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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by cliqtips: 4:59am On Sep 30, 2022 |
I'm not against him forgiving her but I'm certain that if he does n allow her back into his life, she would cheat on him again. Sweetplum: |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Judybash93(m): 5:00am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sweetplum: Why will a man bring a child from another relationship into his home when he isn't mad? The dignity had already been kicked out when she decided to get pregnant for another man when she knew she was married to her husband. Women only know how to solve things amicably when they're in the wrong. There's no shame in knowing the truth and why the f should be care about what people would think about him? There are consequences for every action |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by alobright17(m): 5:00am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sweetplum:you’ve made no single sense. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Judybash93(m): 5:02am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sweetplum: He's gonna be shocked to know that he's the father of 0 out of 4! It happened to a former Ghanian footballer. Nigga thought he had four kids until DNA results proved that he had nil after more than 20 years |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Johnnyjohnnyman(m): 5:09am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Judybash93: The other 3 are 1000% mine I have no doubts about them my first daughter and second son are my carbon copy and I don't need a dna test to proof it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by BRATISLAVA: 5:12am On Sep 30, 2022 |
The same matter that men tell women to kneel and beg their husbands over, to forgive and forget it if he impregnates a woman outside is what people here are asking him to divorce over? Is it that women are to be endlessly forgiving of indiscretions, while men shouldn't stand for it? No single father stories and security fears for him? No advice to "keep" the foundations of his home strong if he is a wise man? No prayer? No enquiry into how it happened, no scrutiny about ideas on his bad behavior that led to this? No statements that the woman was not given peace of mind at home? Instead it is a red pill preaching ground. Too many emotional men are being born. Some of the commenters here talking hotly aren't even their fathers children. Yet nobody was kicked out and there's been no talk of settling for less. If this story is true, there are only two options: to forgive and forget, or to separate/divorce and share parenting the children. Neither one iseasy. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Ybaby: 5:13am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: Test the other kids too.... Test the ones that looks like you. Test all of them. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by BRATISLAVA: 5:15am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Ybaby: And then? Sometimes we go looking for problems by ourselves. Knowing the results would do what for him? Or is it that he cannot adopt children, assuming they aren't his? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by deflover(m): 5:17am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Read from AllaKaduna Nzeogwu Wall on Facebook U will know what to do |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Johnnyjohnnyman(m): 5:17am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Ybaby: No need to test them because they are mine |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Johnnyjohnnyman(m): 5:17am On Sep 30, 2022 |
deflover: Thanks |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 5:21am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Judybash93:Bad women exist but the good ones are there too |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 5:21am On Sep 30, 2022 |
alobright17:cos you v no sense |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Ganjafama(m): 5:22am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman:If you don't want to die prematurely, divorce that woman now. Do it FAST! |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Nobody: 5:22am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Judybash93:Same way there are consequences for the man's legitimate kids if their dad no use his brain well. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Johnnyjohnnyman(m): 5:23am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Ganjafama: Of course I will divorce her , I will call for a family meeting next week Sunday 6 Likes |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Gistsme1(m): 5:23am On Sep 30, 2022 |
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Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by optimismlaz(m): 5:25am On Sep 30, 2022 |
[quote author=Johnnyjohnnyman post=117110120] She can't return her to her father because she is only 1 year 3 months and she is still nursing her. I can't never separate the innocent child from her mother to save my marriage. I would prefer that she leaves with the child and continue to take care of her outside of my house. Be calming down! It's not easy but don't take decision that will affect your other children negatively. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by 1234ben: 5:27am On Sep 30, 2022 |
[quote author=Starz825 post=117115204]I just went back to read all of your topics... Very interesting... You don't even write like one who didn't see the four walls of uni.... I appreciate your writings... I understood your story and here is my advice... You mentioned that you don't want divorce.. You are a good man like somebody said up there.... Now....sit your wife down..... explain everything to her.... The father of the child should come and have his daughter. Now if the father is no where to be found...adopt the girl.... Infact...... Adopt the baby...that's my advice... Everything will be settled in the future... Treat the baby as your own... That's all.. Thanks Good advice but a cheat will always be a cheat. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Judybash93(m): 5:29am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman: My man! I know what you're going through and I'll still advice that you go for a DNA test. They might be your plutonium copy but things dey happen |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by waldigit: 5:31am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Johnnyjohnnyman:This why we the religious people believe some situation in life can only be handled by divine intervention. Bros, your situation is one of such. Call your wife discuss with her about your discovery, if she disagree both of you should go for a comfirmatory DNA test. After let the real father know, if he refuses adopt the child. When he or she is 18 let him or her know the truth. Have your peace and move on. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by HRMK: 5:32am On Sep 30, 2022 |
AS A SEPTUAGENARIAN GRANDPA,I HAVE TO BE VERY FRANK WITH YOU!THE WHOLE FAULT IS YOURS!YES,100%!YOU HAD MONEY GIFT FROM YOUR BOSS,RATHER THAN TELL YOUR WIFE,YOU GAVE IT TO YOUR SISTER WHO DUPED YOU!LEAVING HOME MADE IT WORSE!MANY THINGS COULD MAKE A WIFE TO LOOK FOR HELP WHEN THE HUSBAND ABANDONS HIS FAMILY!THAT ISNT WHAT ONE CAN CALL CHEATING!YOU WERE NO MORE THERE FOR THEM!SHE HAD TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF AND THE KIDS!YOU SHOULD AV IRONED IT OUT WITH HER IMMEDIATELY YOU SUSPECTED THE PREGNANCY WASNT YOURS!ANYWAY,SHE HAS TO RETURN THE GIRL TO THE FATHER WITHOUT ANY NOISE SO AS TO SAVE HER AND YOU UNNECESSARY EMBARRASSMENT!WISHING YOU BEST OF LUCK!LIKE AFORE MENTIONED,THE WHOLE ISSUE IS YOUR FAULT!! |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Firstcitizen: 5:32am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Mennnn! This is heartbreaking oh. Why nau. Chai. I can't imagine what this brother is passing through. Take care of your mental health because it will be compromised. Chai |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Bishop(m): 5:35am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Judybash93(m): 5:36am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sweetplum:He'd be justified to walk away from the woman with his kids and get someone that'd raise them. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Judybash93(m): 5:36am On Sep 30, 2022 |
[quote author=Sweetplum post=117128595] Bad women exist but the good ones are there too[/quote I never said good women are non-existent. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Judybash93(m): 5:37am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Sweetplum:I never said good women are non-existent. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Saao(m): 5:39am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Bro when I saw your message, I was angry in my soul and I took decision to send the woman away but in second thought which I believe its the right thing to do. Tell your wife the result of the DNA, let her inform the father of the child, give him the option of taking his child, if he didn't, consider her as ur adopted child for the sake of your other children. Broken home is the most terrible thing to imagine, don't go into it. Your wife is terrible |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Johnnyjohnnyman(m): 5:39am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Judybash93: These 3 children not being mine it is the least of my worries. Why would I waste such a lot of money 130k ×3 when the truth is they are biologically mine. I rather use the money for their educations and welbeing than wasting it for dna. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by BABANGBALI: 5:39am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Jennifer663 why now? |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Mcreloaded(m): 5:43am On Sep 30, 2022 |
Online inlaws please make una take am easy on the man as he is going through a lot right now. |
Re: Unfortunately I Am Not The Father Of My Fourth Child by Judybash93(m): 5:45am On Sep 30, 2022 |
HRMK:The part where the woman got pregnant for another man is entirely on her. There are at least 30 known contraceptives that women can use to prevent such things from happening but she decided to get pregnant and also keep the baby.. "SHE HAD TO TAKE CARE OF HERSELF AND THE KIDS" I don't get this |
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