Scamupdates:
well it depend on the type of partner you have. i use to date a girl about a year ago, she must never know i have any amonth on me everyday is billing. honestly if i know you as a lady and there is nothing between us if u ask me for funds i will give but trying to use the word relationship as a way to get funds from me i woun't give. but that do not mean not to be honest with your partner.

Islandlady:
Oh no that is actually unfair, Nah I can't have the money and watch my kid stay at home because of school fees, I will pay and collect the money from the father later on.

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

blingxx:


Only my mom knows how much I really earn Sha , she's the only woman in my life I trust 100%

Islandlady:
Why won't I collect the money, it is my personal money!

Islandlady:
Why won't I collect the money, it is my personal money!

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

Wawelexy:
The other gender are manipulative..... they want to know how you go about spending a dime and what you spend it on, as if they were there during the hustle and bustle..

Imagine you earning 150k, and you been faithful with her, trust me she will give you billing of 120k and still claim she's helping you to manage.... even to take care of yourself and siblings will be hard.

And these sets of creatures will have 2milli sitting in their account doing nothing and yet still spend your salary with you to the last penny claiming they re broke... but if God help you with a good one, she go just unexpectedly surprise you by lifting some of your burdens off your shoulder, might be kids school fee or rent, but only 10% of them can do that....

Wawelexy:
The other gender are manipulative..... they want to know how you go about spending a dime and what you spend it on, as if they were there during the hustle and bustle..

Imagine you earning 150k, and you been faithful with her, trust me she will give you billing of 120k and still claim she's helping you to manage.... even to take care of yourself and siblings will be hard.

And these sets of creatures will have 2milli sitting in their account doing nothing and yet still spend your salary with you to the last penny claiming they re broke... but if God help you with a good one, she go just unexpectedly surprise you by lifting some of your burdens off your shoulder, might be kids school fee or rent, but only 10% of them can do that....

Stop going through corners... CALL MY MAMA NAME DIRECTLY

Scamupdates:
i know a man just like a friend but way older than me. his problem started when he married this lady, i met the kid at home a day and i ask him why is he not in school and he said school fee. i had to call the man how far, the man explained. you will all feel sorry for him. his wife had the money but refuse to pay for almost 1week. the future of the son does not bother her

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

Ready100:
As a man, the day you mistakenly tell your woman your income rate,,,,,, you are finished

Scamupdates:
i know a man just like a friend but way older than me. his problem started when he married this lady, i met the kid at home a day and i ask him why is he not in school and he said school fee. i had to call the man how far, the man explained. you will all feel sorry for him. his wife had the money but refuse to pay for almost 1week. the future of the son does not bother her

Islandlady:
Actually most people are guilty of lying to their Lovers and partners about the actual amount they earn from their salary.

I believe most partners especially the Men have a reason for doing it, I think this can cause disunity and lack of trust if the other partner finds out about the actual amount you earn! What are the reasons behind this lie?

I came across the screenshot below from my IG story while scrolling about this lady asking for advice on this issue!
Experienced Nairalanders should share reason for this secret abeg!

Islandlady:
Well, me collecting the money back from the father doesn't mean I don't love my son, there will be other aspect I will spend my money on him without asking for refund!

anochuko01:
You really can't trust women when it comes to knowing your salary. My sisters and mom ask me this question and I'm never comfortable about it. Why would you like to know?! Whereas, my dad would only ask "hope the pay is okay", but women?! They'll want to know how much, so they can help you calculate how much you'll be giving them.

Btw, I believe spouses should know how much they earn. I'll never marry anyone who I'm not gonna feel comfortable telling how much I earn.

lawrenzooo:
Here is what my married friend told me "don't ever allow your wife know how much you are earning because if she knows she would keep demanding until she is sure you salary is finished".
That was his on personal experience. According to him he didn't tell his wife about subsequent promotions.

Islandlady:

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Hm but I still think in a marriage partners should have mutual understandings about their earnings, projects and all instead of keeping most issues like a secret which could lead to breach of Trust!

henrijin:
Imagine ordinary interview wey I go. Tell madam how much I bill them. Madam say instead make we change apartments (this is what we wanted to do all this while o), she say make I build house. I never get the job o.

Ready100:
As a man, the day you mistakenly tell your woman your income rate,,,,,, you are finished