Nothing goes for free

These same guys expect and preach chastity for women but ask them what's stops men from being chaste themselves ?

Mumu people.

Blessedmercy8:
Tell them.

That was how one thought he could try rubbish with me. Just small gift he gave me, the next thing is come to my house and prepare something for me.

I just told him, uncle, do it yourself.


Girls, give yourselves some respect. If he touches you, dash him a super sounding slap and abandon the food .

Blessedmercy8:
Tell them.

That was how one thought he could try rubbish with me. Just small gift he gave me, the next thing is come to my house and prepare something for me.

I just told him, uncle, do it yourself.


Girls, give yourselves some respect. If he touches you, dash him a super sounding slap and abandon the food .

You have a point.

But why even rush into eating food bought by him?

I think that women should insist they know the reason(s) for any hang-out or date with a guy, without actually eating or drinking anything. Just a serious one on one chat, in the first instance.

Once, you get his intention sorted, then you may decide to take his offer of food or drink, if he still deems it necessary to make such offer after getting your position on his intention.

This trend of being quick to 'rush into eating or drinking' is both demeaning and negatively mind-setting.

Abi, most Nigerian ladies dey 'perpetual' fasting, which must be broken whenever a guys asks for a date?

The matter taya me o. I no really like the way guys dey treat babes so cheaply. The thing dey vex me. But make the babes too help themselves na. Some no go even hold transport go for date....na so guys dey leave many of dem stranded, if the plan no go well.

As per dashing a guy slap if he touches you....I no support that part o. Many mkpurummiri guys full the street o. Dem fit faint you with just one blow and damn the consequences.

My simple advice is; get to know someone considerably before going out on a date with him sololy....and chill small before rushing to eat rice and chicken. Give yourself some respect...rice and chicken no dey finish for market. With less than N3k you fit prepare your own rice and chicken for house. So, what is the big deal?

If he touches you inappropriately when you are eating 'his' rice, and ofcourse it should be in a public place, politely request that he stops. If he continues, quietly get up and leave. No dash slap o.

Make I come dey go.

Maybe I am the only one with understanding here. Girls will bang you for free, just like men do, if they are sexually attracted to you or when they are sexually aroused. Girls collecting gifts for banging is just because society tells them to so that they can maintain a "value" or as a form of decorum. Girls would collect less not because they need it, but so that you don't leave if they demand too much because they want you.
I think society asks girls to attach a value or token to access to sex because, since they have the better attractiveness, they could delve so much into sex and became useless like a drug addict or unwanted by men in terms of relationship.

internationalman:


It's simple, they just can't believe someone naturally having what they pay money for to fix the artificial. And a guy for that matter.

It's same way they envy their mates that have natural long hair.

As a test, try and keep a very long Afro and make sure it's very neat oh. Watch as they would almost kill you with their stare.

They are that superficial.

Oh!

anochuko01:


I can relate

A girl during my undergrad said my fingers are the things she likes most about my appearance. And I kid you not, she really really liked me.

asin ehh, girls are weird somehow, they can start drooling over you for the wetin you self no understand...

Slynation:
he saying the fvcking truth, I had 4 Ex GF for absurd reasons, One was because she saw my hand writing at the bank complemented it and collected my number, the rest was history... And the remaining 3 was because of my natural long fingers...lemme me show you some chats

Including the dead cells of a fingers,show us pls.


Dirty small small boys in this platform.

I cover my daughters from u dirty boys using rotten long finger nails to dive into a vjay

The pastor is just running his mouth because he has made it. If he is a broke ass Nigga, he won't be saying this.

SeyiFargo:
I straff one bani today for just N200 airtime..
FR tho

Clap for yourself!

anochuko01:


I can relate

A girl during my undergrad said my fingers are the things she likes most about my appearance. And I kid you not, she really really liked me.

Do u mind showing this forum the so called fingers. Let the elders decide

Blessedmercy8:
Tell them.

That was how one thought he could try rubbish with me. Just small gift he gave me, the next thing is come to my house and prepare something for me.

I just told him, uncle, do it yourself.


Girls, give yourselves some respect. If he touches you, dash him a super sounding slap and abandon the food .

I would rather tell you that you are attractive to me and that I would like to have sex with you. It's up to you to like the idea or not. If I buy food for you, it might be that it's time for lunch or something and I just wanted to buy for you.

Demigod22:
I have stop wearing NYSC uniform because of girls. I don't even give them money. These girls don't even allow the students come close to me. Sex is very affordable in this era.

I beg, tell me the area, let me start visiting and save the money I ay for sex here,

webizone:
Maybe I am the only one with understanding here. Girls will bang you for free, just like men do, if they are sexually attracted to you or when they are sexually aroused. Girls collecting gifts for banging is just because society tells them to so that they can maintain a "value" or as a form of decorum. Girls would collect less not because they need it, but so that you don't leave if they demand too much because they want you.
I think society asks girls to attach a value or token to access to sex because, since they have the better attractiveness, they could delve so much into sex and became useless like a drug addict or unwanted by men in terms of relationship.

You’re right on this. Still remember years back at a conference in Abuja and this girl was so attracted to me that she was ready to swallow...didn’t know this girl fromAdam...simply because I asked for a pen and na there she started...she asked for my number...my addy in Lagos...gave me hers as well...in her words “I just want to be fvcking u,that’s all” and I was gobsmacked!

When I was small mama warn me not to eat for strangers house. Na for ur respect and dignity sake. This girls lack sef respect. Even if you De hungry nobody know. just respect
Yourself. Say no thanks. If someone no give you Something them have no power over you. Respect yourself and work.

what kind of question is that?? Churches fail to takecare of their members and then complain when their members look for alternatives.

Christianity isn't about preaching alone its about giving.

Blessedmercy8:
Tell them.

That was how one thought he could try rubbish with me. Just small gift he gave me, the next thing is come to my house and prepare something for me.

I just told him, uncle, do it yourself.


Girls, give yourselves some respect. If he touches you, dash him a super sounding slap and abandon the food .

You’re just making noise here because na social media, the way they will beat you ehn, you won’t recognize yourself.
Except na those small boys, if na man the way he will deal with u, I just Dey laugh.

Once you have a good looking car in Nigeria, you can bang the whole girls including people's wives.

Very pathetic

AdamuKD:
This one don dey claim wetin she no be. Na because him no get money. Had it been him get money, u for open that your wide and overused toto waaaaa like gutter and be shouting baby I love you. Senseless tueh

Na small boys she Dey parole with, d way men go handle her na her body go tell her.

Softmirror:

these pastors are worse off

Landmack:


Including the dead cells of a fingers,show us pls.


Dirty small small boys in this platform.

I cover my daughters from u dirty boys using rotten long finger nails to dive into a vjay

Maybe I'm missing something here, because your post looks like it emanated from "osukos"

Well, seems like you are married with grown up daughters, so I will accord there father that respect.

My post wasn't to booste about anything neither was it made to attract attention, it was to convince a lady that indeed ladies can fall for you just because of your fingers which I'm very privileged to have witnessed and I'm yet to know your problem with my post, But I will take down the post if your daughters would see it and come chasing after me, me self don tire for women matter...

Oh... least I forgot, I'm not a boy!!

Then it's either those girls you dey band are low class wey no even get one iota of value or you self no get value and probably you are living in one poverty stricken getto.. cuz how on earth you go tell me they are falling for Ur fingernails..as per wetin??

internationalman:


Suya big na. At least you spent money before banging her.

Me na my fine long fingernails I take dey bang them.

Anytime I want to go on a fucking spree all I have to do is just keep my nails to be longer than usual.

etrouble:


I beg, tell me the area, let me start visiting and save the money I ay for sex here,

Hahahaha, just come to Rivers State. My guys in Cross River and Akwa Ibom, even Anambra and Imo are giving the same testimony too.

Blessedmercy8:
Tell them.

That was how one thought he could try rubbish with me. Just small gift he gave me, the next thing is come to my house and prepare something for me.

I just told him, uncle, do it yourself.


Girls, give yourselves some respect. If he touches you, dash him a super sounding slap and abandon the food .

Na person like you dy fight for street on top boyfriend

brandsoncharlie:

You’re just making noise here because na social media, the way they will beat you ehn, you won’t recognize yourself.
Except na those small boys, if na man the way he will deal with u, I just Dey laugh.

Hmm...u must be an abuser

Abi o .. if men start seeing themselves this way.. they will stop mocking the girls..cuz na the man cheap.. you bought her food, you still satisfy her urge. Girl is the real winner.

strangest:
Sex dey hungry everyone... Even if you give a girl suya for sex, she needs the sex too and you end up thinking that the girl is cheap... [/b]Meanwhile you are the one that probably needs to get paid for satisfying her sexual urge...[b]

Aunty eat your Shawma in peace and give who you want to give....

Then why did you collect his shawama in the first place?

Shawarma na premium chow na, shey this pastor no dey aware indomie na standard

Landmack:


You’re right on this. Still remember years back at a conference in Abuja and this girl was so attracted to me that she was ready to swallow...didn’t know this girl fromAdam...simply because I asked for a pen and na there she started...she asked for my number...my addy in Lagos...gave me hers as well...in her words “I just want to be fvcking u,that’s all” and I was gobsmacked!

For all the forming girls dey do, when it comes to the one they want, they can open up like raw (unless she's the shy type). I am not surprised. I have heard girls talk dirty to me like that more than a few times.

Landmack:


Hmm...u must be an abuser

;Na am not , just telling u what’s on the street so be careful, not every guy u see out there is cool. Even Nairaland they do post such videos.

Girls were bleeped far less with two indomie and one egg way back 2000s
So what's shawarma that won't be used
Girls are being bleeped cos they are broke and can't work
They will still be bleeped for far less
The social support system of the country is nonexistent
So as long as there are no structures to protect the unemployed
Girls will be bleeped with even buns
The idea is not about the item but the security they seek from men

Toluwanise247:
Pastor you get it …. Na so we dey Bleep them. Majority of our lady now no get value, they are cheap as original pure water . Am not talking about olosho oo I mean church girl.

Guys are also cheap,for a guy to stoop so low just to give her something in return for just hours of pleasure,you can tell a lot about his self esteem through that,he has none and thinks money buys personality,anyway they are both whores

Another man slutshaming women