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Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by ORAFA(m): 10:56am On Oct 25, 2022
osazsky:
Y adults they give advice to someone is not willing to learn...y create a topic if u have a reply to all suggestion..bk then nl used to be an Avenue to learn ..I think sun should put it up for sale..how does marrying her or not affect us
Don't mind the idiot.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Exceed15: 11:06am On Oct 25, 2022
Try separate emotions and reality first?
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 11:09am On Oct 25, 2022
Exceed15:
Try separate emotions and reality first?
Many posters thinks I’m selfish lol, we’ve been apart for 3yrs now and still apart, something lead me to this discussion tho.

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Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Zionmdde: 11:20am On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:

Is she happy if you are ? And IVF is close to %85 success rate read up on it. And more also in your case it’s different, but the fact remains you attempted it for love. I repeat their won’t be any sickle cell child given birth to, No


I have two options, a sound child or be both stop


You got my points now?
Am sorry bro, I contacted a consultant at the Bridge Hospital. I spoke with several consultants on that issue, u dont just go online and take statistics. The that is why those Hospitals give percentage discount for 2nd and 3rd trials
There is no 85% success. Even Egypt that has the highest in Africa is 60% unless u are planning overseas. Love is shaking u Uncontrollably. Please take a stock of risks and benefits before going into wat u want to go into
Abortions can pose a life threat to ur wife.

I have seen sickle cell children, they are the sweetest souls on earth, imagine watching those sweet souls suffer. A doctor once told me, SS will erase that love in ur head. Be wise
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Pootle: 11:23am On Oct 25, 2022
life, i had this experienced...we both cried but luckily for me a rare gem was waiting for me in the corner, that made her extra mad cause she felt i did not think on it much but man gats move on in life menh. i do advice young guys to ask for genotype stutus before a relationship get very serious my experience wasnt good at all.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Poleski: 11:23am On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

Genotype is a very important health data. You shouldn't ignore it if you don't want to produce a baby that will forever be sick.

Sickle Cell Anaemia is a life-threatening disease that has no cure, but you can stop it from killing you. Anyone who has this disease can live a normal life if they take care of their health.

Another thing is that it is exhausting to take care of a sickle cell baby, both financially and emotionally.

Check out this data below and learn why genotype is vital.

AA + AS = AA and AS babies.
AA + SS = AS babies.
AA + AA = AA babies.
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AS + AS = AA, AS and SS babies.
AS + SS = AS and SS babies.
AS + AA = AA and AS babies.
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SS + AS = AS and SS babies.
SS + SS = SS babies.
SS + AA = AS babies.

SS is what you don't want your baby to have. If you're AS, avoid SS and AS at all cost. If you're SS, avoid SS and AS at all cost. An AA can marry an AS or SS.

If everyone takes these precautions, SS will eventually be eradicated for good and AS will be the next.

I lost three siblings to this disease. So I know what I'm talking about. My parents were both AS (they shouldn't have married). I'm AS while my wife is AA. Don't make the same mistake my parents made.

If you're rich and can afford a huge medical bill, and you know a very good hospital, you can avoid producing SS babies even if you and your partner are either AS + AS or SS + AS.

Good luck.

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Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by ccollins(m): 11:24am On Oct 25, 2022
Freshgrace4life:
I lost two of my classmates back then in secondary school through sickle cell disease ,they were both in SSS 3 ,one died before our WEAC ,the other one was after our WAEC,it wasn't so easy for them o . In relationship is better you get to know your genotypes before anything serious or both of you should go for a test ..
is the school they attended in akure ondo state? I know one that happened when I was in secondary school
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by aiyornim: 11:36am On Oct 25, 2022
Maybe some time, some day, go to the hospital for all those good samarittan visits and what you'll see will change your mind about proceeding with your marriage to your AS girlfriend. When the child suffers everyone suffers. It'll test the bonds of your marriage, it'll test your faith in your creator. But having said all theses, there's a way around it. You can do what is called a gene selection. That I'd they'll fertilise plenty of your girlfriend's eggs with your sperms and when they're fertilised and ready to become a baby, they'll test them to give you the ones with the superior genes and free of the SS gene.
If you love yourself too much and you want to go ahead, here's the solution
Want to know more about this? Head over to your playstore and download the Outpost Health platform app and speak to a reproductive specialist. Don't sleep on this opportunity o

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Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by surrogatesng: 11:40am On Oct 25, 2022
Surrogacy and Ivf
Romanoff:


What's the subject of the discussion?
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Onyi90(m): 11:44am On Oct 25, 2022
This is the reason we are advice to check our genotype at the earliest stage of relationship.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by CosticSodar: 11:52am On Oct 25, 2022
dawnomike:
It is painful but you both have to let go... Trust me, you do not want to bring your lovely kids to the world to suffer the pains of been 'AS'. Please, let go!


Please what is wrong with AS??
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:14pm On Oct 25, 2022
What's her opinion about this?

Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 12:15pm On Oct 25, 2022
surrogatesng:
Surrogacy and Ivf

Okay. Send me a PM please. Hope that is convenient for you. I'll reply asap.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by ObiaboAdoka(m): 12:17pm On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?
Y u no do d genotype all dis while. U have delayed DAT lady. Marry her cus u av over used her kpekus dat if any man marry's her it will take him years to counter ur banging. Do d needful.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Maliqcious: 12:19pm On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:

We have AA AS then SS options for us, so which of them is a follow come disease? Don’t forget we have people on this forum with same blood, and why narrowing it down to the last option, forgetting our first child can be AA and we done . Lol we should stop been primitive in this part of the world, so I should dump someone with prospects at all because I want be having babies.
Oga as you know what to do why you come ask na? Na your type they do like them know but know no nothing. How can I seek for advice and be wiser then the advice I seek.. E be like you they mad.. Go and marry you soulmate and for the records I know a young woman who have to break up with her man of 4years because of this in August. Come here they stress person.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Lookingback: 12:21pm On Oct 25, 2022
As soon as you meet someone you think you would like to date or have a relationship with ,enquiries about Genotype should be made to avoid this kind of suitation.

Am here searching for AA lady for a relationship.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Freshgrace4life(f): 12:25pm On Oct 25, 2022
ccollins:
is the school they attended in akure ondo state? I know one that happened when I was in secondary school
Nope ! It happened in Lagos State..
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by lrman(m): 12:29pm On Oct 25, 2022
linearity:


Both of you might have a point here, unless both of you are taking absolute positions.

Sickle Cell screening through IVF for Sickle Cell Disease or trait is not 50/50 chance, it is not Zero chance and it is not 100% either.

The screening only reduces the chances of implementing embryo with Suckle Cell trait or diseases. IVF clinics will disclose this off front to you or put them in their fine prints.

As a result of the chance not being 100% many IVF clinics even after their screening implants many embryos that have passed the screening test into the woman and monitor them as the develop and have to come back to eliminate aka murder the ones that fall-through or reduce overall healthy embryo to the number of desired kids.

Exactly...and now why should the op go through such stress when he can simply walk away from the relationship and avoid all these unnecessary stress he wants to put himself into ??
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Raysleek: 12:32pm On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?
Ivf
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Ologundudu2020: 12:43pm On Oct 25, 2022
lrman:


Exactly...and now why should the op go through such stress when he can simply walk away from the relationship and avoid all these unnecessary stress he wants to put himself into ??
Unnecessary stress just to produce a single baby with ur suppose life partner Alright I grab y’all

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Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by sanya4good(m): 12:54pm On Oct 25, 2022
OP it's you and your spouse that will suffer the consequences if you go ahead with the wedding and not the people.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Amiee99(f): 12:55pm On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?

There's IVF and PGD
It's fairly common now and also quite affordable
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Lookingback: 1:01pm On Oct 25, 2022
Op, I beg you to abort mission now, it will be difficult but you will thank everyone here later.

Go on a visit to any sickel cell center in any hospital, then you will understand better.

While growing up As a Sickle cell patient, I experience excruciating pains inside my bone, joints waist etc and sleepless night whenever I have crisis. But I thank God for today .
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by GboyegaD(m): 1:36pm On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:

I knew about the IVF where the foetus get tested before growing, and that’s the only slimmer chance I’ve been holding unto, I heard it’s cost around 2-4m or so. Believe me you we’ve have to do than growing babies and we both have more to lose leaving each other.

You could go to Sickle Cell Foundation in your state of residence to get more information with respect to your options.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by dazzlingd(m): 1:53pm On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:

Yea I have the funds, the last I checked I’m doing fine alone.

About chances nah, I’m not taking chances I’m only trying to leave longer while using my brain, you are a lady, you won’t understand tho.

About conscience, nah! I’m a hard thinker, life is not always run on conscience but decisions, the outcome is what matters, tho my only fear is later after all these process, I don’t want to be unfortunate to go and have an ss. That’s my worries Ma

I like the way u think, u have content in the head. With the way u ignored the distractions on the thread and focused on the issue.
I hope u think It through and weigh your options rationally with pros and cons

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Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by egbedox: 1:57pm On Oct 25, 2022
I learnt something new from you. Thank you

Romanoff:
If you are rich, you can opt for IVF so they can do selective implantation via advanced NIPT screening for the sickle cell trait.

If you can't afford it, I don't know how you'll do it cause 10 years is a long time to have wasted the time of that woman.

With all the awareness going on about sickle cell and genotype compatibility, it feels like you just crawled out of the stone age where the topic is concerned.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Scamburster(m): 2:00pm On Oct 25, 2022
doggedfighter:


There are ways around it now.


Someone suggested I VF already.

I think you can check the foetus and abort if it's SS too. That's another option too.

Meet a doctor specialised in this. He will give you options.

Don't dump each other yet.


Explore all and every available options .

There are solutions to these things now.


Remember not to reply little brats here that knows nothing about life !
Do you know any doctor for that?
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 2:02pm On Oct 25, 2022
egbedox:
I learnt something new from you. Thank you


You're welcome.
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by UnabashedIPOB: 2:05pm On Oct 25, 2022
MuslimIgbo:

I completely concur because I am an EVIL and FOOLISH MAN. Amadioha will definitely STRIKE me, M0R0NIC MUSLIMPIG, and my entire generation dead as you've wished!!


ISEEEE as you wish upon yourself and your generation. I can't argue with you on that!
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by davillian(m): 2:06pm On Oct 25, 2022
We don't Breed dogs with bad traits,illness, bone and frame issues
That can be transferred to it's off sprigs
I wonder how a human being would deliberately give thier children a sickle cell that they would have to live with for the rest of their lives
If your parent made that mistake
You still want to continue
If you are my father when I grow up I would kill you for putting me in such conditions...
Re: Genotype: Do People Still Do This In A Relationship? by sexuential: 2:10pm On Oct 25, 2022
Ologundudu2020:
Good day! So I’m wondering if people still dump long healthy and lasting relationships for genotype sagas.


Cos I’m not about to lose a very healthy and long lasting 10yrs relationship for nothing.

Do people still dump themselves for this blood Genotype issues, or there are alternatives, this 2022 it’s been long I heard close relatives or friends having issues like that, I’m probably not exposed enough tho.

We both As in genetype, and I’m working on finding a better way to make this work, she’s all I’ve got fr and I’m already in my early 30s.


I’m not a fan of too many child, you can be a great parent even with adoption, but I still want a child with her exactly. She’s has to look like her self lol �

Pls what’s your take, can I have this girl to myself or is still the shout of quit?
IVF with genotype selection is Ur only sure bet.

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