potland:
you dont want kids?

Kids, actually, are not necessity.

donem:

At the bolded, I swear I just lost the zeal, broke up with the girl I intended getting married to due that hookup shit, who even thought them that hookup name, instead of Prostitution? let a spade be called it's name.

Damn! if I like might just do baby mama, if I really want to have kid.

Immediately I arrived at Port Harcourt, the first orientation I got was that there's no girlfriend here, strictly hookup, cash in your hands and girl on your bed.

Most people serious girlfriend is doing hookup for another guy. It's that terrible.

iamgru:
Why won't they? So today I entered a commercial transport to work and then a lady entered and the lady was a student, probably a polytechnic student... See the gal dey beg one guy say he won come meet am for hotel, say d guy sweet, say e want am... I just observed. The lady later received call from another guy kon dey tell dat one say she love am but school nor fit make am meet am dix period.

Na me just talk to her, take her number and tell her say I go call her dix evening... I came down and saved her number with "Ashawo Kobo Kobo"

I go probably call am to chop my share too cos na public toilet, gal wey wan useless, u go make am useless.

Mind u, am a married man







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Demigod22:


You are correct. Most of our girls display unsupportive attitude towards relationship, selfishness or laziness, I don't know, maybe poor foundation.

Abi. It is not poor foundation. Our mothers did well. The woke and feminism is really disturbing these ladies these days and are the major culprits.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, grown people (girls and boys) change when they see a cause to change. From another angle, it depends on what her flaw is/are and how intentional she's about changing. Some habits don't leave. But, I believe with therapy and help, people can.

2. She may just be driven by "youthful exuberance". The bloom of youth. If you cannot cope, let her grow and get to that level of consciousness and the decision to intentionally change. For example, how I saw the world and behaved at 22 is not exactly the way I do now. Growth comes with change.

How old is she?

Good question, she just turned 32

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Icumsa45:


Good question, she just turned 32

Most times, age doesn't equal maturity. She's still in her "bloom of youth". Unfortunately, some people are late bloomers. Maybe, when she gets to 40, she will wake up, who knows?

It's up to you to decide if you can deal with her shenanigans till whenever she wakes up or take your L in peace and nurse your wounds. I wish you the best.

Faber:


Blessed up man...no time to check time. She will come begging, but zero your mind and pursue greater heights. Me I don line up the replacement of the one I dey with now.

Her replacement dey for bench, waiting for her to bleep up, then I get her fired

Done and dusted, No going back, as regards such decisions.

Fair winds to u brother man.

Demigod22:


Immediately I arrived at Port Harcourt, the first orientation I got was that there's no girlfriend here, strictly hookup, cash in your hands and girl on your bed.

Most people serious girlfriend is doing hookup for another guy. It's that terrible.

You are very correct, saw the hook up shit with my very eyes, cause I just left Portharcourt less than 10 days ago, after staying there over 1month, I just smh! For some girls, for most of the 13 days I spent @ a popular hotel at PH. (Swiss Spirit) I know what I saw.

Paramount01:





You will understand why marriage is necessary when u get 0Id.

maybe you are right. But If I get married, I probably won't live to witness the beauty of old age... There are chances I would die of heart attack or be diagnosed with other marriage complications at the age of 50 or less!

Revolva:


Help.me tell Dem , na d hookup part de annoy me for most naija gals

Don't ever trust Dem

To be honest, the way it's easy to get woman to have sex with for meagre amount of money is terrible. I have seen things that have discouraged me from marriage.

OGHENAOGIE:
man I can't marry a woman who won't contribute it's suicide... I rather remain single... And those unnecessary payment I no-go do am...

You have made the right choice. Wife
should have something to bring to table.

yemi1504:


Abi. It is not poor foundation. Our mothers did well. The woke and feminism is really disturbing these ladies these days and are the major culprits.

Very bore attempt. How can a girl be a feminist when she can't feed herself? When she is jumping from one penis to another for money? A feminist is an intelligent, productive, industrious, independent and highly intellectual and purpose driven woman or man who promote equal rights and opportunities for both male and female.

Our hungry girls that can't subscribe their phone can never make a healthy feminist.

donem:

You are very correct, saw the hook up shit with my very eyes, cause I just left Portharcourt less than 10 days ago, after staying there over 1month, I just smh! For some girls, for most of the 13 days I spent @ a popular hotel at PH. (Swiss Spirit) I know what I saw.

So, in such situation and environment like Port Harcourt, do you sincerely encourage someone to marry those cheap girls with nothing to bring to the table?

Zooposki:


It was once practiced in some parts of your country. Lol. Most women now practice it illegally by having multiple boyfriends and assigning the child got from any of them to the most suitable one. Buhaha.

You see why some people dey call una fish brain??...I asked you how many you know personally and you're bringing rubbish Google search result

Why marriage nor go taya men hen na only mumu women remain?..

Demigod22:


Very bore attempt. How can a girl be a feminist when she can't feed herself? When she is jumping from one penis to another for money? A feminist is an intelligent, productive, industrious, independent and highly intellectual and purpose driven woman or man who promote equal rights and opportunities for both male and female.

Our hungry girls that can't subscribe their phone can never make a healthy feminist.

A humanist promotes equal right for all humans, male or famele

Feminist's major responsibility is towardsfemales only

oghalebros:
When you are struggling to take care of yourself, don't you know you won't reason about settling down.

Aside emotional reasons and other stuffs, the financial aspect is the major reason most guys are not settling down and that's the truth. Let FG settle every male youth within the ages of 20-35 with 10 million naira each. Then, you'll attend marriage parties every day of the week

Women want 10 million naira budget wedding , guys get 4million naira for account

Women suspect cheating and start fights if they smell garlic or female perfume , guys do get lap dance from a stripper

If she births a child or more she wants aso rock as a thank you gift, buys got cash for toyota

Afterarriage and 2 children , she stops giving him bunny and he can't press her babbie, guy gets booties and calls every hour

She sees him as a cash cow , guys have babes looking for affection and willing to spend on him

Her handy man takes care of her sex ,guy sleeps with an erection

At the end she going to leave you with half because she wasn't bred to be a wife but a street kid

Demigod22:


So, in such situation and environment like Port Harcourt, do you sincerely encourage someone to marry those cheap girls with nothing to bring to the table?

It's Quiet unfortunate sadly no I won't encourage.

BigDawsNet:
Guys don't just want any stress... that's all

Most that finally settle do this just to kids

Do you own BigDawsTv mate?

SimplePlan34:
The more u are aware of yourself the less self tolerant u are for others

This the smartest response so far
But a lot of people might not understand
What you meant
That’s impressive to have someone this smart
Few lines with a lot of meanings

Because the westernization of the world isn't doing them any good. With the rapid evolutions and creation of internet, the feminine gender have been made to loss all moral lessons. 80% of them now parade themselves as sex workers, hookup or models( webcam models) which pushed their egos as selfmade, expensive and feminist. And the men are not blind to this.

ILU LE PADI MI

They are getting the sex and children outside marriage so why would they settle

killmods:

This is funny...No be the same babes dey do the ashawo and form serious girlfriend to unfortunates?

Government should do something about Abuja ashawo. 90 percent of Abuja babes are into hook up

theymany:
A lady said to me ( m not making this up)
She just want a man to love
Settle with
Even if its 2 meal a day she will manage
Live an okay live not expensive
She was ready to get married

Omo less than 1 wk I haven't even met her face to face, if i say hi nah tasking b d next thing.

And u think when u marry that kind woman na ok live u wan dey live?

Nigeria women are selfish, even if d pussy is getting old thats there own source of income

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vickydevoka:

Government should do something about Abuja ashawo. 90 percent of Abuja babes are into hook up

I no doubt u bro. Stayed in Abuja before. But Lagos seems worse off. To even meet normal home girl na Herculean task. All of them dey run things even those with good jobs that earn well still no want put heads down. They're all hustling. One of my guy said " na runs girls all of us go marry las las " It's so fûcked up bro. I no even send again.

Sweetplum:
cos we now v many chickens unfit for being responsible

^^^^^olosho alert!! (No oofencsse)

BrotherCork:



^^^^^olosho alert!! (No oofencsse)

You are referring to your mum, sisters, unborn female kids and all females in your entire genealogy