I'm 23 a girl and a graduate , spent most of my life in a boarding school , then straight to a private uni for college , I'm done with school now, I have no skill ,no job , very few friends that live far away from me and nothing else
my parents still won't let me go out or make friends but everyday I'm hearing marriage , marriage , marriage
I'm depressed , I wish they would just die and leave me alone
to think both of them eloped together against their parents wish and are now forming saints because they older is really annoying

no they do not provide for my needs, pads , toiletries , clothes ,my hair and money , every girl child needs money but my parents don't know that , if I tell them , they'll give me money to buy tissue which is unhygienic, I got lucky and found a man that covers those things for me and more but they were against that too , took my phone away and sent me back to our dry village , I live in their house and if there's food I eat but most times I lose my appetite coz I'm not happy , I wish they would disappear , one or both of them

I'm tired and I don't want to runaway , i just need advice on what to do

You have no spirit of adventure in you at all. Elope with that caring man

blackpink22:
I'm 23 a girl and a graduate , spent most of my life in a boarding school , then straight to a private uni for college , I'm done with school now, I have no skill ,no job , very few friends that live far away from me and nothing else
my parents still won't let me go out or make friends but everyday I'm hearing marriage , marriage , marriage
I'm depressed , I wish they would just die and leave me alone
to think both of them eloped together against their parents wish and are now forming saints because they older is really annoying

no they do not provide for my needs, pads , toiletries , clothes ,my hair and money , every girl child needs money but my parents don't know that , if I tell them , they'll give me money to buy tissue which is unhygienic, I got lucky and found a man that covers those things for me and more but they were against that too , took my phone away and sent me back to our dry village , I live in their house and if there's food I eat but most times I lose my appetite coz I'm not happy , I wish they would disappear , one or both of them

I'm tired and I don't want to runaway , i just need advice on what to do

You know what to do..

Have friends but have few cos people aren't loyal like before.

tommy589:
You have no spirit of adventure in you at all. Elope with that caring man

to move in with him would be trouble oh , he's living very close to our house in port Harcourt , that would be the first place they would look

Your freedom will come just chill dear
Na you go chop life pass if the freedom comes my sister


It too cold outside oh

What work COULD you do.

You are a graduate. Can you read & write? Are you computer literate? Could you teach? Be an admin assistant?

Are you seeing the man as your saviour?

Many men "save" women only to be betrayed when the woman settles outside her family home.

blackpink22:
I'm 23 a girl and a graduate , spent most of my life in a boarding school , then straight to a private uni for college , I'm done with school now, I have no skill ,no job , very few friends that live far away from me and nothing else
my parents still won't let me go out or make friends but everyday I'm hearing marriage , marriage , marriage
I'm depressed , I wish they would just die and leave me alone
to think both of them eloped together against their parents wish and are now forming saints because they older is really annoying

no they do not provide for my needs, pads , toiletries , clothes ,my hair and money , every girl child needs money but my parents don't know that , if I tell them , they'll give me money to buy tissue which is unhygienic, I got lucky and found a man that covers those things for me and more but they were against that too , took my phone away and sent me back to our dry village , I live in their house and if there's food I eat but most times I lose my appetite coz I'm not happy , I wish they would disappear , one or both of them

I'm tired and I don't want to runaway , i just need advice on what to do

Yukov:

You know what to do..

no I really don't

Yukov:

You know what to do..

no I really don't

U won't blame Dem if u ar deir only child.
Well,at 23, u shud know what to do.

cooooooks:
What work COULD you do.

You are a graduate. Can you read & write? Are you computer literate? Could you teach? Be an admin assistant?

Are you seeing the man as your saviour?

Many men "save" women only to be betrayed when the woman settles outside her family home.

yes
I'm good at computer , using Microsoft office is not a problem , i can teach too there was a school nearby , maybe I'll apply there

no I am not seeing him as my savior which is why I want to be independent too and be free

Apply to the school, staying in your house won't help.

If you have the option:
- work in a school with internet
- get a laptop
- see if you can further studies in what you studied, abroad or in Nigeria.

Good luck. You are an adult. This life we get na one, take control of your life!

blackpink22:


yes
I'm good at computer , using Microsoft office is not a problem , i can teach too there was a school nearby , maybe I'll apply there

no I am not seeing him as my savior which is why I want to be independent too and be free

Enny2013:
U won't blame Dem if u ar deir only child.
Well,at 23, u shud know what to do.

I am first born , not the only child , we are 6

blackpink22:


to move in with him would be trouble oh , he's living very close to our house in port Harcourt , that would be the first place they would look

I just want you to be bold and find yourself some adventure. It is not roller coaster out there, but at 23,if you are not an introvert, you need to have first hand experience of what life is by meeting the good, bad and ugly.

blackpink22:
I'm 23 a girl and a graduate , spent most of my life in a boarding school , then straight to a private uni for college , I'm done with school now, I have no skill ,no job , very few friends that live far away from me and nothing else
my parents still won't let me go out or make friends but everyday I'm hearing marriage , marriage , marriage
I'm depressed , I wish they would just die and leave me alone
to think both of them eloped together against their parents wish and are now forming saints because they older is really annoying

no they do not provide for my needs, pads , toiletries , clothes ,my hair and money , every girl child needs money but my parents don't know that , if I tell them , they'll give me money to buy tissue which is unhygienic, I got lucky and found a man that covers those things for me and more but they were against that too , took my phone away and sent me back to our dry village , I live in their house and if there's food I eat but most times I lose my appetite coz I'm not happy , I wish they would disappear , one or both of them

I'm tired and I don't want to runaway , i just need advice on what to do

Don't stay one place you hear
Until they shift your pant for you


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Over strict parents.
Dem be lord chosen abi na deeper life?
They are trying to protect you from fvckboiz but they can't suppress ur sex urge.
But they should give u sex education and allow u to mingle a bit, else u may get impregnanted by one low-life within ur reach or u may get wild to their disappointment.
If one bahd guy wey don smoke igbo service ur vjay, it will just be as if serpent don give u ur own apple that day and u will definitely rebel against them. lol
but try play safe to avoid std and unwanted pregnancy.

blackpink22:


I am first born , not the only child , we are 6

Ok,dear

So, you're a graduate. Have you gone for NYSC?

If you have, why did you come back to your parents house?

ThinkSmarter:
Over strict parents.
Dem be lord chosen abi na deeper life?
They are trying to protect you from fvckboiz but they can't suppress ur sex urge.
But they should give u sex education and allow u to mingle a bit, else u may get impregnanted by one low-life within ur reach or u may get wild to their disappointment.
If one bahd guy wey don smoke igbo service ur vjay, it will just be as if serpent don give u ur own apple that day and u will definitely rebel against them. lol
but try play safe to avoid std and unwanted pregnancy.

Never seen a more ironic moniker

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siofra:

Never seen a more ironic moniker

Too much vawulence

blackpink22:
I'm 23 a girl and a graduate , spent most of my life in a boarding school , then straight to a private uni for college , I'm done with school now, I have no skill ,no job , very few friends that live far away from me and nothing else
my parents still won't let me go out or make friends but everyday I'm hearing marriage , marriage , marriage
I'm depressed , I wish they would just die and leave me alone
to think both of them eloped together against their parents wish and are now forming saints because they older is really annoying

no they do not provide for my needs, pads , toiletries , clothes ,my hair and money , every girl child needs money but my parents don't know that , if I tell them , they'll give me money to buy tissue which is unhygienic, I got lucky and found a man that covers those things for me and more but they were against that too , took my phone away and sent me back to our dry village , I live in their house and if there's food I eat but most times I lose my appetite coz I'm not happy , I wish they would disappear , one or both of them

I'm tired and I don't want to runaway , i just need advice on what to do

For how long will you be subjected to this kind of depression

That man that have been there for you, why not look for him

How could you be transported to the village after graduation

Didn't you go for youth service

I know what you're going through, I'm also from that kind of a family.

My family have also kept me away from the society since I was young to a point that depression became my best friend throughout my teens, but I made a decision not to return home after completing varsity.

I remember they threatened to take everything away from me and disown me after that if I didn't come back home, I had to leave the family car that I was using on campus since it had a tracker and I didn't want them to know where I was.. I called them and informed them to come and fetch it themselves... At that moment I didn't want to face them because I knew I was gonna receive insults after insults.

But family is family, as time went by, I missed them and I decided that I was gonna take a brave step and visit them one time and to my surprise, they welcomed me with both hands.

And they finally respected my decisions in the house and understood that all I wanted was to be heard and have a space of my own where I can make my own decisions and learn from my own mistakes.

blackpink22:
I'm 23 a girl and a graduate , spent most of my life in a boarding school , then straight to a private uni for college , I'm done with school now, I have no skill ,no job , very few friends that live far away from me and nothing else
my parents still won't let me go out or make friends but everyday I'm hearing marriage , marriage , marriage
I'm depressed , I wish they would just die and leave me alone
to think both of them eloped together against their parents wish and are now forming saints because they older is really annoying

no they do not provide for my needs, pads , toiletries , clothes ,my hair and money , every girl child needs money but my parents don't know that , if I tell them , they'll give me money to buy tissue which is unhygienic, I got lucky and found a man that covers those things for me and more but they were against that too , took my phone away and sent me back to our dry village , I live in their house and if there's food I eat but most times I lose my appetite coz I'm not happy , I wish they would disappear , one or both of them

I'm tired and I don't want to runaway , i just need advice on what to do

Orgasmgiver123:

Don't stay one place you hear
Until they shift your pant for you


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Boxers you meant... all these guys that create account today with ABC stories...

Samantha123:
I know what you're going through, I'm also from that kind of a family.

My family have also kept me away from the society since I was young to a point that depression became my best friend throughout my teens, but I made a decision not to return home after completing varsity.

I remember they threatened to take everything away from me and disown me after that if I didn't come back home, I had to leave the family car that I was using on campus since it had a tracker and I didn't want them to know where I was.. I called them and informed them to come and fetch it themselves... At that moment I didn't want to face them because I knew I was gonna receive insults after insults.

But family is family, as time went by, I missed them and I decided that I was gonna take a brave step and visit them one time and to my surprise, they welcomed me with both hands.

And they finally respected my decisions in the house and understood that all I wanted was to be heard and have a space of my own where I can make my own decisions and learn from my own mistakes.

I only have one challenge , leaving my siblings behind , like I said my parents don't provide for our needs , and we're all girls,they just j
keep a roof on our head and we eat whatever we see in the house , if I leave , my sisters won't be able to cope , I'm basically the third parent in the house and my man helped out a lot , I don't why know they were against that too , maybe coz he's from a different tribe

i think I'll just disappear for a year or two and try to get my hands on a job , but moving in with him is much worse ,coz its not far , it won't end well oh , I'll look for a job first before I go anywhere , I don't want to remain like this by next year

Well, I'm the last born of the family and I didn't have any younger siblings to worry about.

But in as much as you may feel like a third parent to your siblings, you're not their mother or their father and they're not your responsibility.

If the parents were no more, I'd understand.. but you're still young and have your entire future ahead of you, you still need to figure yourself since your parents never did gave you that opportunity to be you and do you.

You leaving your nest for a while will give them a chance to think of the kind of parents they've been to you.. But before you leave, let them know how you feel of their ways of parenting and how much it has affected you..

And I wish you all the best in your job hunting..

blackpink22:


I only have one challenge , leaving my siblings behind , like I said my parents don't provide for our needs , and we're all girls,they just j
keep a roof on our head and we eat whatever we see in the house , if I leave , my sisters won't be able to cope , I'm basically the third parent in the house and my man helped out a lot , I don't why know they were against that too , maybe coz he's from a different tribe

i think I'll just disappear for a year or two and try to get my hands on a job , but moving in with him is much worse ,coz its not far , it won't end well oh , I'll look for a job first before I go anywhere , I don't want to remain like this by next year

Stephenmoka4:
Boxers you meant... all these guys that create account today with ABC stories...

Lol abi oh

frozen70:


For how long will you be subjected to this kind of depression

That man that have been there for you, why not look for him

How could you be transported to the village after graduation

Didn't you go for youth service

Good question... Didnt she make friends in the uni too?

siofra:
So, you're a graduate. Have you gone for NYSC?

If you have, why did you come back to your parents house?

Pls, how can one go for Nysc and not return home. I'm thinking of that already, even though I'm in my penultimate year, but I can foresee that life at home after NYSC will be hell for me. I don't have the courage to face that. I'm 23 as well

OP is being caged by her parents and she’s not happy about it.

siofra:


Never seen a more ironic moniker

I am quick to realise when someone is emotional due to ugly life experiences and challenges.
Sorry my dear.

siofra:
So, you're a graduate. Have you gone for NYSC?

If you have, why did you come back to your parents house?

That sounds funny.