A figment of the writers imagination.

Mom007:

She is not the first person to hold management position in an organization like that pls. A mean and nasty person is a mean and nasty person, its not about bank or no bank. So if it was you in ops shoes, you would keep quiet and let your brother enter into such a potentially injurious union?

Please this is not the kind of advice you should put out there especially when it's a one sided story.

You are hurt i know but learn to forgive. Dont spoil things for her. Swallow your pride.God knows how to reward her for the evil she did to you. Dont have a hand in destroying her relationship. Two wrongs dont make a right. Think twice before you act rashly. We are not all perfect.

Someone like me won’t make noise over it but I will say it there in the front of her, I will just narrate it to them as a story, tell them she’s the reason I lost that job which I know must guys there know you once left your job as a marketer
But I won’t open mouth and tell my cousin he won’t marry her, it’s he’s choice to make but I will tell him before everyone that am not part of it simple and am going my way
My own case closed

Aladdin1:
You are hurt i know but learn to forgive. Dont spoil things for her. Swallow your pride.God knows how to reward her for the evil she did to you. Dont have a hand in destroying her relationship. Two wrongs dont make a right. Think twice before you act rashly. We are not all perfect.

Wow I know you must be miss or Mrs, them them, and what happened if things later turn around in their relationship or marriage, you will wake up and tell your cousin that you would have tell him or what exactly ?
Sister that’s the worst of it, you saw the fire in the first place and keep mute
That’s evil and your cousin won’t forgive ya for that , it’s better he say it out, let the decision be his cousin’s
Learn how to do good, have seen a lot of evil people especially ladies, once they mistakenly see their self on top, come see wickedness forgetting that tomorrow is pregnant

Why such a coward. You saw her and ran away.

Is it PTSD?

udofia234:
Good morning everyone!!! I'm so so going to pay her back with the coin she paid me!!! I once worked in a micro finance bank as a marketer and my MD happen to be the relative of the owner of the company and guess what friends she's just 23 year (graduate) when I go the job I was 33 years then, guy she was even the one who employed me and she happens to know I'm also a senior graduate and older than her! this lady is so rude!!! I could remember the day a customer called her to lodge a complain which was false sh never waited to hear my own story, this lady insulted me eh! after I left her presence I went to the rest room and wept bitterly, but since there was no job I had to manage it, but this lady picks on me at any slightest mistake, I couldn't attend my brothers wedding because of her, I lost my relationship with my brother because we where very close and we planned it all together! Guys I know u won't believe this! I resigned from that work simply because she attempted to slap me when we had a little argument but thank God I was smart I dodged it, if I had my chance I would have beaten her but I can't because I'm not trained that way, so I simply resigned and relocated away from that place. To my utter amassment my mum called me that my cousin who state with is from childhood until he graduated from the university and now works with dangote was bringing his fiancee to the house to show them, I was happy and told my mum I'll come over. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this stupid, useless and God forsaking bastard of a girl that never Regarded me as anything, she humiliated me out of that place!!! I hate her so much, when they came into the house cause we where sited already waiting eagerly for them, my brother was the first to come in and then her , when our eyes met she was shocked and uncomfortable, I was so infuriated that I gave an excise and left them there, and I know her conscience is judging her already!!! I haven't told my cousin and dad the kind of lady that is about to join our family!!! And I'm bent on destroying every thing , I swear he won't marry that Jezebel of a lady!!! imagine me!!! the lady that insulted my whole life was greeting me and smiling!!! to who? guys I doubt anyone one of you will also allow this union to happen!!!

Forgive and forget.....






My foot! LoL �

GoldSantana:
Bros, make she learn lesson. Destroy it with all you've got. If your right hand no fit do am, put your left hand and your legs.

.na so !!! work has started!!!

Aklee4994:
Give your cousin your phone to read about this story and tell him to comment or hear his opinion...do this with new account

OK!!!

[quote author=udofia234 [/quote] Guy you fvcked up...You should have embarrassed her the moment she stepped in... Instead of walking out, you should have told her to leave your presence, then when she leaves, you explain everything to your people...This kinda matter is as e dey hot, now she will avoid coming to your place while all talks might fall on deaf ears...

[quote author=rickleye post=117502795]

My response would be simple- it’s either me or her in the family. You marry her, I am dead to you. [/quote



yes oh!!!

klonboi:


Brother she's not a jezebel, just because of her work attributes as a Nigerian banker?

Nigerian banks grooms staff's like that, their taste for profit is more like a taste for blood by the mosquito.

Do you know the amount of bashing she is collecting from the top for low performance?

Please allow her happiness to flow, I can promise you that you will enjoy/get favored from her wealth soonest.

haar! what are u saying!!! if she's receiving a bash from top doesn't give her the right to speak to me rudely sir, how can she attempt to slap me?

klonboi:


Ma'am please that's not enough reason for him to destroy another person's joy.

If you have worked in a Nigerian bank you will fully understand what the op went through. It's a norm in every Nigerian banks.

Pressure! pressure! pressure!

You can pressure without insult and humiliation!!!

Saintmary:


If this your rant is true, then I support you.

A nasty person will not be allowed in my circle.

Thanks baba!!! u get level

klonboi:


I don't think you know what it takes to be a banker in Nigeria.

If you do, you will never put up something like this rather you will pray for the said lady

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Does that give her the right to want to slap me?

Saintmary:


I detest arrogant people vehemently.


Pressure will not make you attempt to slap a subordinate.

Thanks my dear! she is a lady ooo! see? she knows the lady went to far

Saintmary:


I detest arrogant people vehemently.


Pressure will not make you attempt to slap a subordinate.

Thanks my dear! she is a lady ooo! see? she knows the lady went to far

klonboi:


I dey laugh you!

You never see anything.

Are we in hell already in Nigerian banks? no matter the pressure there should be a kind of respect for others abeg!!! forget pressure the girl na jezebel

SouthSouth1914:


Alright. Hope this matter gets resolved in the best amicable way. Godspeed to your family

The only way it an be settled is when the relationship is shattered

Mom007:

She is not the first person to hold management position in an organization like that pls. A mean and nasty person is a mean and nasty person, its not about bank or no bank. So if it was you in ops shoes, you would keep quiet and let your brother enter into such a potentially injurious union?

I don't think he will accept that either

GoldSantana:
my advice won't change if it was my sister. Let her reap what she sowed.

correct!!! thanks baba

zed7:
A figment of the writers imagination.

imagination in your own brain abi? see the way u think!! you must be a teen

klonboi:


Please this is not the kind of advice you should put out there especially when it's a one sided story.

The story is not one sided abeg!! the girl na Jezebel!!! shes just wicked and mean naturally

[quote author=Aladdin1 post=117507610]You are hurt i know but learn to forgive. Dont spoil things for her. Swallow your pride.God knows how to reward her for the evil she did to you. Dont have a hand in destroying her relationship. Two wrongs dont make a right. Think twice before you act rashly. We are not all perfect.[/quote


If she was remorseful she should have gotten my cell num from my mom, dad or my cousin to at least call or fix a meeting to apologize , up till now she doesn't even care!!! she's going no where I'll scatter that relationship and I'll go to any lenght

Munachimso30:
Someone like me won’t make noise over it but I will say it there in the front of her, I will just narrate it to them as a story, tell them she’s the reason I lost that job which I know must guys there know you once left your job as a marketer
But I won’t open mouth and tell my cousin he won’t marry her, it’s he’s choice to make but I will tell him before everyone that am not part of it simple and am going my way
My own case closed

hmmm!!!

As e dey hot

Munachimso30:


Wow I know you must be miss or Mrs, them them, and what happened if things later turn around in their relationship or marriage, you will wake up and tell your cousin that you would have tell him or what exactly ?
Sister that’s the worst of it, you saw the fire in the first place and keep mute
That’s evil and your cousin won’t forgive ya for that , it’s better he say it out, let the decision be his cousin’s
Learn how to do good, have seen a lot of evil people especially ladies, once they mistakenly see their self on top, come see wickedness forgetting that tomorrow is pregnant

you are very correct!!

VULCAN:
Why such a coward. You saw her and ran away.

Is it PTSD?

I did not run I only respected my parents if not?

VULCAN:
Why such a coward. You saw her and ran away.

Is it PTSD?

It's not being a coward.
Two things
1. You have time to think on a critical, inevitable way to destroy her.
2. You leave her in complete, utter shock and FEAR, of the unknown.

Aladdin1:
You are hurt i know but learn to forgive. Dont spoil things for her. Swallow your pride.God knows how to reward her for the evil she did to you. Dont have a hand in destroying her relationship. Two wrongs dont make a right. Think twice before you act rashly. We are not all perfect.

May all your children marry spouses like that lady.

Okoyeebo:

May all your children marry spouses like that lady.

He dare not say amen!!!

voidUpdate:

It's not being a coward. Two things 1. You have time to think on a critical, inevitable way to destroy her. 2. You leave her in complete, utter shock and FEAR, of the unknown.

Nice response bro