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Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by KINGS100(m): 6:44pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
That's not reincarnation, You saw a ghost. Reincarnation means the dead person is reborn in another body. That's the difference. Reincarnated soul have a body and can't just disappear Onetenth: |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Stevo35: 6:44pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Onetenth: That's Not reincarnation' that's ghost. It happens for real to people who didn't die well' My landlord was into mysticism.In 2003 my landlord was seriously ill and was moved to his village in AKWA IBOM STATE for treatment he later died and we were not informed about his death.The ghost came to CALABAR and asked for payment of his house rent' when his relatives later came to inform us about his death everyone was shocked. We all said but he was here yesterday' the relatives said no! how can that happen' that he died 4 days ago. Nna come see temple run to park out was everybody's plan. 11 Likes |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by madjune(m): 6:45pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Kajaard: I had my education in the 90s Nigeria. Today, our youths learn from the internet. Education gleaned off the pages of books is far different from online write ups etc. Let's OBIdiently pray and hope our standards are restored. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by kingxsamz(m): 6:45pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
07kjb: It's not by shouting or calling people fools. What tangible thing are you doing with your so called "spiritual knowledge"? How has it helped your life compared to others who don't believe? 1 Like |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by HomeTutorsPro: 6:47pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
studentofTruth: Well dissected. I hope your readers will understand the vocabulary therein. I hope righteousness22 will not see the bolded part of your comment. |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Kajaard: 6:47pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
madjune: Likewise |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Kobojunkie: 6:50pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
KeyEndurance:Huh? |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by netmillionaires(m): 6:51pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
OP I know say you go be one of the people wey almost beat me up for capping nonsense. Now you don chop your own. One by One, all these Atheist woke guy go collect them own breakfast. Onetenth: |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Aldol: 6:51pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
youngZee23:It's better not to attempt it if you are not spiritually strong. Just like dogs do bark at night and midnight and you wonder what they are barking at, the truth is they are seeing different creatures we ain't seeing with our naked eyes. Although there is something we call ' Weju' in the southwest that can be done on you to see every spiritual things but person go mad las las imagine walking and you see a jinn walking upside down coming in your opposite direction,you must run abi, as you are running you begin see different scary creatures on your way, on the trees, on the refuse dump etc na to begin run kitakita , madness don start be that o 14 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Oliver14(m): 6:51pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
You either saw his look alike or the man faked his death. Or you saw an apparition. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by emkz: 6:51pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
First those arguing blindly that there is no reincarnation, please don't argue about things you don't know. Just read and learn. If you immerse yourself in your cultural history, you'd see that reincarnation has been part of our existence. Read books like Abiku by Wole Soyinka, I think. Even the Bible mentions something about reincarnation, but many dismiss it. John 1:19 This is the testimony of John, when the Jews sent to him priests and Levites from Jerusalem to ask him, "Who are you?" Then the Book of Matthew hinted at reincarnation. Matt. 11:14 "And if you are willing to accept it, John himself is Elijah who was to come." But many who are Christians today prefer not to believe. Its fine, its for the protection of the average person that he does not believe. To the OP, the person that died did not reincarnate. Reincarnation means being reborn in a different form as a human being in a different place. What you saw was a disturbed soul who could not leave the earth and would continue to wander around where they died because their current existence is tied to that place. It mostly happens to those who died violently. Now for those who don't believe, watch a movie called "Naomi", it explores the concept of what happens to a person who dies violently. He wonders aimlessly until it understands it is trapped and tries to make the best of it. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by studentofTruth: 6:52pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Onetenth: Now, let me address you well in the language you will understand. At which share in the bus was the fellow seated? Who's sitting next to him in the box? At what point did you notice that he's disappeared? Can the person sitting next to him attest that the seat was occupied and suddenly became empty? Can this fellow sitting next to him describe the clothes he was wearing? 3 Likes |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Strikethem: 6:53pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Oloniyan:Really, I have only seen my late parents in a dream. |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Zeezenho: 6:53pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
money121: Oga they calm down nah am only trying to protect our democracy. |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Biafraaa: 6:55pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Urheadmaster:Did you try it comrade? 1 Like |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Nobody: 6:56pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Total rubbish story. You expect me to believe this crap.. |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Kobojunkie: 6:58pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
shantti:1. Op hallucinating and rather than get his facts right or at least understand the event wasn't a result of a Brea in his psyche, used it to assault a woman still grieving the loss of her son, is what I see here. There was no contact made, no message related, nothing, yet he ran to the dead boys mother to tell her what exactly? He could have maybe headed to the boy's grave himself first to find out the reason why the Spirit chose to appear to him at least, before heading to the dead boy's mother with whatever it is he may have found out. 2. I don't need to be endorser of reality but we all most at least approach all things the way of commonsense, right? 3. No, I am falling back on hallucination because it is the most probable explanation for what happened to OP given that OP himself does not even understand what it is or why it did ....hallucinations do that to you. 4. That's your cup of tea. I am more after the facts of this which Op does not seen to have much to speak of. |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Danniedpastor(m): 6:58pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Ikennablue: See the way you are struggling to explain what you don't know. At this point, it would have paid you more to just pay attention to other and perhaps learn something. Bro, no knowledge us finite. |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Kobojunkie: 6:59pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
shantti:You don't have to like my questions so feel free to ask OP your own. |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by emkz: 7:00pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
And to the OP, certain experiences are better off not shared. It disturbs the "harmony" in the society. Try not to do it again. Those who are still doubting, I think the message is that you should not be shocked if you experience it. It is not a new thing. 2 Likes |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Excel70: 7:00pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Onetenth:Look your friend is dead and gone. What you saw was a jinn who took the appearance of your friend. This is according to my religion Islam you can ask a knowledgeable Muslim for more |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Kelvin3476: 7:00pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Richy4:U KNEW HE MADE A MISTAKE USING THE TERM REINCARNATION. SOO GO AND SIDAN |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Mozegee: 7:00pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
You may be an indomie generation but things like this do happen.if you don't know, just shut up and learn from elders here. PENNYSWAP: 3 Likes |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Ayojb: 7:02pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
drlateef:to what purpose? Why do they want to confuse humans? |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Danniedpastor(m): 7:04pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Did you say "saner climes"? Do your research there real life ghost stories in US and Europe. Did you not read the story of the black american that reincarnated as w white child? It was posted here on Nairaland few days ago. 2 Likes |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Vello(m): 7:04pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
mechanics:You are a born again Born again are sheep You are a � Sheep! Sheep is a mumu Let them finish you with Bible that some wicked idiots wrote to subjugate and dominate your life. Small data of N100 could have saved you from the nonsense you forced me to read. I pity your life!!! |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by tianshie(m): 7:05pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Onetenth: what was the reaction of the conductor, and folks in the bus. 1 Like |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by shantti(m): 7:05pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: U hardly ask questions, u counter people's opinions instead. U always have a quest for the need to be right. Because of that u counter everything, in your so called woke delusions. I don't know if it is pride or what, but you hardly learn from others. I don't know if ghosts are real or not, but I wouldn't counter a ghost story simply because I don't believe in it or haven't experienced it. I would rather open my mind to learning. You must not counter everything, it is possible that u could be wrong, everything is not about sounding woke woke 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by udemzyudex(m): 7:06pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Some will still say you're making things up. |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by Nigerianfactor: 7:06pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
Onetenth: Well if you really want to know I can give you some explanations. 1. Many of us unknown to us have look alikes to the extent that you can bet your last dime on it. 2. There is a spiritual side. God has, through the Bible informed us that when a person dies, he is dead, until God says it's time to resurrect him. But a wicked spirit (Satan) wants to counter that narrative. Through his angels (the demons) he tries to prove God wrong by impersonating the dead persons. The question is, who are you going to believe? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by PrinceGallant: 7:07pm On Oct 28, 2022 |
The Akudaya myth: What I know In my native Nupe language, an Akudaya is called ‘Tsulozhin’. It’s a compound word consisting of three different words: Tsu (originally tsitsu) lo (lilo) and zhin (zhin-zhin). ‘Tsitsu’ means dying; lilo means going; and zhin-zhin means returning. Thus, a tsulozhin is someone who is believed to have returned to life after death. The belief that the dead can return back to life is deeply-rooted in African traditional belief, and is connected to the belief in voodoo and superstition. As a young boy growing up in my village of Lafiagi, I’ve heard a lot of these stories flying around and we’re being told by elders who we believe know better and have seen it all. Some of the tales were too ridiculous to believe though but we had no reason to doubt their veracity given that we were too young to be independent-minded. There was the popular story of Hajiya Fatima from Ketso who was allegedly killed by a witch known as Nnaputa. She was buried like every other deceased persons. Later, she was seen at Gbodoti by some Fulanis and brought back to town to the shock of many who witnessed her burial. As we grew up, we also heard about people who had died for years but were later seen in other places, some have become rich and have wives and kids. This is not Nollywood. They were stories that we heard with our two ears. The storytellers claimed that they witnessed it with their two eyes too. However, anytime an attempt is made to locate them in their new settlements, they disappeared into thin air, sometimes leaving their wives and children behind. In the mid 2000, a certain Shemi from Raba rose to prominence as the chief witches and wizards hunter in Nupeland. He waged a serious war against the evil of witchcraft and was moving from one town to the other on invitation, liberating people from the claws and clutches of the evil men and women. No doubt he was using powerful Jinns and magic to overpower and disarm his victims. Most times, he subjects them to dehumanizing treatments; shaving their hair (heads and pubic) and stripping them completely naked. We enjoyed watching the videos, seeing the dreaded men and women of the underworld confessing their crimes against humanity. Some of the revelations from those videos reinforced our beliefs that indeed, it is possible for the deceased to reappear or return back to life. This created a whole lot of confusion in our heads when we first came in contact with Tawhīd and ‘aqīdah and were told that once a person dies, he can never return to life until the Day of Resurrection. We doubted our teachers. They have neither seen nor heard the things that we’ve seen and heard, we thought. Years later, when we read more ‘aqīdah books as well as books on أخبار الجن والشياطين/ عالم الجن والشياطين, we were able to juxtapose and critically study the two seemingly contradictory issues and arrived at the following conclusions: * Allāh is the Creator and Terminator of all lives (Q.67:2). Thus, no life can be taken except by His permission (Q.3:145) * Death is the end of man’s sojourn on earth. i.e. once a person dies, he’s gone forever, never to be seen again in this real world. (.23:99-100) * Any claim of seeing a deceased person can only be in dream. This is consistent with the Sharī’ah. * Some Shayātīn among human beings possess the supernatural powers of bewitching people to see things that never were. (See Q.7:116) Thus, they create an imaginary image of their victim, causing him to be still and dead, while the real person is held and screened away from the people’s eyes. * The imaginary being is thus covered in shroud and buried, while the real being is taken away to another place. Sometimes, they are left wandering inside bushes and thick forests where some are attacked and eaten by dangerous animals, some are taken to far away cities were they get married and beget children, and some live a wretched and abnormal life. It’s some of these people that are later brought back to their hometowns * The Shayātīn among the Jinn can also appear to people in the image of their lost ones in order to cause confusion and crisis. In this situation, the person is truly dead and buried. However, the Shaytān will appear in his image so the people will think that he was brought back to life. Sometimes, people like that are brought back home, and sometimes they disappear into thin air, leaving behind their wives and children. The Prophet made reference to this when he said: من رآني في المنام فقد رآني، فإن الشيطان لا يتمثل في صورتي “Whoever sees me in his dream has indeed seen me, for the Shaytān cannot appear in my image.” This implies that the Shaytān has such abilities. And he did appeared to Abū Hurayrah in the image of an old, frail man. Therefore, Akudaya is nothing but a satanic fraud to destroy the aqīdah of the people and turn them into apostates and idolaters. It is important to always say our adhkār and ruqyah prayers to seek protection from the evil machinations of the Shaytān. We must purge ourselves of such false beliefs as reincarnation and reappearance of the deceased. Sanusi Lafiagi 2 Likes 1 Share |
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