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Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 3:17pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary. I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie? I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue! Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg! 7 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Nobody: 3:20pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
well it depend on the type of partner you have. i use to date a girl about a year ago, she must never know i have any amonth on me everyday is billing. honestly if i know you as a lady and there is nothing between us if u ask me for funds i will give but trying to use the word relationship as a way to get funds from me i woun't give. but that do not mean not to be honest with your partner. 331 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Wawelexy(m): 3:24pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
The other gender are manipulative..... they want to know how you go about spending a dime and what you spend it on, as if they were there during the hustle and bustle.. Imagine you earning 150k, and you been faithful with her, trust me she will give you billing of 120k and still claim she's helping you to manage.... even to take care of yourself and siblings will be hard. And these sets of creatures will have 2milli sitting in their account doing nothing and yet still spend your salary with you to the last penny claiming they re broke... but if God help you with a good one, she go just unexpectedly surprise you by lifting some of your burdens off your shoulder, might be kids school fee or rent, but only 10% of them can do that.... 917 Likes 74 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by ednut1(m): 3:24pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Sometimes you cannot tell your partner everything about your finances to avoid trouble and problems. The 50k may be for savings towards a project or to take care of some family issues. Your husband or wife may frown at you doing that but when they dont know the wahala is not there. Marriage and relationship in its simplest form is transactional 312 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by lawrenzooo: 3:28pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Here is what my married friend told me "don't ever allow your wife know how much you are earning because if she knows she would keep demanding until she is sure you salary is finished". That was his on personal experience. According to him he didn't tell his wife about subsequent promotions. 388 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 3:42pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
ednut1:. Hm but I still think in a marriage partners should have mutual understandings about their earnings, projects and all instead of keeping most issues like a secret which could lead to breach of Trust! 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Ignatiusprince(m): 3:45pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Never a good idea to let Ur woman know how much u earn..... 243 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 3:46pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Scamupdates:. But I feel trust and honesty is Paramount in a relationship or marriage, you have to be plain and honest just like your @ bolded statement 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by ednut1(m): 3:46pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Islandlady:easy to say 84 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Ready100: 3:48pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
As a man, the day you mistakenly tell your woman your income rate,,,,,, you are finished 244 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Nobody: 3:49pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Cus we don't know who we can trust again 17 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Nobody: 3:51pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Islandlady:it will all be balance if the two of them work together. you will imagine some women can't buy any thing without demanding for a refund even when she earn more than the man. yes the man is the one resposible for the home need but the woman too need to help as far she know she can 46 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Starz825(m): 3:52pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Fear woman.... 47 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 3:54pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Ready100:Oh I think you are exaggerating, while will you be finished? ![]() 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Unzerious: 3:54pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
There are a Hundred Things I can't tell my Partner.......And my pay is one of it ![]() 127 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 3:58pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Starz825:Fear men! 22 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Ready100: 4:02pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Islandlady: You are not a man. reason why I'll never tell you what I meant by " finished" ... y'all alway wanna knows everything about us... for what exactly ![]() 170 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by brosom(m): 4:07pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
U get luck sef say him tell u 200k, If na me na 100k I go tell u gaskia ![]() Some wife's no deserve to know the actual earning of their partners because e get why ![]() 223 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Nobody: 4:08pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
i know a man just like a friend but way older than me. his problem started when he married this lady, i met the kid at home a day and i ask him why is he not in school and he said school fee. i had to call the man how far, the man explained. you will all feel sorry for him. his wife had the money but refuse to pay for almost 1week. the future of the son does not bother her 219 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 4:16pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Scamupdates:Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on. 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Nobody: 4:22pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Islandlady:funny enough, the same man open a large store for her around ikeja. that why we all learn from our parent mistakes. that kid will grow up one day to join redpiller like those on this forum. that why i dont blame some 154 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Nobody: 4:35pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Islandlady:yeah trust and honesty are no longer part of merit in relationship. my own brother bankroll this lady that claim he go her pregnate for 6 years. only to find out the kid is not for him during a dna text that is required during the kids visa to canada. now he said he his no longer resposible for the kid, poor boy that his dream is to study in canada. to him it look like my bro ambandon him halfway 55 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by ednut1(m): 4:47pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Scamupdates:you see women come online to guilt trip men or form good person. But in reality they are not. Same happened to a tenant tho lost his job. He opened wine shop for the wife. Madam no gree drop money for rent o. The dude owed my mum for long 150 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 4:49pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Scamupdates:Truly, gone are the days wen trust n honesty was a value in relationships all thanks to this Gen-Z generations! This is sad and pathetic,I felt for your bro and that poor boy ![]() Nlfpmod front page! 10 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 5:28pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
ednut1:Hm okay, Are you the tunde ednut on IG? ![]() |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by ednut1(m): 5:48pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Islandlady:lol no |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by anochuko01(m): 6:08pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
You really can't trust women when it comes to knowing your salary. My sisters and mom ask me this question and I'm never comfortable about it. Why would you like to know?! Whereas, my dad would only ask "hope the pay is okay", but women?! They'll want to know how much, so they can help you calculate how much you'll be giving them. Btw, I believe spouses should know how much they earn. I'll never marry anyone who I'm not gonna feel comfortable telling how much I earn. 165 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Islandlady(f): 6:45pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
anochuko01:Normally, we women are highly inquisitive in Nature! According to your last paragraph, marrying the right person will make you comfortable to share your earnings! 11 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by JJuanMiguel: 6:48pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Useless girl Most ask this kinda question so that they can start planning on other people's money. Don't be surprised if she's doesn't earn anything. 113 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by JJuanMiguel: 6:53pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Islandlady:Why must you collect it back? Are they not also your kids? When the man is down, the woman should step in and help, then the man can carry on when he's back up. 246 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by Truvelisback(m): 6:54pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Islandlady:U are a perfect example of ladies men shouldn't tell how much they earn. 98 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Men Lie About Their Incomes & Salaries? (Screenshot) by JOACHINpedro: 7:03pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
Every guy should know this na, na my uncle tell me sef. 77 Likes 4 Shares |
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