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GOD is Good by CeeJeckydivah: 6:59pm On Oct 22, 2022
All the time

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Re: GOD is Good by taylor88(m): 7:00pm On Oct 22, 2022
Madam if marriage don tire you Abeg you talk



E sure me die say you dey cheat or your husband don lose him job money no dey again

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Re: GOD is Good by God1000(m): 7:01pm On Oct 22, 2022
This is serious, are you guys at loggerheads?

But you are legally married to him, why denying him sex?

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Re: GOD is Good by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 7:04pm On Oct 22, 2022
Madam does your husband have money?

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Re: GOD is Good by cherishmichael: 7:04pm On Oct 22, 2022
Mtcheew!!!

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Re: GOD is Good by taylor88(m): 7:05pm On Oct 22, 2022
This woman no be better person
God1000:
This is serious, are you guys at loggerheads?

But you are legally married to him, why denying him of sex


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Re: GOD is Good by doggedfighter(f): 7:06pm On Oct 22, 2022
These ones are room mates.



Their marriage is long gone !





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Re: GOD is Good by EmahBoss(f): 7:11pm On Oct 22, 2022
Why have you been denying him sex?

Forcing his way through you is wrong, but your lack of sex brought out the hidden beast in him. Well, I don't think Nigerian police will take this matter seriously.

Do you feel raped and violated like a real rape victim or you feel pained based on the issues on ground before?
I doubt you do, that because you know he is your husband.

Rape is more traumatizing when a stranger or someone you have never laid with forced his way into you...

Do you really feel raped ?

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Re: GOD is Good by Jesuisbelle(f): 7:12pm On Oct 22, 2022
Consent and communication are essential for healthy relationships and sex. Go to couples counselling and learn to communicate with each other

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Re: GOD is Good by advanceDNA: 7:37pm On Oct 22, 2022
Why do you women just feel that they can withhold sex??....
Agreed...you and your husband dey fight ..
But u no dey chop him food??
U no dey use light he pay for??....
U no dey live for the house he paid for.??

Similarly..sex should not have break...Shift pant one side and have sex with each other

..if you want to continue fight after oragasm... u can continue your fight....

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Re: GOD is Good by Starz825(m): 7:40pm On Oct 22, 2022
Na two of huna Sabi...

I don tire to dey advice people

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Re: GOD is Good by ezugegere(m): 7:47pm On Oct 22, 2022
Call him home and rape him back na!
Wicked woman

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Re: GOD is Good by Johnnyboy6757(m): 8:02pm On Oct 22, 2022
CeeJeckydivah:


We've not had sex for a while, then some days ago he came back from work and forced himself on me. I told him no but he kept going on. When he finished he left me like that without saying anything & left the house. He hasn't returned since then.

Does he feel guilty & sorry for what he did or Should i still go ahead to report to the police.

I'm not happy.

hmmm me I think say na efcc or anti cultist u for report am give. How u see am??

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Re: GOD is Good by obiekunie01: 8:05pm On Oct 22, 2022
useless evil woman!

am very sure u r the architect of the misfortune that has befallen him!

After all he was doing fine before he married you then after u entered his house everything begin to fall apart!

now u want to kill him with konji bc you are getting it from the house boy!

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Re: GOD is Good by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:12pm On Oct 22, 2022
CeeJeckydivah:


We've not had sex for a while, then some days ago he came back from work and forced himself on me. I told him no but he kept going on. When he finished he left me like that without saying anything & left the house. He hasn't returned since then.

Does he feel guilty & sorry for what he did or Should i still go ahead to report to the police.

I'm not happy.


Why are you asking us whether to go ahead with reporting ?

Look at this, whether he raped you or not, the moment you report him, thats also the end if your marriage

So you have two side to think
about end of marriage or keep it under
the wrap

Dont get me wrong to say rape dont exist in marriages, its there but its very complex married women to report
Re: GOD is Good by Nobody: 8:14pm On Oct 22, 2022
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Re: GOD is Good by ibechris(m): 8:25pm On Oct 22, 2022
If u report him to the men in uniform,what would they do?...they will make caricature of u and still release your husband then,the part two of the matter would then start.

Hope after that the marriage will survive.

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Re: GOD is Good by ANTAX99: 8:33pm On Oct 22, 2022
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Re: GOD is Good by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:48pm On Oct 22, 2022
ANTAX99:
How can you even deny your husband sex?

If he gets it from outside now you'll come here to start crying foul.

He requested and you blantantly refused.

Who are you keeping for ?

If he is not getting it from you who are you giving it to?

What is your use in his live and how have you helped in uplifting him?

As far as you are married, your body belongs to him just like his belongs to you.

Woman, better behave.

If you've fallen out if love, then move on and spay the man the trauma.

You want him to be kneeling down for you before giving him sex.

Sex that most times the man does the hard work while you people enjoy the more.

Same man you said ' I do' to.

You want to report him to the police that he raped you.

It's a matter of time that man will start having it elsewhere.

Stay there.

Ordinary sex that some younger girls are even begging to get .

Just imagine.

Nonsense!!!


things of sex are complex some people like you seem not to understand it

Forced sex bruises the woman's vagina,

There lots of good reason why a woman can deny sex, for starts no one is fit 24/7 365 days

We get tired with busy life, one being your wife it doesnt she is ever ready 24/7 365 days

Lets put aside those who deny sex to fix, protest or a tool

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Re: GOD is Good by Kobojunkie: 9:12pm On Oct 22, 2022
doggedfighter:
These ones are room mates.
Their marriage is long gone !
I get roommates and roommates at least respect each other's. boundaries.... what OP described is nothing like that at all..lipsrsealed
Re: GOD is Good by faithfull18(f): 9:20pm On Oct 22, 2022
obiekunie01:
useless evil woman!

am very sure u r the architect of the misfortune that has befallen him!

After all he was doing fine before he married you then after u entered his house everything begin to fall apart!

now u want to kill him with konji bc you are getting it from the house boy!
Are you the husband because you sound like you are

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Re: GOD is Good by Nobody: 9:27pm On Oct 22, 2022
You deny YOUR HUSBAND sex
Be like say you dey mad sef

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Re: GOD is Good by Nicepoker(m): 9:27pm On Oct 22, 2022
This post has won the most useless thread of the weekend. grin

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Re: GOD is Good by ANTAX99: 9:32pm On Oct 22, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


things of sex are complex some people like you seem not to understand it

Forced sex bruises the woman's vagina,

There lots of good reason why a woman can deny sex, for starts no one is fit 24/7 365 days

We get tired with busy life, one being your wife it doesnt she is ever ready 24/7 365 days

Lets put aside those who deny sex to fix, protest or a tool

Did you read this part " we've not had sex for a while'?

How can a married couple not have sex for while when the women is not nursing a new born child or in her monthly cycle.?

If she said she just put to bed, then I can understand, but not had sex for a while as husband and wife living together? This can't understand.

If they have unresolved issues, then seek a solution.

I repeat, the more you deny him sex for no justifiable reason, the closer he gets to having it elsewhere.




Re: GOD is Good by ANTAX99: 9:37pm On Oct 22, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


things of sex are complex some people like you seem not to understand it

Forced sex bruises the woman's vagina,

There lots of good reason why a woman can deny sex, for starts no one is fit 24/7 365 days

We get tired with busy life, one being your wife it doesnt she is ever ready 24/7 365 days

Lets put aside those who deny sex to fix, protest or a tool






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Re: GOD is Good by DontBullshitMe: 9:39pm On Oct 22, 2022
It is legally impossible for a man to rape his wife in Nigeria.

Note : I don't condone rape. Just stating facts.

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Re: GOD is Good by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:51pm On Oct 22, 2022
ANTAX99:




Did you read this part " we've not had sex for a while'?

How can a married couple not have sex for while when the women is not nursing a new born child or in her monthly cycle.?

If she said she just put to bed, then I can understand, but not had sex for a while as husband and wife living together? This can't understand.

If they have unresolved issue or a medical condition, then no issues. But if you are just deliberately denying him sex while both of you are still married, then you are committing grave sin before God and man.

I repeat, the more you deny him sex for no justifiable reason, the closer he gets to having it elsewhere

Even if they had not had sec for a while is that reason he had to rape or force his wife ?

Both hubby and wife should have talked over why there is no sex in the house and resolve the issue or understand their difference

Yes women use sex a tool to communicate, through denying or giving it

The woman should have mentioned her own reason or undestanding why their is no sex in the house

The point is you dont commit a crime to get what you want

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Re: GOD is Good by gulfer: 10:04pm On Oct 22, 2022
Please go to the police station, this çould be the chance to ring all the changes required to that marriage undecided undecided undecided undecided

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Re: GOD is Good by obiekunie01: 10:06pm On Oct 22, 2022
faithfull18:

Are you the husband because you sound like you are

are you the evil woman?

you really sound like you are! tongue tongue

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Re: GOD is Good by Niom(m): 10:14pm On Oct 22, 2022
He has right over you. Nothing like rape there. Was the police there when he paid your dowry

If you are tired of the marriage you seek divorce....

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Re: GOD is Good by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:18pm On Oct 22, 2022
Niom:
He has right over you. Nothing like rape there. Was the police there when he paid your dowry

If you are tired of the marriage you seek divorce....

explain the "Right Over You"
Re: GOD is Good by James289(f): 11:20pm On Oct 22, 2022
You need to get to the local police station and report him, it's that simple.

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