adontcare:
Because they just want to eat their cake and have it back. If marriage no work out, na to leave na

sisisioge:
They feel insulted regardless of how terrible they were as husbands. Take Ooni of Ife for instance, that guy was dumped twice in 2 years by wives he married regally plus one a long time ago. Not minding that he might have been a terrible husband o, his response was to go all out and married more wives to show he still got the game . Generally,they prefer to do the dumping, not the other way round.

fyzaila:


True! They just feel since they're men, they can always walk up to any lady at any point in time and think it is otherwise for the woman.
This Ooni of ife i am very sure more dumpings awaits him.

sisisioge:


He didnt know he is indirectly empowering the women to further disgrace him. They get to mark the marriage register, become queens and pull the plug on him at the slightest provocation. If at least 2 more walk on him, he will never be able to clean his stained image ever again. It will be easy to say the remaining are those women who would stay on in abusive marriages because of one thing or the other. May God help him jare and help marriages all over the world.

Acidosis:
...depends on who is initiating the divorce. Whoever is on the receiving end will find it difficult to accept, whether male or female.

As per the colleague in your story, she's definitely not a serious person. Which abused person will continue to wait for the abuser to sign a divorce paper? Take your evidence to the magistrate and get your divorce. His consent is useless.

Acidosis:
...depends on who is initiating the divorce. Whoever is on the receiving end will find it difficult to accept, whether male or female.

As per the colleague in your story, she's definitely not a serious person. Which abused person will continue to wait for the abuser to sign a divorce paper? Take your evidence to the magistrate and get your divorce. His consent is useless.

My cousin has been separated for three years, took her evidence to the court. Wife wants out, husband already has another woman but says he will drag the case forever, and will not sign divorce papers. Lady even offered the guy full custody of the teenage kids, the man refused because he believes and claims the moment he signs it, we will relocate her. Its sad. For two years, the court has been insisting on reconciliation or spousal consent

Acidosis:
...depends on who is initiating the divorce. Whoever is on the receiving end will find it difficult to accept, whether male or female.

As per the colleague in your story, she's definitely not a serious person. Which abused person will continue to wait for the abuser to sign a divorce paper? Take your evidence to the magistrate and get your divorce. His consent is useless.

Foodqueen:
They always believe that she is moving on fast with another guy.

They purposely delay the divorce, thereby delaying her from moving on.

fyzaila:
Why is it difficult for the husband to accept divorce?

Yes i said husband because it is mostly wives that bring the husband to court to help in nullifying the marriage.

A husband and wife will be having one marital issue or the other some husban even threatening to send the wife packing or bringing in another woman but the moment the wife opt for divorce, the husband will be so adamant to sign. Some will take years to finalise the divorce.

A colleague of mine who usually confide in me told me her husband has refused to grant her divorce she requested. This man has been abusing her emotionally, verbally and almost physical at some point. She's always sad and reluctant to go back home after closing from work. They have two kids girls (5 &3) and she is confident she can take care of them with little or no support from the husband. The only thing she is afraid of is custody of the girls.

fyzaila:


How about the kids will she be granted custody?

Acidosis:


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