This is a very simple mathematics if she get divorced she will shoulder more responsibility if she refuse to divorce it means more children and more responsibility for her cous it obvious that dat man is an shameless idiot who can not cater for his family he will keep on demanding for more children so why not divorce him and take care of three children instead of been with him untill u finish meeting his demand maybe you most have had 5 or 6 children before meeting his demand which In my opinion means more suffering for you.

This is a very simple mathematics if she get divorced she will shoulder more responsibility if she refuse to divorce it means more children and more responsibility for her also cous it obvious that dat man is an shameless idiot who can not cater for his family he will keep on demanding for more children so why not divorce him and take care of three children instead of been with him untill u finish meeting his demand maybe you most have had 5 or 6 children before meeting his demand which In my opinion means more suffering for you. Divorce him maybe after one or two months he will com back to his senses and if he doesn't den that is how God want it.

faithfull18:

Dangerous how Who in their right minds will open their eyes and marry nonsense

A lot of women

laluski:


This story somehow doesn't add up.if she's the one foothills, why is she afraid of leave the fool and starting her new life in her own.

she is also helping with the bills not the breadwinner.

Helpout12345:

3 more kids. That man is unreasonable. If it's just one more child, I will have said the wife should give in.

it’s crazy.

Richarlison640:
This is a very simple mathematics if she get divorced she will shoulder more responsibility if she refuse to divorce it means more children and more responsibility for her cous it obvious that dat man is an shameless idiot who can not cater for his family he will keep on demanding for more children so why not divorce him and take care of three children instead of been with him untill u finish meeting his demand maybe you most have had 5 or 6 children before meeting his demand which In my opinion means more suffering for you.

this is another angle, thank you.

MufasaLion:


Even in the olden days, children don't bring wealth. That statement that "children brings wealth" is what poor people use to console themselves.

people had more kids in the olden days due to farm lands. More kids, more workers on your land.

optm:
That divorce she's so scared of, las las she'll still get it because she is married to an unreasonable and selfish man. Her reasons for not wanting more kids is very valid. If i were her, i ll be resolute in my decision. rather than bringing kids that you cannot carter for and they becoming a nuisance for lack of proper care, it's better not to birth them cos they would cause you life long pain

okay

Gerrard59:
OP should come out clean and tell us she is the one in question and not this tumbo-tumbo she is doing. Where she dey, to access Nairaland hard? I have been on NL for so long to be easily deceived.

The best I can tell you is to undergo a hysterectomy and save yourself the stress. But seriously, where did you meet such a man? If you were my sister, I would have offered you money to initiate divorce proceedings before he did. On the other hand, I will blame you for marrying him as the man is an irresponsible person, and I really loathe irresponsible people.

thank you for your opinion but I’m not the one in this story. If you go through profile you will know I post a lot of true life story.

Wittyglam:
she is also helping with the bills not the breadwinner.

I see... Then she just have to stand her ground...it'll be more stupid if she gives in to that cow

CaveAdullam:
Her reason is sound. But the mistake she made was arguing it with her husband. The moment she sensed that her husband was insistent on reproducing under a rough socioeconomic condition even after having 3 beautiful kids, she would have started using spermicidal creams or using contraceptives clandestine. There is Depo Povera and Noristerat to help her do the jobs.

Divorce is not a good option right now because she may end up taking care of the kids alone or allow them to suffer in the hands of their father and future stepmother.

Let her use her contraceptives wisely with legs wide spread.

She must not succumb to her husband's wish because she bears the cost of pregnancy alone and most times do the nurturing.

Her husband needs a medical check-up on his left and right brain hemisphere.

Common sense.

Bad guy....

Common sense no dey Common....

If she is my sister, i'll help her out with a business that will be fetching her money.

laluski:


I see... Then she just have to stand her ground...it'll be more stupid if she gives in to that cow

thank you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMlsfOcwh0Q

Ok, so this is very much a divorce that need to happen. There is not a compromise here.