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Should I expose him ? by oldienavie: 4:33am On Oct 19, 2022 |
I have payed keen attention to our behaviour and society and its hard to argue that the black race is not cursed. We fail to learn from the mistakes of our fathers and continue to repeat the same cycle thus stagnating and refusing to evolve, the oyinbo man would evaluate the life of those that have gone before him and adapt and thats how he has progressed. I currently live in France and my caucasian friend just told me something today that broke my heart and don't know whether to ruin this Naija guy life. She is married to a Naija guy who from my investigation just needed the oyinbo for papers. But that's not the issue, this lady asked me if it is normal for Nigerian men to beat their wives. This stupid guy without papers has been beating his wife, this is very sad and I am trying to really manage my emotions. My wife wants me to tell the lady the truth so that she can report and expose him(I found out the guy has a family in NIgeria).. I wasn't going to involve myself in the matter but what the lady told me today really provoked me. What is wrong with black people in general, why are we always behaving in this manner, how can someone take you in and feed, clothe and support you yet you are assualting her despite that you do not have papers and you can be deported if she goes to the police. Do you guys think I should expose ? I don't want to get involved but my wife is putting pressure on me. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I expose him ? by PoliteActivist: 5:21am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Have you considered that may be the girl likes to be beaten and he's the only one man enough to risk jail to give her what she craves, and that's why she is with him? And that she actually loves him for it, and nothing anyone exposes can change that - and that he knows it??!! 5 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by samsegs(m): 5:27am On Oct 19, 2022 |
@OP, u better mind ur biz,,.. She knows what she's gaining with him... D guy sha no use Juju hold her.... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I expose him ? by bibianna(f): 5:32am On Oct 19, 2022 |
See something say something! |
Re: Should I expose him ? by dawnomike(m): 5:32am On Oct 19, 2022 |
He is holding her spiritually with African voodoo 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by sisisioge: 5:58am On Oct 19, 2022 |
All these low intelligent oyinbos should stop disturbing people's peace jare. Even if it is in the guy's culture to batter his wife, is it now in the wife's culture to accept it? Abeg! She should swerve! Some women are just destined to die in the hands of men. Whew! 5 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Cutehector(m): 6:05am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Please proceed to report. It is called whistleblowing and it is legal. 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by RoyalBlu(f): 6:07am On Oct 19, 2022 |
He must have manipulated her into thinking beating her is for her own good and a proof that he cares about her Cowardly man he is. It's better you convince her to report him herself. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Xxx123xxx(m): 6:10am On Oct 19, 2022 |
oldienavie:..Quickly please, the guy has worked hard for what he's about to get. Refusal to the proper thing in this case will be seen as aiding and abating his appalling behaviour. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Jennylove21(f): 6:18am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Always stand and speak out the truth 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by caesymore(m): 6:21am On Oct 19, 2022 |
I have payed keen attention to our behaviour and society and its hard to argue that the black race is not cursed. We fail to learn from the mistakes of our fathers and continue to repeat the same cycle thus stagnating and refusing to evolve, the oyinbo man would evaluate the life of those that have gone before him and adapt and thats how he has progressed. OP, I believe say as you don enter Obodo Oyinbo you just dey talk anyhow about the black race and I dey on my early morning nush like this e don vex me. I had to read through cause of the bolden and I ask, all these you wrote about this Man how is the behavior exclusive to the black race ![]() you stated the life of a senseless opportunist and not a black Man, mind you if you mingle in their business in regards to the naija based wife na en be say you done turn Oyinbo wey no dey mind their business and that I have always seen as a white Mans curse. Be properly guided OP. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by general111(m): 6:22am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Omo mind your budiness oh.. Such a person will kill you if he discovers you sold him out. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Mindlog: 6:24am On Oct 19, 2022 |
I would because I have done such. I used to have a neighbour, a Nigerian woman with their 2 daughters who lived in the same apartment block with me. She relocated from Nigeria to the UK with her 2 children on a work visa last year August and was so lively until her husband joined them in January, this year and things changed. One could easily observe the change in the woman and their children as they became withdrawn. The woman was collecting beatings and did well in covering it up, twice I have seen their Pastor and his wife visit them for reconciliation. I had also observed the kids lurking around the lobby looking scared while their parents were fighting inside the apartment with music on. I finally did call the Police to report the man and the impact his presence has been on his wife and their children. The Police came but the woman covered up for her husband and they left without arresting him. What finally nailed him and got him arrested was the school their children attended finding out that he beats the children as they had different ages of bruises in hidden parts of their bodies and the children recounting to their school counselor how their father also regularly beats their mother. 10 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Joey4321: 6:37am On Oct 19, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: Wow |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Juoflife1(f): 7:22am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Tell the woman the truth. It is then left for her to report or not |
Re: Should I expose him ? by PoliteActivist: 7:23am On Oct 19, 2022 |
RoyalBlu: Who is manipulating whom? They are not in some African country. They both KNOW that as soon as she opens her mouth he'd be in jail, then deported. What tremendous power that gives her over him. Manipulate a man into such a position and you have him by the balls! 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by faithfull18(f): 7:33am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Nawa oo. |
Re: Should I expose him ? by DontBullshitMe: 7:43am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Sounds unbelievable IMO. Caucasian woman allows a black (probably undocumented) immigrant beat the hell out of her? Really? Is she fat? Is she disabled? |
Re: Should I expose him ? by oldienavie: 8:16am On Oct 19, 2022 |
DontBullshitMe:Yes she is fat. Many Caucasians are on the fat side. But she isnt bad looking at all. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Raalsalghul: 9:35am On Oct 19, 2022 |
oldienavie: Is she not aware of the laws in France? Does she not know the power she wields by reporting him to the police? Something else might be at play here and I'd advise you stay out of it. |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Ganjafama(m): 9:44am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Mindlog:How did he end up? Was he deported? |
Re: Should I expose him ? by LagBae(f): 10:06am On Oct 19, 2022 |
oldienavie: Please expose him with immediate effect, I beg you. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Richy4(m): 10:52am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Pardon my ignorance...But I need to know what you were driving at... What is the truth that you really wanted to expose here I just want to know? Are you implying that there's a place in the world where it was normal or ok for a man to hit a woman or a woman to hit a man?.. If the woman in question is tired of staying in an abusive relationship, she knows what to do... Stay out of their relationship buddy...How you managed to know that she cloths and feeds him is another matter.. And please stop making it look like it was a black or race thing... Domestic violence knows no race or gender...Oyibo dey do domestic violence even Asians... 4 Likes |
Re: Should I expose him ? by PoliteActivist: 11:48am On Oct 19, 2022 |
Richy4: @bolded, the HUGE difference is that in a country like Nigeria you can happily get away with beating your wife, while in a place like France the mere allegation will have you locked up while things are investigated 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Mercury12(m): 12:00pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Even if you wanna report him do so without the wife's knowledge because she will blame you when everything went south and you might hate yourself for not minding your business. Nah husband and wife matter o. So u know. Approach with caution 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Richy4(m): 12:20pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: You are correct.. That's why I was wondering OP's motives... I might be wrong though but based on my observations, some Nigerians abroad are very fond of meddling into people's relationships especially when a Nigerian brother is involved with a non-African woman.... They quickly became relationship experts, advisers and defenders.... But when the Nigerian man gets involved with an African woman but non-Nigerian, you will never see them...I don't know what to call that behavior ..eye service or something ... The woman in question I believe knows the law and how to call the cops since she was 4yrs..They teach them emergency numbers from nursery school... if she got the capacity to sponsor someone to stay, she should know what to do...I believe she got friends as well... In my opinion, I find it disgusting when a Nigerian brother or sister starts talking to a white woman about their relationship instead of talking to their fellow Nigerians to behave and act right... 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by PoliteActivist: 12:43pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Richy4: Human psychology is complex indeed. Do you know that some big men in authority secretly pay a woman (called dominatrix) to whip them and humiliate them? Likewise there are women who PAY men to be treated as their slaves to the extent of leading them around on a hidden leach. If you see it you'd say the poor woman is being abused. So, things are not always what they seem! |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Mindlog: Pls tell me he was deported with immediate effect ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Richy4(m): 1:10pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You have been watching too much porn buddy ![]() Does that thing really exist? I mean I understand that sometimes partners do some bedroom role play like call 'me daddy'/ playing the stripper or a nurse/ cops in the bedroom to spice their sex life... but how can a real human in his/her right mind accept to be humiliated or abused? |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Saintmary(f): 1:25pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
sisisioge: Indeed this trend is becoming annoying. It's becoming common for cases of domestic violence to keep cropping up on social media, and it's becoming a pesky distraction I no longer want to be bothered with. Personally, I can't stand these entitled sub-humans who feel the need to beat up a woman to feel normal, but I feel rage when I see their wives refusing to leave! Those commenting "God help us" are probably also getting pummeled at home too. How can anyone normalize this nonsense for God's sake. Nitori Olorun. When will these people start realising that it's not normal? 1 Like |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Saintmary(f): 1:29pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: If he stays quiet, and she dies, her blood will be on your head because you advised him to keep quiet. |
Re: Should I expose him ? by Saintmary(f): 1:30pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
oldienavie: Take her to the police station and have her report him ASAP. |
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