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Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Joeyfizzo: 8:52pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
manofeverything:oh my Lord...this is too bad. The money I left in my elder brothers account before going for 6 months military Training was used in paying her tuition n upkeep in the Philippines were she was studying nursing without my consent. On finishing her studies I made sure she served in Abuja so she cud live with me and my family with my two little daughters....I never knew I was looking for trouble.....I used the Navy slot to make her serve in Abuja....she wanted to be above my wife...as per "it's my brother's house".... Started picking quarrel wit my wife upon the slightest advice or correction my wife will give her.... Making statements like " Blood is thicker than water'... And my dad was picking sides with her telling me that my wife is from a different family and that I Shud not let my wife know much abt me...someone I married with two kids o....hm. My dad forgot that one day my sister will get married too to another family. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Slynation(m): 8:58pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
mirinder:Lol... that was when I was still simping tho, she called me that she's hungry and I went under the rain to get her food only for her to lose her appetite and threw the food away... |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by HaneefahRN(f): 9:00pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Mind your business. Home wrecker When you get married form don in your own marriage. Your brother's marriage is working for him that way 1 Like |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Emman08: 9:01pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
BigYash: Either your slag mother abandoned you or sexually abused you as a baby. Its not my fault you hate women bro and are messed up bro. Carry on ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by NemoDatQuod(m): 9:01pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
It's obvious you are not just confused, but also have a mental health problem. Your moniker says "fearYourCreator", yet in virtually all your posts, you go about insulting everyone and calling them names. That's not synonymous with the Creator we all know. He actually hates people who do that. Your signature says, you can accept the truth. Yet truth is so very far from you. Your personal text says there's no need to hurt others. Yet you seem very vested in hurting others. It's clear you are troubled. So I'mma gonna let you carry on with your insults. I'll carry on drinking my Double Mature Scotch Whiskey while you carry on spewing hate. Fearyourcreator: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Fearyourcreator: 9:02pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Konjiboii:Grow up ... Or some of you should stop claim maturity wey no join... Na cry dey end am... Thats not maturity ... Its pure disrespect ... A well trained african woman dont do that ... We are africans ... And concerning Nigeria ... Non of them can help Nigeria and any of them can help Nigeria ... What I think about Nigeria is just different from so many... If I tell now you fit say make i grow up again ... |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Fearyourcreator: 9:04pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
NemoDatQuod:Lolzzz.... You claiming woke to danger... Continue ... Make that brother report to their mama wetin the wife do |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by iezeiyida(m): 9:11pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
So sending her husband on an errand in the presence of his very younger brother is not disrespectful? I can't stay out of their business when my married brother or married sister is obviously being messed up by his or her partner.. No reason am.. Moreover, the idea that the third party ruins marriages isn't always right. The third party can help save, build or ruin marriages. It depend on the true intentions, wisdom and intelligence of the third party. Romanoff: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by mechanics(m): 9:11pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Pray for his wife to change. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Cuntface: 9:14pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Emman08: Why involve me in.this?? 1 Like |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by NemoDatQuod(m): 9:17pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Emman08 BigYash Is it not enough? I thought this started out as some form of camaraderie between the two of you. When we insult others, we actually debase ourselves to ourselves, whether we realise it or not. Let's end this for today. And save our energy for tomorrow. Maybe you can start again on another topic and then make it something with a strong sense of camaraderie. There's nothing wrong with having differing opinions. We just learn to understand and sometimes accept the other person's opinion, or we simply agree to disagree and move on. BigYash: Emman08: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by fxexperts: 9:18pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
RightToReject: I can't imagine how some of these people think. i believe they are just little boys. they are not mature yet for marriage that is why they spill these trash. Like you rightly said there might be absolutely nothing wrong in what the wife did. It totally depends on the scenario that prompted the wife to send her husband on the said errand. It could even be that the man wanted to buy some things from the provision women, I for one normal do the grocery shopping in my own mostly with my ATM card. So if my younger sibling come to visit am i am suppose to buy maybe some provisions and maybe the last time I passed by the provision woman was not around and my wife reminded me later to check if she is around now means she is sending me as an errand boy, some family members can be damn stupid at times. I pity any man or woman who will allow some brother or sister to come ruin there happy marriage. If my wife is cooking and she needs to buy sometime and my younger sibling is around she will not send me but send that my younger sibling so long as she is older than him, and et me hear that he refused, he will never visit my home again.. good riddance to bad rubbish. If my younger is sibling is the one that is older than her I will definitely be the one to go buy the stuff, its my home I run it the way I want. but one important points it depends on the context of asking, she should not asked rudely, she doesn't even have to ask, just tell me salt has finish and I will head straight way to buy it. Who care about some brain wish little kids to run my home. seanwilliam:You are just an overgrown kids and i am sure you are not married and cannot stay married even if you do get married, you lack the character to sustain any marriage. mariahAngel:Really, do you know how she asked, i think the way she told her husband matters, she most likely said it lightly and she might be busy doing some other stuff and the husband is free. So you still believe in marriage been a form of slavery for women right. My dear marriage is a partnership. My wife even call me sometimes to buy some stuff needed in the home on my way from work, so that is also a crime right. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Konjiboii: 9:19pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Fearyourcreator: So are you voting or not? |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Fearyourcreator: 9:27pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Konjiboii:I don't have presidential candidate... Only doing state level |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by grandstar(m): 9:28pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w The wife should show deep respect for the husband. Just be careful, if it isn't broken, don't fix it. I know of a marriage like that. The woman is doing much better than the husband and she is the bossy type. The man has realized that and tries to reduce contact with his wife to as little as possible. My neighbor besides me is married to a toxic woman and he presently works very far away. He probably did that to avoid conflict with his wife. Your brother may be putting up with it because he has a solution. He isn't you and might want to do so tactfully so the wife won't find a way to trustrate it. If the wife knows why he's wants to truly keep his distance or interaction with her, she would certainly frustrate his goal. He has to he tactical |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by TENHEU22(m): 9:31pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
As you said you're far younger than your brother maybe one day you'll understand. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by unekwu212: 9:33pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Mind ur business ooooo |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Exceed15: 9:34pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Romanoff: Was that the case? |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by SpartanJ: 9:36pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
StilmaVsBorn2w: Mind your business. During the COVID-19 first wave, I was out of job for almost 6 months, I had to assist my wife with her business as I collected 25% of my pension to complete the house I was building. What shocked me was that she gave me access to all her accounts, I was the one with her ATMs, it wasn't easy. Made lots of deliveries with my car. Today, the story is different, I have since changed her car to Land Rover to aid her business. I got a far better job than the one I lost. We are in our own home as in my house in Lagos. Mind your business bro. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Romanoff(f): 9:36pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Exceed15: Nope. Any body can send anybody when you're married. Abeg, help me go market, abeg buy bread when you dey come, abeg help me bring my phone from parlor. There's no big deal in it. If you both of have pretend cause there are visitors, then your marriage ain't healthy. Anyone who can't take or stand the way you run your home should go and baff and hug transformer. 1 Like |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Jollos(m): 9:40pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
I might have been doing something worse than that for her in our private. But In the presence of family members be it her own or mine, my wife will not even try it. The kind eyes she will receive. Sometime self I deliberately reject some request to test my sanity, Who knows? |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by jaxxy(m): 9:44pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
yemi1504: Hahaha bt u have to be smart about it tho. ![]() |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Konjiboii: 9:44pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Fearyourcreator: If you don't mind me asking, why are you doing just state and not presidential? |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by madridguy(m): 9:56pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
I don't blame them but their mumu husbands. drololaaof: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Holluwhakemmy(f): 9:58pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Fearyourcreator:as your father is receiving the same treatment from your mother. |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by madridguy(m): 10:01pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
I am really touched about his situation. Do you know the exact reason why he resigned from the job? To be looking after the children? Cooking and washing at home? I am just trying to guess his exact reason. How will he be able to go outside and flex as a man ? Things are really happening. Emotionss: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Emman08: 10:06pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by fxexperts: 10:07pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
haslaw:Can you imagine so a husband assisting his wife is domestic violence, so a husband sending his wife on errand is not domestic violence right. This Nairaland kids are something else. 1 Like |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by fohlarp: 10:09pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Middleborn: yeah assistance was needed but shd be with respect especially wen in laws are around.dey both are used to such lifestyle so dnt rememba to adjust.its dr style,way of living |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by fxexperts: 10:13pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Romanoff:Perfectly said. I learnt that from one of my uncle. He cooks sometimes in his house and he told me specifically that he does it even when his relatives are around and if any one complain he tells them to their face that it is their business and he owes them no explanation when his wife was sick so he should throw her away. 1 Like |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by Juoflife1(f): 10:17pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Your opinion. Fearyourcreator: |
Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by GoooodHardDick: 10:32pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Romanoff: STFU and stop giving stupid advice |
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