You be Mu-mu!

A corp member sent you 2k out of her allawee and you dey make noise. How much you expected her to give you before? You think to serve Nigeria na NNPC job

Your sister is one of the few sensible and good girls we have in Nigeria. You should appreciate her effort abeg.

When I dey serve, if person ask me for money, I dey see the person as evil person. To beg a corp member money na evil act, in my opinion.


Abeg, help me ask your sister if she get boyfriend. I think I want to love her.

If any of my siblings ask me money and I refuse to give them when I have, my conscience will torment me throughout the day. Vise versa them too.

It's mostly how y'all grew up. Most people grew up in a dysfunctional family without even knowing. No care, no love and emotionally blank towards siblings..

I know one like that that left his younger brother to suffer in a jail cell after getting arrested for a very marginal error in his working place.

When you start working for your money, you will know how it feels to send someone urgent 2k.

Wait for it!!!

Op how much you don give your Sister?

Abi You go dey Expect from who you no Respect

Zonefree:
You be Mu-mu!

A corp member sent you 2k out of her allowee and you dey make noise. How much you expected her to give you before? You think to serve Nigeria na NNPC job

Your sister is one of the few sensible and good girls we have in Nigeria. You should appreciate her effort abeg.

When I dey serve, if person ask me for money, I dey see the person as evil person. To beg a corp member money na evil act, in my opinion.


Abeg, help me ask your sister if she get boyfriend. I think I want to love her.

Always rushing to attack. Btw, your comment doesn't corelate with the post at all. Read it again — this time word by word.

internationalman:
If any of my siblings ask me money and I refuse to give them when I have, my conscience will torment me throughout the day. Vise versa them too.

It's mostly how y'all grew up. Most people grew up in a dysfunctional family without even knowing. No care, no love and emotionally blank towards a siblings..

I know one like that that left his younger brother to suffer in a jail cell after getting arrested for a very marginal error in his working place.

Absolutely true. It's sad that some people have lost touch of humanity — they ain't humans again. You can imagine what someone spilled up there just because of material things.

It's well.

Zee0007:
When you start working for your money, you will know how it feels to send someone urgent 2k.

Wait for it!!!

My own sis?

Unzerious:
Op how much you don give your Sister?

Abi You go dey Expect from who you no Respect

Meaning?

As someone that has both younger and older siblings. I can say from this perspective. It depends on the type of family and the relationship between them and their nature.

I for one have two siblings a boy and a girl. I can have 15k in total and give the girl 3k out of it. But the guy can not see a pin from me and I think he knows that and God will never let me expect a penny from him now or in future. You know when you have a younger sibling that wants to always disrespect you and prove to people that you deserve no respect. That wants to fight with you in public to prove strength. Let me have N1 billion naira I can't give him a penny

Anytime I hear people complaining how somebody has a wealthy sibling and they don't benefit from them. I don't judge that sibling. I always want to know the background story. How did that sibling treat his brother or sister when he had nothing. Was there insults, mockery or disrespect or hateful comments? It is better not to offend people at all than to do that and be expecting free forgiveness and reward for your uncouth behavior. I will rather assist a stranger on the road than a sibling that caused me pain and wished me misfortune.

Some their siblings didn't do anything to them but they just have a selfish nature and a me, myself and I personality and their parents had favorites and didn't promote love and treat everyone equally. And then the least loved child might be the one to make it and cut all of you off.

And finally, in this life I have tried my best never to be entitled to anyone's money whether brother or sister. I can always run things myself. If I pick my phone to call you then just know I have tried other means to help myself and you are the last option

Unzerious:
Op how much you don give your Sister?

Abi You go dey Expect from who you no Respect

I tire o

LalastiklaIa:
As someone that has both younger and older siblings. I can say from this perspective. It depends on the type of family and the relationship between them and their nature.

Ok. But I don't disrespect her. She senior 2 people before me o. The money I pleaded for is very important honestly. She knows how these things work. I just feel bad knowing that my sis wouldn't come through if I was in a more tighter situation.

Has she always been meeting to your requests prior to this? If she has been sending you money before and she couldn't do more than 2k this time around, you need to be more understanding. Personally, I feel siblings should be able to help one another within their capacity

dominique:
Has she always been meeting to your requests prior to this? If she has been sending you money before and she couldn't do more than 2k this time around, you need to be more understanding. Personally, I feel siblings should be able to help one another within their capacity

Dominique happy weekend

I heard boss Seun has fired lalasticlala.
Please I am jobless help me tell him I can be a good replacement. I take your fineness beg you

dominique:
Has she always been meeting to your requests prior to this? If she has been sending you money before and she couldn't do more than 2k this time around, you need to be more understanding. Personally, I feel siblings should be able to help one another within their capacity

Frankly speaking, This is the first time I'm seeking financial aid from her [and the second time from another who is yet to reply me since june — my junior sis.] I can swear to God who made me. Like, I ain't even feeling bad cos of the amount she sent. But the fact that she was courageous enough to tell me that she does not want to remove much makes me feel bad honestly. #4.5k for my exam is bad for her.

Like how can my own sis be bold enough to say such. I didn't see this coming honestly. She even left my reply on “read" after asking me how much the form was.

Btw, help me move to the frontpage pls.

But Op you are funny o. From that chat you told her the form is 4500 but you asked for 2k and expected her to give you the total money. But she gave you what you asked for and now you are feeling disappointed lol

LalastiklaIa:
But Op you are funny o. From that chat you told her the form is 4500 but you asked for 2k and expected her to give you the total money. But she gave you what you asked for and now you are feeling disappointed lol

No. She asked me how much, which I told her 4.5k and she left me on read.

3 days later, I messaged her again, and immediately she told me what you read up there [in voice note]. Instead of losing it all, I had to plead with her to help me with something, even if it's 2k. And that's how we got here.


I was even tempted to ask for extra 1k but I had to restrain before she insults hell out of me.

Someone giving you 2k out of 30k is actually a huge amount. Almost 10 percent of their monthly salary. Be grateful. Your parents should be the one fending for you and not your sister. She doesn't owe you anything.

tensazangetsu20:
Someone giving you 2k out of 30k is actually a huge amount. Almost 10 percent of their monthly salary. Be grateful. Your parents should be the one fending for you and not your sister. She doesn't owe you anything.

Hum. True sha.

Pls can you help me with 2k to complete it (Look beyond my shortcomings)?

You're very lucky OP....Your sister is even caring,she sent you something.

My eldest sister is a multi millionaire who's also well connected to a lot of influential figures in the society, corporate and political world but she wouldn't help me as her only brother

I'm a very caring and emotional person and I feel as bloods,we should be there for each other no matter what.... I care about strangers not to talk of blood.

My eldest sister can change my life with just one phone call but she wouldn't just help me....She knows I'm going through a lot but she doesn't care.

I have a lot of ideas but she wouldn't help or connect me....It's like there's a spiritual wall blocking my sister from helping me.

As the only son,the battle has been enormous....I've gone through a lot in life,I think of suicide everyday.

My sister's best friend is a sitting governor's wife......Just imagine.....And I'm not capping at all ..

This made me realize blood is not by family and no one owes you anything in this life.

I don't even need money... I just need someone to invest in my ideas.

I can cook very well,write very well and can do any type of job.....i really need help before I do something drastic.

mjuvey3:
You're very lucky OP....Your sister is even caring,she sent you something.

What a wicked world!

@tensazangetsu20

Don't ignore please. You might be God sent.

[sup][/sup] just

mjuvey3:
You're very lucky OP....Your sister is even caring,she sent you something.

My eldest sister is a multi millionaire who's also well connected to a lot of influential figures in the society, corporate and political world but she wouldn't help me as her only brother

I'm a very caring and emotional person and I feel as bloods,we should be there for each other no matter what.... I care about strangers not to talk of blood.

My eldest sister can change my life with just one phone call but she wouldn't just help me....She knows I'm going through a lot but she doesn't care.

I have a lot of ideas but she wouldn't help or connect me....Our parents were poor(My dad is late) and I don't have any bad character apart from smoking....I can go a day without saying a word and I don't fight or look for trouble but it's like there's a spiritual wall blocking my sister from helping me.

The reason I smoke is cos of depression and not to worry because I've been through hell in life....As the only son,the battle has been enormous....I've gone through a lot in life,I think of suicide everyday.

My sister's best friend is a sitting governor's wife......Just imagine.....And I'm not capping at all ..

This made me realize blood is not by family and no one owes you anything in this life.

I don't even need money... I just need someone to invest in my ideas.

I can cook very well,write very well and can do any type of job.....i really need help before I do something drastic.

omo that smoking part no worry yourself. Everybody they use am hold body! When things are tough, when things are tight, rotmas always comes through for me.. I'm not a heavy smoker but smoke occasionally

Honestly, you sounded entitled to me despite your efforts not to seem so. She tried, she gave you. You have no way of knowing what she does with her little earning...girl might be saving towards higher education, professional development, getting her own space, etc. You dont live with her and dont really know the true state of her condition. I would say thank you, if I were you, instead of counting what she has left in her purse.

Meanwhile, how far with your parents? They are the ones responsible for your education, not your sister. I think families trive more in terms of support when they are not spiteful of one another's little efforts. I blame your parents fa....na them birth children they cannot afford to fund. Even said sister is "living" with parents' sibling...free housing, free food, free transportation.....in this economy. It is well.

You are an adult and not your sister responsibility, let her live her life the way she wants to and you live yours. Guy you are not disable go and hustle legitimately.

As far as u've reached the age of discretion u are an adult and don't try to blaim others for not helping u because nobody owes u anything

HMMMMMM,FOR THOSE SAYING SAYING HE IS AN ADULT AN SO, DON'T FORGET THAT AT A POINT IN LIFE/TIME ASSISTANCE IS NEEDED FOR A MAN TO rave THROUGH,
BUH OP,MY ADVICE FOR U IS DAT U SHOULD BUCKLE UP AND STAND STRONG.
ALTHOUGH, NOBODY OWES ANYONE ASSISTANCE THO.


MY OPINION NO SHADES

I fully support helping your family

But in as much as I support and help my family, I strongly believe people must be allowed to succeed in their own accord

Dashing out money to people, they will simply keep coming back to you

I gave over one million naira to my twin sister just this year January because of how she is always broke but guess what, less than six months she is broke again

I've already made up my mind that I'll simply fold my hand and let her succeed from her sweet and not from freebies

Even if I have billions, unless she have something tangible by herself and need topping up I won't give her a dime, I must see what you are doing before I can help anyone otherwise you are on your own

cavreek:
As far as u've reached the age of discretion u are an adult and don't try to blaim others for not helping u because nobody owes u anything

You know nothing.

abioyeayanfeolu:
HMMMMMM,FOR THOSE SAYING SAYING HE IS AN ADULT AN SO, DON'T FORGET THAT AT A POINT IN LIFE/TIME ASSISTANCE IS NEEDED FOR A MAN TO rave THROUGH,
BUH OP,MY ADVICE FOR U IS DAT U SHOULD BUCKLE UP AND STAND STRONG.
ALTHOUGH, NOBODY OWES ANYONE ASSISTANCE THO.


MY OPINION NO SHADES

Noted.