IbrahimSkiba:



It's DUMB not DUMP..

Try knowing the difference

lol honestly I was initially confused and didn't know what he was talking about

Lucrativress:


See talk
So who should marry her please?
Bad guy's?
The way some men reason is nauseating.
He loves her qualities and values, isn't that good enough?
He personally doesn't have an issue with her physical shortcomings.
Isn't that good enough?
Isn't that worth the while?

Are you "dump"

alphabbey1:

You think a dumb girl will give you peace of mind ? You never really relate with a dumb person before. And you know nothing about there anger issues...

yes most have anger issue I believe you judging from most of them you meant as friends,colleagues or strangers. Op situation is different. He is in a relationship with her or have you also been in a romantic relationship with a dumb person?

Lucrativress:

And God made you a judge?
Told you to use sentimental undertones to decipher characters?
Don't spoil that lovely Lady's chance at extra happiness okay?

You're the one trying to put words in my mouth. I started the obvious truth and gave counsel in accordance.
I would not misguide the op into lifelong dissatisfaction, to buy the young lady a chance at extra happiness.

Face your Bible and read Proverbs and Ecclesiastes,helps you be a better logical Christian.
No offense..

Haha. I don't have to tell you that I'm more grounded in the scriptures than you think. And I know there's no logical person that will tell the op to marry that girl on the grounds of good character.

spyroet:
thanks

My brother, are you sure you love her?

She is partially deaf, and dumb as well.

It is not that you will marry her now, and then start regretting, and suffering the poor girl.

Because, sometimes, we think we can marry against all odds, but it is usually not the case, and it usually doesn't end well.

Are you sure you love her or you merely pity her? Do you really care about her for herself or just because she is a virgin and hard working?

Because I sometimes laugh when people tell me, "Pastor, I am in love with that girl. She is the one I wish to marry."

Think it through. Remember that there are girls who are more beautiful and more hardworking, and yet are not dumb.

It is when you marry finish that you will now start seeing these women, and then comparison will start.

And women with these dumb and deaf handicaps are typically short-tempered. She is sweet now, but I hope you love her well enough to sail through when the reality that she is imperfect hits home.

Love no be moi moi o. So better, ask yourself the right questions.

Forget Abt today and thinking Abt tomorrow..would you still love her by then??

you are not ready, that's what am seeing..
you want to marry and you are seeking for people's opinion..habaa.. you ain't ready... peace

Tickles001:

You're the one trying to put words in my mouth. I started the obvious truth and gave counsel in accordance.
I would not misguide the op into lifelong dissatisfaction, to buy the young lady a chance at extra happiness.



Haha. I don't have to tell you that I'm more grounded in the scriptures than you think. And I know there's no logical person that will tell the op to marry that girl on the grounds of good character.

Understand these points
*He is happy with her
*He is happy with her every being
*That is primary,his needs are primary
*Every other person's opinion is meant to be "an opinion" which can be discarded.

Judging from poisonous persons like you, I see him doubting his choices,just because a Mr and people will say things like they have 10 lives to live to come back to see how he would have faired if he married a different lady and not her.

(Lifelong dissatisfaction)
Why not take a peak into the future and tell what Gas price will be by December Mr?

"No logical person that will......"
What more would a logical person do than to reason analytically and practically on subsequent peace and internal values that can be a consistent asset?
Values are rich you know
Values,morals,goodness is rich
Brain and sense also
Wisdom and intelligence
Not here says and misconceptions.

I use to hear that love is blind I don't know that love is dumb also

dollyjoy:
You don’t even sound bright Op!
I think you two are perfect for each other

what do u mean

chatinent:
I will prefer a good dumb girl over good Tacha and Nengi.


Peace of mind is never settling for less.


Na wife material we dey find no bi drink pass me cup.

Guy where you dey all this while

kelspinall:
you are not ready, that's what am seeing..
you want to marry and you are seeking for people's opinion..habaa.. you ain't ready... peace

am ready but just a little confused

spyroet:
Am in luv with a dump girl she is beautiful and hard working about 24 years of age also a virgin, am planning of marrying her but the problem is how will my parents and friends react that why do i settled for less. she is a wife material very homely and hard working not those olosho of a girl we have today, so am realy considering the issue
Opinions are welcome

Can she get pregnant? YES!
Can she take care of baby? YES!
Can she cook and give you good sex? YES!
Can she take care of you and the home?YES!
Is she good with people?YES!

Marry her!
You don't need a woman to be smarter than that. You only need the above from a woman.
If you want a smarter woman, you want problem. She will only play her smartness in cheating on you.

jeromestarks:

Can she get pregnant? YES!
Can she take care of baby? YES!
Can she cook and give you good sex? YES!
Can she take care of you and the home?YES!
Is she good with people?YES!

Marry her!
You don't need a woman to be smarter than that. You only need the above from a woman.
If you want a smarter woman, you want problem. She will only play her smartness in cheating on you.

correct guy. Nobody needs a smarter woman.

jeromestarks:

Can she get pregnant? YES!
Can she take care of baby? YES!
Can she cook and give you good sex? YES!
Can she take care of you and the home?YES!
Is she good with people?YES!

Marry her!
You don't need a woman to be smarter than that. You only need the above from a woman.
If you want a smarter woman, you want problem. She will only play her smartness in cheating on you.

thanks

If you truly love her, her being dumb wouldn't matter to you as far as you both can communicate very well through other ways. One key in every relationship is good communication.

As for marriage, you know what is good and best for you, don't get swayed by different opinions; just do you.

I wish you the very best in your decisions.

jeromestarks:

Can she get pregnant? YES!
Can she take care of baby? YES!
Can she cook and give you good sex? YES!
Can she take care of you and the home?YES!
Is she good with people?YES!

Marry her!
You don't need a woman to be smarter than that. You only need the above from a woman.
If you want a smarter woman, you want problem. She will only play her smartness in cheating on you.

Helooooo, not all smart women are cheats..... Cheats are foolish women.

U want to smatch virgin.... . Op u no try... Free d girl.... Or if u got the money go treat her ear defect

Starz825:

Guy where you dey all this while

I dey dey hawk my stuffs o.

LoveFayfay:


Helooooo, not all smart women are cheats..... Cheats are foolish women.

Read my comment again. This time do it slowly.

Bro marriage no be one day thing ooo...I advise u guys fight or u offend her and see her reaction..if u can cope after all that, then u can decide weda u still wan marry am or not.

Hollybratt:
Op marry her because of this advantages
1.During sex, she won't be able to moarn or shout.
2.She won't even complain when you come home late
3.She won't be able to report you to your family.
3.No stress, no frustration. Everything will just be happening silently.
.
.
.
IRMC with my kenya loud

... and if she wants to kill him, she will do it silently.

Leave her and let her marry her kind who will understand her better. Love is blind but marriage go open your eyes.

Akinzola:

... and if she wants to kill him, she will do it silently.

Who be dis wan?

Tickles001:


I wouldn't advise you to marry her. All those qualities you listed were a result of her predicament not that she's different. You can find a normal girl that is satisfactorily wife material.

Have you considered how your kids would feel about it or you're just bothered about your interest.

U spoke my mind

tayo60:
Leave her and let her marry her kind who will understand her better. Love is blind but marriage go open your eyes.

but i luv her she gat every thing i want in a woman very gentle and loving soul always smiling and homely

thanksthanks...

Fidecoo:
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Hmmmmm.
This 1 strong ooo.

Love knows no boundaries!!.

Nothing is strong In what he shared above, let me present my experience.

My grandmother is deaf and dump and my grandfather got married to her despite her state of disability. What a compassionate couples they are and blissful is their home. My grandmother is mother of twelve and all the twelves children for only one man(my grandfather) of which my mom happen to be the 4th born and to the wonder of God non of the twelve children was born deaf &dump nor any other form of disability.

Both of them grew old with undiluted love even my grandfather died early this year at 79yrs but their love life is so admirable beyond limit.

Then marry her no big deal, she's human like us too. Cheers!

Na wife material man dey find these days o! Not beautiful and a dumb bimbo. Better do the needful if you are loaded and ready and to hell with what people will say. Are they the ones going to live with you in your marriage? They can only talk from afar.

spyroet:
thanks

Ops don't program your mind for a particular advice. Take the good, the bad and the ugly and analyse them later.

You people are always planning to marry every girl.

If we ask your age now, you might not be up to 28.

Nonsense!

Once una see big nyansh, next thing na marriage or baby mama.