Yea, women tends to help you spend your income in their mind hence the hidden income we don't disclose is used for miscellaneous and maintenance and hope you know anything can fall under this category

ednut1:
you see women come online to guilt trip men or form good person. But in reality they are not. Same happened to a tenant tho lost his job. He opened wine shop for the wife. Madam no gree drop money for rent o. The dude owed my mum for long

If a man should keep his earnings secret, why shouldn't a woman keep her earnings secret and refuse to pay any bills, too?

I feel in this case, honestly And transparency has a role in a relationship or marriage depending on your partner, if a man has a partner that always bill him and has nothing to offer to him, i believe she doesn't have the right to know his full income because she has nothing to offer, but if she is a. Great assistance to him, i believe she should know , but those kind of ladies are rare to find shaa

anochuko01:
You really can't trust women when it comes to knowing your salary. My sisters and mom ask me this question and I'm never comfortable about it. Why would you like to know?! Whereas, my dad would only ask "hope the pay is okay", but women?! They'll want to know how much, so they can help you calculate how much you'll be giving them.

Btw, I believe spouses should know how much they earn. I'll never marry anyone who I'm not gonna feel comfortable telling how much I earn.

That means u are never gonna get married

If u let ur next of kin know how much u have be able to die quick

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

If na me I would say I earn 150k

For Personal Merriment

Ready100:
As a man, the day you mistakenly tell your woman your income rate,,,,,, you are finished

YES oooo

brosom:
U get luck sef say him tell u 200k,

If na me na 100k I go tell u gaskia .


Some wife's no deserve to know the actual earning of their partners because e get why

Anyone who asks for my salary it's 25k

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

Is the lady marrying for love or his salary? She may have more issues than the man.

anochuko01:
You really can't trust women when it comes to knowing your salary. My sisters and mom ask me this question and I'm never comfortable about it. Why would you like to know?! Whereas, my dad would only ask "hope the pay is okay", but women?! They'll want to know how much, so they can help you calculate how much you'll be giving them.

Btw, I believe spouses should know how much they earn. I'll never marry anyone who I'm not gonna feel comfortable telling how much I earn.

Guy marry first.

JJuanMiguel:

Why must you collect it back? Are they not also your kids?
When the man is down, the woman should step in and help, then the man can carry on when he's back up.

A man is the bread winner and give his wife everything. the day a woman contribute to the family, she reminds him for months he is owing her 15k

Ready100:
As a man, the day you mistakenly tell your woman your income rate,,,,,, you are finished

It's not true! The day my wife knew my earning, savings increased. She's an amazing wife!!

See ehh, I have the most wonderful and understanding partner in the world who doesn't ask for anything but I still do not tell her my exact earning and reason being that as a man you got to prepare for unforeseen events.

If I earn 500k, she only knows of 300k there are some projects or circumstances that will come up and that excess will be needed to solve it.

Recently I had issues with accommodation. I just finished a project she is aware of and accommodation problem came up, I needed to pack out as soon as possible.

I had no money, she was aware of the lack of money but we miraculously moved out. She was surprised, where did you get money from. I told her I was doing Ajo, she was like and I didn't know about it at least carry me along. I said I carry you along but sometimes as the man of the house, bulk of the responsibilities are on me so I need to be some steps ahead of you financially, mentally and spiritually.

My woman is also working and till today I don't know how much she earns, what she uses her salary for even when they pay her. My concern is that work condition is favorable for her.

That's how it works

lawrenzooo:
Here is what my married friend told me "don't ever allow your wife know how much you are earning because if she knows she would keep demanding until she is sure you salary is finished".
That was his on personal experience. According to him he didn't tell his wife about subsequent promotions.

It means his wife is not responsible. Telling my wife as it is has saved me a while lot of stress because she plans accordingly.
Know your spouse because there's is no right or wrong way of doing this.

Is the best thing to do in every relationship

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

Why collect later? Abi nor be two of una born the piking?

I don't buy this Idea one bit....

If partners hide Income from each other, how will they plan for investments and others?

It all depends on the kind of woman you end up with as man..

This why dating is important...You get the clue of who you want to spend forever with.

You have a peace of mind when your partner knows it all.

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

Collect the money from the father later...smh

bomsilaga:

It means his wife is not responsible. Telling my wife as it is has saved me a while lot of stress because she plans accordingly.
Know your spouse because there's is no right or wrong way of doing this.

You said it the way it is..

If I hide this very important aspect from her, it means I foolishly ended up with an irresponsible lady.

If she hide hers, then I married myself..

People create unnecessary problems for themselves.

Islandlady:

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Hm but I still think in a marriage partners should have mutual understandings about their earnings, projects and all instead of keeping most issues like a secret which could lead to breach of Trust!

Most women don't declare their earnings. They will even open bank account and they don't want their husband to know about it. A lady once told me that she only brings her money to support the husband when he is broke....lol. How do you expect such husband to tell you his earnings?

lawrenzooo:
Here is what my married friend told me "don't ever allow your wife know how much you are earning because if she knows she would keep demanding until she is sure you salary is finished".
That was his on personal experience. According to him he didn't tell his wife about subsequent promotions.

I don't think any normal lady will still be demanding after knowing what the balance is been used for.

ednut1:
you see women come online to guilt trip men or form good person. But in reality they are not. Same happened to a tenant tho lost his job. He opened wine shop for the wife. Madam no gree drop money for rent o. The dude owed my mum for long

you see.. Thunder will fire evil women normally. They go about having savings on all these fintechs apps but be doing like say dem no get money on their main bank accounts.


Personally i dont roll with stingy girls, the moment i know a girl is stingy, even if i am to marry you tomorrow, i'll dissolve it and start all over again. I do not even mind the struggle doing that. I cannot afford to mess up to marry a stingy woman.

God forbid

Islandlady:
Hm okay, Are you the tunde ednut on IG?

normally you no go get sense.

Islandlady:

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But I feel trust and honesty is Paramount in a relationship or marriage, you have to be plain and honest just like your @ bolded statement

We have the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth....lol. Telling the truth means you are honest...lol you don't have to go to stage 2 to tell the whole truth

Islandlady:
Well, me collecting the money back from the father doesn't mean I don't love my son, there will be other aspect I will spend my money on him without asking for refund!

which other ways ? I'm sure the list will be unsensible.

Scamupdates:
it will all be balance if the two of them work together. you will imagine some women can't buy any thing without demanding for a refund even when she earn more than the man. yes the man is the one resposible for the home need but the woman too need to help as far she know she can

She is not helping...lol. she is an adult not a kid. An adult should be responsible irrespective of marriage. The success of a family depends on two responsible adults.

Wawelexy:
The other gender are manipulative..... they want to know how you go about spending a dime and what you spend it on, as if they were there during the hustle and bustle..

Imagine you earning 150k, and you been faithful with her, trust me she will give you billing of 120k and still claim she's helping you to manage.... even to take care of yourself and siblings will be hard.

And these sets of creatures will have 2milli sitting in their account doing nothing and yet still spend your salary with you to the last penny claiming they re broke... but if God help you with a good one, she go just unexpectedly surprise you by lifting some of your burdens off your shoulder, might be kids school fee or rent, but only 10% of them can do that....

With this generation of entitlement mentality of feminist ladies, dem go rub am for your face

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

Why do you have to collect the money? Most women are just irresponsible. How can a human being pays his son school fees and plan to collect the money later? Do you want to be a widow before you get sense?

Ormorlehwah:
Not all women will spend your money to zero Kobo.
I am not rich but I don't care about your money as a wife.

stories.

Me if l earn 250k l will say l earn 100k