Any issue that involves money is usually sensitive.

If a man knows that his partner is the spending-spending type and not the future-investing-managing type, he will keep his earning a top secret.

Truvelisback:
U are a perfect example of ladies men shouldn't tell how much they earn.

I don't depend on any man, so if a man can't be honest and tell me his earnings, to hell with him...How much are they earnings sef

Islandlady:
I don't depend on any man, so if a man can't be honest and tell me his earnings, to hell with him...How much are they earnings sef

If i hear....U know urself very well, so there is no need for pretence. Na ladies like u dey love and respect men based on the size of their pocket or wallet.

Islandlady:
I don't depend on any man, so if a man can't be honest and tell me his earnings, to hell with him...How much are they earnings sef

Then why create a thread about it if truly you dont care?

Islandlady:

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Hm but I still think in a marriage partners should have mutual understandings about their earnings, projects and all instead of keeping most issues like a secret which could lead to breach of Trust!

English!
as if u don't know the wahala ur gender will start

JJuanMiguel:

Why must you collect it back? Are they not also your kids?
When the man is down, the woman should step in and help, then the man can carry on when he's back up.

Why won't I collect the money, it is my personal money!

Islandlady:
Why won't I collect the money, it is my personal money!

Thank you for shooting yourself in the foot...this is why men wont tell you their salary because your mindset is based on " his money is our money and my money is mine alone"

Islandlady:
Why won't I collect the money, it is my personal money!

Lol
So are the kids yours, or you are just a nanny being paid to take care of them?

sollolucci77:


Thank you for shooting yourself in the foot...this is why men wont tell you their salary because your mindset is based on " his money is our money and my money is mine alone"

Asking a man how much he earns,especially before marriage is a red flag.
There's no other reason to ask for such apart from using it to determine the magnitude of billing.

sollolucci77:


Thank you for shooting yourself in the foot...this is why men wont tell you their salary because your mindset is based on " his money is our money and my money is mine alone"

Whatever, as a woman I am entitled to have my personal money for upkeep and also to take care of my parents n siblings!

JJuanMiguel:

Lol
So are the kids yours, or you are just a nanny being paid to take care of them?

They will definitely be my kids but I need my personal money to take care of myself too! So that is why I will lend their father the money and collect it back! Simple

Islandlady:
Whatever, as a woman I am entitled to have my personal money for upkeep and also to take care of my parents n siblings!

They will definitely be my kids but I need my personal money to take care of myself too! So that is why I will lend their father the money and collect it back! Simple

Lol
All the best, now that I'm angry with you, I'll do everything in my power to make you end up with an Urhobo man.

Islandlady:
Whatever, as a woman I am entitled to have my personal money for upkeep and also to take care of my parents n siblings!

They will definitely be my kids but I need my personal money to take care of myself too! So that is why I will lend their father the money and collect it back! Simple

Lol...its funny you think any man will even marry you to begin with when you're an obvious red flag.

JOACHINpedro:
Every guy should know this na, na my uncle tell me sef.

Never let a woman know all about you.

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

Why must you collect back the father, are you not the mother? Is the kid not your son?
Selfish creatures.

JJuanMiguel:

Lol
All the best, now that I'm angry with you, I'll do everything in my power to make you end up with an Urhobo man.

Which yeye urhobo man Even in my dreams I reject it

Islandlady:
Which yeye urhobo man Even in my dreams I reject it

Ok, you'll remember today
I'm already working on it

Everyone is guilty of that come on this is money we talking about......

JJuanMiguel:

Ok, you'll remember today
I'm already working on it

Haha I don't believe in superstitions of this kind

Besides why not work on yourself becoming the president of this country if you have such power

What do you need his salary for?
Are you married?

Islandlady:
Haha I don't believe in superstitions of this kind

Besides why not work on yourself becoming the president of this country if you have such power

My dream is to live a long and happy life,
I'd rather be a farmer in Andalusia or Castile Le-Mancha than be the president of a country like this.

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

It's unreasonable to collect the money from the father later on

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

It's unreasonable to collect the money from the father later on, I mean they both own the son , don't they?

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

You would collect the money you pay for your son's fees from your husband. So you would demand a refund for spending your money on your own son? What's your purpose as a mother if you cannot spend your money on your child.

This is why men find it difficult to let you know their financial strength. You're not different from the rest of other woman.

even my mother don't know how much i collect monthly and you expect my gf and wife to know abi...

i know want billing..

[quote author=Islandlady post=116290476]Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

@Bolded
can't you pay without collecting it later from the man

That Islandlady is a greedy wench who pray on only successfully guys. She has no shame.

Very useless person.

JJuanMiguel:
Useless girl
Most ask this kinda question so that they can start planning on other people's money. Don't be surprised if she's doesn't earn anything.

FalseProphet1:

You would collect the money you pay for your son's fees from your husband. So you would demand a refund for spending your money on your own son? What's your purpose as a mother if you cannot spend your money on your child.

This is why men find it difficult to let you know their financial strength. You're not different from the rest of other woman.

Its like u dont know women...

My ex told me to buy her wig of 160k..i say i never collect salary say i nor get

..she told me to allow her lend me the money from her own pocket to buy the wig and pay her later.....it was that day i knew she was sent from hell....

..some women are not relationship material let alone marriage material...no team mentality.. they just see their man as an ATM...

Wotoporiously speaking

Because y'all ladies are leeches waiting to prey on their victims, normally as a woman you have no business with what is in a man's bank account even if you know what he does for a living, Don't ask that question It's a turn off for me, same way women don't like being asked about their age....Any woman I come across that demands to know my networth I consider you a golddigger with nothing to offer.

Only stupid and SIMple men would reveal their networth to a woman....even if na the same gender you have no business with how much is in my account.

For married couples you are only entitled to know each other's bank income only when it has to do with the welfare of the family but personal accounts are prohibited....that's why I suggest that for married couples y'all should always have a family account that takes care of the welfare of the family including everything you can ever think of..As a woman you might know how much your husband earns as his salary that's if he tells you, it's understandable but don't be a monitory spirit that wants to know how money leaves and how it comes in, Don't get me wrong as long as he's taking care of the family's basic needs and wants then I see no need for the entitlement, monitory spirit behavior and silly questions.


Know this and know Peace.

anochuko01:
You really can't trust women when it comes to knowing your salary. My sisters and mom ask me this question and I'm never comfortable about it. Why would you like to know?! Whereas, my dad would only ask "hope the pay is okay", but women?! They'll want to know how much, so they can help you calculate how much you'll be giving them.

Btw, I believe spouses should know how much they earn. I'll never marry anyone who I'm not gonna feel comfortable telling how much I earn.

Life long mistake........ thinking your case will be different with your wife


Ask Johnny Depp

FalseProphet1:

You would collect the money you pay for your son's fees from your husband. So you would demand a refund for spending your money on your own son? What's your purpose as a mother if you cannot spend your money on your child.

This is why men find it difficult to let you know their financial strength. You're not different from the rest of other woman.

Well, me collecting the money back from the father doesn't mean I don't love my son, there will be other aspect I will spend my money on him without asking for refund!

kazyhm:


Life long mistake........ thinking your case will be different with you wife


Ask Johnny Depp

Wouldn't it be unwise to think that all women are the same?

Islandlady:
Well, me collecting the money back from the father doesn't mean I don't love my son, there will be other aspect I will spend my money on him without asking for refund!

So why can’t “your” son’s school fee be one of those “aspect”?

I know you’re one of the “his money is our money but my money is my money” geng. This thread is unnecessary.