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Re: Should I expose him ? by PoliteActivist: 1:31pm On Oct 19, 2022
Richy4:


cheesy grin grin cheesy
You have been watching too much porn buddycheesy...
Does that thing really exist? I mean I understand that sometimes partners do some bedroom role play like call 'me daddy'/ playing the stripper or a nurse/ cops in the bedroom to spice their sex life... but how can a real human in his/her right mind accept to be humiliated or abused?

Well, the below is from New York Times, so you know it is true. Then their are those who worship feet, love smelling fart, even eating shit. Humans are complex

Re: Should I expose him ? by Richy4(m): 1:51pm On Oct 19, 2022
PoliteActivist:


Well, the below is from New York Times, so you know it is true. Then their are those who worship feet, love smelling fart, even eating shit. Humans are complex

I am speechless buddy... Indeed humans are complex being... But don't always rely or bank on New York Times based on their publications... They publish fake stories sometimes.. smiley

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Re: Should I expose him ? by PoliteActivist: 4:05pm On Oct 19, 2022
Richy4:


I am speechless buddy... Indeed humans are complex being... But don't always rely or bank on New York Times based on their publications... They publish fake stories sometimes.. smiley

Well, the Times is regarded as the Newspaper of Record. They have A LOT to lose by publishing non-factual or incorrect info, unlike, say, the Nigerian Guardian!

Re: Should I expose him ? by Richy4(m): 5:42pm On Oct 19, 2022
PoliteActivist:


Well, the Times is regarded as the Newspaper of Record. They have A LOT to lose by publishing non-factual or incorrect info, unlike, say, the Nigerian Guardian!

You can google New York Times and fake news and publications.. you might just be surprised smiley
Re: Should I expose him ? by PoliteActivist: 5:49pm On Oct 19, 2022
Richy4:


You can google New York Times and fake news and publications.. you might just be surprised smiley

I Google Newspaper of Record and NYT popped up. There has to be a place to go to get a true record of history as it happened. NYT happens to be it in this era. They are one paper under obligation to keep accurate record of history
Re: Should I expose him ? by Mindlog: 5:59pm On Oct 19, 2022
Richy4:


cheesy grin grin cheesy
You have been watching too much porn buddycheesy...
Does that thing really exist? I mean I understand that sometimes partners do some bedroom role play like call 'me daddy'/ playing the stripper or a nurse/ cops in the bedroom to spice their sex life... but how can a real human in his/her right mind accept to be humiliated or abused?

He is absolutely right as Dominatrix is real as it falls within sadomasochism, you don't want to hear stuffs nor have an inkling what some Psychiatrists deal with on a daily basis when it comes to sexuality. wink

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Re: Should I expose him ? by 9japride(m): 6:07pm On Oct 19, 2022
My advice to you is to mind your business and leave them alone. It's like you don't understand the attitude of those in love. When those lovers go to their bedroom, they will gossip about you and you will finally become their enemy. Every adult should be responsible for he's/her decisions.

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Re: Should I expose him ? by Richy4(m): 6:12pm On Oct 19, 2022
Mindlog:


He is absolutely right as Dominatrix is real as it falls within sadomasochism, you don't want to hear stuffs nor have an inkling what some Psychiatrists deal with on a daily basis when it comes to sexuality. wink
Your profession must be really exciting... Listening to parental guidance is advised kind of stories and getting paid grin

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Re: Should I expose him ? by pocohantas(f): 6:25pm On Oct 19, 2022
Saintmary:



Indeed this trend is becoming annoying.

It's becoming common for cases of domestic violence to keep cropping up on social media, and it's becoming a pesky distraction I no longer want to be bothered with.

Same here. E good say OP and his unending topics na man. If say na woman, they’ll say he wants to teach the battered wife feminism. Make she dey there.

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Re: Should I expose him ? by Rexymania(m): 8:14pm On Oct 19, 2022
Mtcheew which kind wahala be this? Have you ever seen her beat her wife?
Re: Should I expose him ? by voidUpdate(m): 9:06pm On Oct 19, 2022
Tell her Nigeria is divided into different tribes.
A certain culture promotes beating their wives.
But if she doesn't like it, she can divorce the man and take 50% of his assets.

Then she can re marry another Nigerian who is not from his tribe.

Problem solved. You just switched the gear into her hand to make the decision. It's her marriage.
Re: Should I expose him ? by begoniaa: 9:30pm On Oct 19, 2022
So you don finally marry?
Re: Should I expose him ? by Saintmary(f): 10:58pm On Oct 19, 2022
pocohantas:


Same here. E good say OP and his unending topics na man. If say na woman, they’ll say he wants to teach the battered wife feminism. Make she dey there.

At the end of the day, we will know who is wiser:

Those who stayed in abusive relationships or,

Those who left to stay alive for their kids.
Re: Should I expose him ? by oldienavie: 11:01pm On Oct 19, 2022
begoniaa:
So you don finally marry?
Since when ? tongue tongue tongue
Re: Should I expose him ? by RoyalBlu(f): 9:06am On Oct 20, 2022
PoliteActivist:


Who is manipulating whom? They are not in some African country. They both KNOW that as soon as she opens her mouth he'd be in jail, then deported. What tremendous power that gives her over him. Manipulate a man into such a position and you have him by the balls!

... "this lady asked me if it is normal for Nigerian men to beat their wives"

I drew my line of thought from the above statement the op made actually.

The man would have been making her feel that's how it's supposed to be, given her question?

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Re: Should I expose him ? by PoliteActivist: 11:13am On Oct 20, 2022
RoyalBlu:


... "this lady asked me if it is normal for Nigerian men to beat their wives"

I drew my line of thought from the above statement the op made actually.

The man would have been making her feel that's how it's supposed to be, given her question?


Are they in Nigeria?
So if say, a Nigerian woman in Nigeria is being beaten by her French husband, instead of doing something about it, she'd go about asking if it is normal in France!
Re: Should I expose him ? by Gloriagee(f): 12:50pm On Oct 20, 2022
kiss

sisisioge:
All these low intelligent oyinbos should stop disturbing people's peace jare. Even if it is in the guy's culture to batter his wife, is it now in the wife's culture to accept it? Abeg! She should swerve! Some women are just destined to die in the hands of men. Whew!
Re: Should I expose him ? by obinna58(m): 5:30pm On Oct 20, 2022
Believe it or not she loved him for his rough nature and that's what attracted her to him.

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