you weren't warned |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by TenQ: 5:14pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
newold:Too easy if this is true. Transfer custody of your bank account to your wife and make it joint signatory. Let her hold your ATM card and PIN. You are entitled to weekly allowance from her not exceeding in total 20% of your regular income. She manages your home with the rest with your consent! If only you won't be stupid to request above your agreement! If only you will seek deliverance and change your association. If only you'll make your wife your best friend. A word is enough for the wise! 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Ofadaman(m): 5:30pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Money lost can be made, time lost cannot. Gamble but never let is be your one and only source of income, support or time. It must never take ur time, because risk is a thing and one must take risk inorder to break even. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by newold: 5:34pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
TenQ: Thank you for the advice. I actually handed her over my bank card these month. But i did not had the thought of changing other avenues. Like internet bankings. And that is how i got access to the account. If i and my marriage manages to survive when she finds out that i idiotly faild myself, little child and her and my genaration again. I will walk to the bank with her to change every single informations like internet and cell phone banking. Though i dont think i can tell her. Cant withstand the heart break because i know its way too much. Even God would disown me A |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Basiliun(m): 5:45pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
I always tell my friend, "there is little or no gain in Gambling". Even if you won billions of naira or dollars or must return from where it come from. I preffer being Gamling staff to becoming their customers. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by emmadave007: 5:49pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
The fact that he’s even telling him the church to go which is CHOSEN that one is a RED FLAG for me already. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by SPAMBOX7: 5:50pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Oga you no gamble reach me. But like you said you a greedy man. And for greedy men it's a different case. There's no going back for a greedy man who gambles. That's a fact Cos your greed will always make you not to know when to stop. Even if you win 12billion you will still wanna win more and before you know it takes back the 12billion and more. There's no peace for the greedy even Bible talk am |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Basiliun(m): 5:51pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
I always tell my friend, "there is little or no gain in Gambling". Even if you won billions of naira or dollars today , i will neither rejoice no celebrate with you because all must return back from where it come from. I preffer being a Gamling staff to becoming Gamblers costumers. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by TenQ: 6:03pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
newold:I think you should tell her your weakness and the reason you are transferring custody of your bank account to her. She will understand and be willing to assist you. This is where your freedom begins. If she doesn't know your weakness, how can she be of help? Give her the pin for internet banking (and let her change it). The key is to avoid temptations of having "loose cash". The 20% divided in week by week based is just enough for core personal needs. If you have a checkbook, turn it into joint signatory or hand it over to her as long as you will not request for a new booklet. Work out how you will pay off all your debt with your wife. YOU CAN'T BEAT THE HOUSE is a statement understood only by the Wise! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Emmanuel909090: 6:08pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
You are the only one that can help yourself |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Righteousness2(m): 6:11pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Listen young man! Being in the US, Europe or space will not save you from the Calamities of doing evil. The same devil and Wicked spirts and forced in the US is the same in Africa. You and I know that Gambling has ruined your life. Don't Deceive yourself. You better run to GOD quickly for Help before you begin to come here to tell us your stories of Calamities. If you Have Ears to Hear, you should hear! usagee36: |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by usagee36: 6:27pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Lies. Keep living in denial. Righteousness2: |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by LalastiklaIa(m): 6:41pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Antimarraige:Don't bother 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Connected1: 6:41pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Antimarraige:You lost #3.6m and you think you have sense. It's not so difficult to say you work for the bookie or probably own it. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by sydney440(m): 6:42pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Gambling almost rued my life...expecially that one them they call virtual...I remember one day them chop me 10k...I have to beg transport money to go to my house...but now i still dey bet but nah on responsible level...but I have stop that particular virtual betting.. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 6:43pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Mindlog, are you aware of any mental health clinics in Nigeria that offer the Ibogaine treatment for addiction? I did an internet search and readily found several in South Africa, but have yet to find a link to any in Nigeria. And was wondering if there is any other way to find them in Nigeria. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Ay04z(m): 6:45pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
kernniejay:u re so on point. Will copy diz and paste on my story... 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Edoziesmart(m): 6:47pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Antimarraige:Una dey take risk for this Buhari era, maka chi ! ₦3.6m to use gamble away What if the game cut? You are lucky man city didn't score a goal in first half after their attempts. Issorty |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by LalastiklaIa(m): 6:56pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I want to marry you kobojunkie Are you married? Someone said you are 40+. Is that true? Do you mind having one btw the age range of (26-29)? I really do like you a lot but if you have someone already I'll move on. But I just wanted to express what I feel for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by LalastiklaIa(m): 7:06pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Connected1:He didn't lose he was just lucky 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Nobody: 7:07pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Kobojunkie. Good evening. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 7:08pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 7:10pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
LalastiklaIa:I am really one of the ancients, so that person wey tell you that no get am right at all. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Nobody: 7:11pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: After reading other gamblers experience on this thread you still insist gambling is an addiction that needs Ibogaine for cure. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 7:14pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Melap:Ibogaine for me is a hope that otherwise does not exist for those who struggle with addiction of any kind... we are talking of food, drug, alcohol, sexual, etc. You can't be close-minded about these things and expect to understand anything about it. I have even been pondering, for a while now, the idea that Depression(including suicidal thoughts and ideations) may itself be a form of addiction, addiction to worry, ruminations, etc. |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Prettychild(f): 7:20pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
newold:It’s sad what you are going through. Only Jesus Christ can save you, give your life to him. If you have already done that, then you need to rededicate your life to Christ . It’s well with you. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Nobody: 7:26pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Connected1:lmao I didn't lose, I bet on both team not to score in first half, check it well .. And yes I get sense, I'm changing my car tomorrow 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Nobody: 7:27pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
cfree14:not both team, I staked on both team not to score in first half, I would have lost if both team scored in the first half |
Re: Please Help Save My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 7:28pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
Prettychild:How can Jesus Christ save Him when OP has yet to express that he is weary of the world and his heavy load - Matthew 11 vs 28 -30? Why do you folks like to prescribe Jesus Christ for that wey no concern Jesus Christ? |
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