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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by SamOchuko: 11:22pm On Sep 05, 2022
Havemercylord:
Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?


She already have 3 kids for two different men and you still got her pregnant? Bro e don tay your blockade start but you just nor realize, your sense has been blocked tay tay, you’re the third man she’s gonna have a baby for? What’s your plan? To wife her? Guy I nor get advice for you, just carry your cross, you got yourself into it so stew in it.
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Harmlesspill(m): 12:14am On Sep 06, 2022
uhhhhh!
You obviously need to stop having sex with the lady. Start the midnight prayer and dry fast with strong quotes from the holy book. when you're done, buy salt and sprinkle it around the corners of your room, then command (invoke) the spirit of upliftment, open doors, breakthrough.
Remember that salt is used to bring out taste, so your destiny will be revived once again and everything will get working

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by KENNYROSSY07(m): 12:51am On Sep 06, 2022
Firstly before going into any relationship with a partner, you both ought to know about your zodiac sign to be very sure if you both are compatible together before going into any relationship. What’s you both month, I’ll consult a reading for you. It will cost you #2000 for a reading
And you will be set free. And never fall into such trap again. You are blessed IJM. �Amen

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Tqw1: 1:35am On Sep 06, 2022
Really
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Munzy14(m): 2:12am On Sep 06, 2022
God1000:
Why going after a woman with 3 kids for two different men already?
He literally walked into a room burning with visible flames...I wonder why he is complaining of the heat and ashes coming his way.

Wondered what blinded him..Now he is doing the things of Celestial.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by dalass(f): 2:47am On Sep 06, 2022
Havemercylord:
Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

You just wanted to use and dump her like her other deadbeat baby daddies... Useless men

She too no dey learn. Some women, once they hear a fake I Love you usually spoken to enter pssy their brains stops functioning
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by efficiencie(m): 3:09am On Sep 06, 2022
Havemercylord:
Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

Cele dey deceive you you too wan go light candle! Oga, any attempt to marry that lady will lead to a cataclysmic catastrophic calamity! Ladies like that are not meant to be married they are programmed to be sluts and a clear evidence is the fact that she has 3 kids from two different men. Oga run like a mad man ohh before you ultimately run mad. Go to Christ Mercyland Deliverance Ministeries for immediate deliverance before they finish roasting your destiny!
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Jen96: 4:57am On Sep 06, 2022
Robertgreene1:
...
Hmmm...I think I'm winning d fight...but truth is... I'm not...not yet...perhaps I'm just not ready 4 d fight now...cus d whole thing not affecting me financially 4 now(it will still.. perhaps)..
But on d other hand...I'm a total wreck...a real wacko...so weird I don't even understand myself sometimes...
Don't even know where 2 start explaining my weirdness from sef... cus d list go long like River Nile
Just that...All d girls dat I suddenly ran away from without any reason or notice Whatsoever...
If only they know...if only they know...
mine has affected me both financially. I believe it's a battle I v to fight myself cos great men of God have prayed for me . Even when I almost died last year that same person prayed for me n Got healed me from my heart problem. But the same person prayed for this spirit husband n the spirit left for a while n came back. So now I believe it's a battle I must fight myself

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Didijiji: 5:07am On Sep 06, 2022
efficiencie:


Cele dey deceive you you too wan go light candle! Oga, any attempt to marry that lady will lead to a cataclysmic catastrophic calamity! Ladies like that are not meant to be married they are programmed to be sluts and a clear evidence is the fact that she has 3 kids from two different men. Oga run like a mad man ohh before you ultimately run mad. Go to Christ Mercyland Deliverance Ministeries for immediate deliverance before they finish roasting your destiny!
Go where?

Na wa ooooo… see advise abeg
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by princewarri1985: 5:27am On Sep 06, 2022
You are a fool and if am your elder brother na better slap you go collect. What are you doing with a woman with 3 kids when there are hot single pretty sofisticated women out there?? People dey chop flesh but you prefer bone, idiot! Bro mark my work you are finished, that woman has ruined your life. Them really say na wetin dey sweet man dey kill am.
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Ed12(m): 6:12am On Sep 06, 2022
What is a man that is just starting to build his kingdom doing with a most likely damaged woman, why do you want to bring yourself down at your prime.. That woman belong to married men, A widower or as a second wife..

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by juman(m): 7:33am On Sep 06, 2022
Hello!!!

There is nothing wrong marry women with many kids.
We yoruba say, having kids is not illness. It means women with kids should not be rejected.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by EndRape2(f): 7:47am On Sep 06, 2022
It is not true, when a woman is pregnant, things sometimes become hard for the man,once the child is born, things open again,

That is simple as ABC. Do not put your self in problem by doing spiritual things .


Go to Mfm church, or redeemed Hallelujah house, for prayers , and watch how God move .













quote author=Havemercylord post=116361202]Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?[/quote]
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by EndRape2(f): 7:50am On Sep 06, 2022
[You need to accept Jesus as your lord and personal saviour










quote author=Havemercylord post=116361950]@Omihanifa

WE ARE BOTH CELESTIAL.

I WON'T CONTINUE WITH HER SELF. I WILL BE ON MY OWN[/quote]
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Vadese1: 8:28am On Sep 06, 2022
But who create this water spirit that torment people. What is there benefits to the world. Am a living witness to this nonsense. I started well as a young man, I got a very good a job in the oil and gas industry. But upon the money i was making, I never save to do anything meaningful. Not because I don't know how to save, but one problem must occur that will consume whatever I save. To cut the story short, in 2014 I started my international career journey, different company where calling me all over the world. I ended up with one one of the biggest oil servicing company in UAE. Salary was above 10k dollars. But after 3 months on the job I left the company for no reason. In my community, I was one of the most respected young man, but today I can hardly feed my family. All opportunities has been locked. After some finding, I was told my wife is from the water. And some few years ago before I married her, I dreamt where I saw a very big snake in her private part. But I was ignorant of the things of the spirit at that time, then we where still dating. Right now nothing is moving in my life. We already have four kids, it will be difficult to leave her now. We have tried some Church for Deliverance, but nothing much has work. Just few days ago, I was told that her mother took her to river to swear when she was born because of some problem the mother was having with the husband at that time. This woman has dealt with me. I don't know what to do anymore

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Jen96: 8:45am On Sep 06, 2022
Vadese1:
But who create this water spirit that torment people. What is there benefits to the world. Am a living witness to this nonsense. I started well as a young man, I got a very good a job in the oil and gas industry. But upon the money i was making, I never save to do anything meaningful. Not because I don't know how to save, but one problem must occur that will consume whatever I save. To cut the story short, in 2014 I started my international career journey, different company where calling me all over the world. I ended up with one one of the biggest oil servicing company in UAE. Salary was above 10k dollars. But after 3 months on the job I left the company for no reason. In my community, I was one of the most respected young man, but today I can hardly feed my family. All opportunities has been locked. After some finding, I was told my wife is from the water. And some few years ago before I married her, I dreamt where I saw a very big snake in her private part. But I was ignorant of the things of the spirit at that time, then we where still dating. Right now nothing is moving in my life. We already have four kids, it will be difficult to leave her now. We have tried some Church for Deliverance, but nothing much has work. Just few days ago, I was told that her mother took her to river to swear when she was born because of some problem the mother was having with the husband at that time. This woman has dealt with me. I don't know what to do anymore
u r not alone. I still trust Jesus for my deliverance... I am not going to ever miss prayers at night. I believe God will show me mercy n arise for my sake. I v met powerful men of God. They v prayed for other things for me n d prayers worked except this spirit husband. Now I feel is a battle I must fight myself.

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by ManAustin(m): 9:32am On Sep 06, 2022
Any decisions wey dey dick oriented no dey ever go well that's why the dick dey in-between two firm laps to be well tamed. You see trouble u follow dick decision, now u dey ask whether to leave her, Oga u go nowhere o.
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Kayvee6(m): 9:47am On Sep 06, 2022
It's not even your battle; It's God's! We are talking about spirit here. Only Jesus can save, if you consult Jesus ma; he will ask you to give to ceaser what belongs to him, you can't leave the woman either, you have covenant with her due to your blood in her womb, it's a critical condition! If a foundation is destroy; what shall the righteous do? If you believe God; ask for MERCY. If you want to do street, pay the price of the spirit, just be aware it will be renew in time due and if you wish to run; the spirit eyes are on you! All you need is MERCY.
God1000:
Why going after a woman with 3 kids for two different men already?
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Sixfiguresmart(m): 10:05am On Sep 06, 2022
which is not a believing church?
anochuko01:
Co to a Bible believing church.


I wonder wetin carry you go meet woman wey dun born 3 already

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Israeldan1(m): 10:32am On Sep 06, 2022
3kids for different men

Hmmm anyway did you find out the cus for the separation?

Or u just moved in like that
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Perche: 11:27am On Sep 06, 2022
You never bothered to find out why a woman with 3kids for 2 men is not married but you went and got her pregnant. Now you understand why she is not married. I don't think you want to spend the rest of your life fighting this. You don't know how far she is gone. My advice is that you take care of her until she puts to bed and then run. Make provisions for your child. Even if you are strong spiritually do you want this distraction?
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Lvgirl: 1:01pm On Sep 06, 2022
Thomthom:
Hmmm it seems you are spiritual I for like get ur contact....like my wife anything good wey she reason, before the time come, money must show she go do the thing..she can just say how wish I fit get like 100k next week to do this and that.. before the next week come she don make the profit of that 100k.. if we get misunderstanding naso anything good luck go dey far from me until we settle, she does not even send my Civil servant salary wey them go pay this month till next 2 months again although I have reasoned this things you wrote up there before, but you just wrote what I always think.. she never sitdown lack anything that has to do with money.. when i sitdown dey think how government take dey frustrate my life, Na ball she dey ball.. If you say this thing is spiritual, you might not be far from the truth.




Send me your email address

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Thomthom(m): 1:05pm On Sep 06, 2022
Lvgirl:




Send me your email address
premtom4u@yahoo.com
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Lvgirl: 1:26pm On Sep 06, 2022
Thomthom:
premtom4u@yahoo.com



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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by NCANCHAIR(m): 3:00pm On Sep 06, 2022
Lvgirl:





Send me your email address

Please I need to be in touch with you too. Here’s my email daveleo400&gmail.com and we can chat on WhatsApp 07030009529. Thanks boss
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by NCANCHAIR(m): 3:14pm On Sep 06, 2022
sukkot:
well you know she is not getting the proper spiritual light from you so she is still a wandering soul. its like darkness leading darkness. when you step up spiritually she would fall in line when she sees a more superior force.

Can I get in touch with you sir’? I need some guide and help

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by sukkot: 3:39pm On Sep 06, 2022
NCANCHAIR:


Can I get in touch with you sir’? I need some guide and help
sure Sir

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by bobestman(m): 5:09pm On Sep 06, 2022
Havemercylord:
@Omihanifa

WE ARE BOTH CELESTIAL.

I WON'T CONTINUE WITH HER SELF. I WILL BE ON MY OWN

Shea u be Igbo or Yoruba make I know which tribal fowl to call you
You wan japa for this kind spiritual matter. Two of una don tie. Your seed in him also tie una together...her water ppl also dey watch...where you wan japa go? Na you go cut onion and they complain say the water dey enter your eyes

3 ways wey you fit solve the matter

1. Traditionally. Look for a good dibia/priest. Those ones you patronize are thieves. A good one no go charge you over 5k to know the problem and provide solution
2. Churchianically. Though their are many con men aka pastas but few good ones still dey. They can guide you on what to do and how to do it
3. Personally. It comes in 2 ways
A. Thru thorough bible study. Read and meditate vigorously even more than you pray. Try and understand what you read and apply it to your situation. Their is power in the Word. The Word can also clean and purify you. Do it always, add fasting if you can and pray as you can. Make sure you are clean from all sins. Keep yourself holy. You will be getting dreams and visions and gradually you will grow and get the solution
B. Self Discovery and Spirituality. Know your self. Once you become spiritual and know who you are. You will be getting dreams and visions that will guide you on what you seek
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Robertgreene1(m): 9:17pm On Sep 06, 2022
Jen96:
mine has affected me both financially. I believe it's a battle I v to fight myself cos great men of God have prayed for me . Even when I almost died last year that same person prayed for me n Got healed me from my heart problem. But the same person prayed for this spirit husband n the spirit left for a while n came back. So now I believe it's a battle I must fight myself
ehya...sorry 2 hear all this my dear...but just know u not alone in this mess...we re legion dt carry this burden...so just be strong okay!
Wishing u d very best in ur fight against this burden
All d best....
Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by Lagbenjo: 11:07pm On Sep 06, 2022
Am sure the two men that own the 3 kids ran away due to her situation .

Come to think of it , the marine spirit is making the lady to be attractive to guys despite having children, men are still wooing her. You know girls from marine kingdom dey attract men .

@OP were you trying to play away match or to have her as wife before you knew she belongs to marine kingdom

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by rayahmad: 1:06am On Sep 07, 2022
sukkot:
sure Sir

Enlighten one.
your mind speak of clarity.

What will you say of one born on the 7th day of the 3rd Month in the year 1984..

and about my life..things feels stagnant for a while now.
what are the possibilities.

weakness is pussy too, but not all d times though.
3 sons and a wife dat seems not just ordinary too.

Divination...biko!

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Re: I Am Facing Blockages After Meeting My Girlfriend by AlphaTaikun: 1:14am On Sep 07, 2022
sukkot:
alright so your soul ( piscean ) is programmed to sync into the hidden records of the universe however your 3 dimensional body being leo is like daniel trapped in the lions den. meaning you are in an unseen prison of darkness and your life would just be a series of mistakes because there is no direction to it because of the darkness. but yet your soul is full of light but the light is not guiding your path because of the darkness and someone like you the wrongest person for you to meet would be an aquarius which she is because aquarius is spiritual darkness and carnality and hedonistic three dimensional madness. and so a woman like this would lead you into darkness and futher dim you lights and things would stop working in you life. but all is not lost, you dont have to get rid of the woman but you can turn the situation around for yourself and then in turn be the guiding light to this woman because she too is in darkness and needs light but however in your case there is light but its just that the light is cut off. so we want to reconnect you to your solar light so that your fortunes would turn around and then you can in turn be the light to this woman who needs light and guidance. so dont get rid of her but we re going to make her subject to you an a help meet and a disciple to you. we would do this by rituals and for someone like you, you would have to do this wednesday ( the day satan dies and turns to ashes hence ash wednesday ) at the 12.00 hour. get a compass and look for the north. do this ritual facing the north. look for incense sticks called citronella ( they sell them everywhere ) and burn it slowly and then draw the aquarius symbol on a sheet of paper and burn it. then say LORD ON THIS DAY OF THE DEMISE OF THE lord of the underground I ASK FOR THE RECONNECTION OF MY LOWER AND HIGHER SELF. I ASK FOR ASCENSION. PLEASE FORGIVE ME OF ALL MY SHORTCOMINGS AND BE WITH ME. BLESS ME WITH YOUR POWER AND AUTHORITY AND ALL THAT COMES WITH IT, BLESSINGS AND PROSPERITY. I PROMISE TO BE A GOOD STEWARD OF YOUR POWERS AND BLESSINGS AND PROMISE NEVER TO ABUSE IT. RITUAL IS OVER. now go forth and conquer the world bro. but do not misuse your power and authority and dont get rid of that woman. be the light in her life. now go in peacce and multiply

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