Britishpea:
When he’s sleeping, gently remove his trouser and put his John Thomas in your mouth. Give him some good gigs and climb him thereafter and have the best feeling of him

When u wake up in the morning, prepare a nice meal use good cologne on your body, dress nice and pack your bum bum in a ‘polythene bag’ and walk around like a woman. Not like a man.

And avoid giving him headaches. Watch him staying at home. I’m your therapist.

You will make a wonderful therapist without tears buddy...If that's really how it works in real world, the planet would have become a Wrinkle free planet

Ahmed0336:
Give it time, let things sort themselves.

This your advise is funny bro. Time don't heal anything when the cause of challenge istn known. Poster should do close observation of what else changed in her home and make useful conclusions.

There's nothing wrong with a cultural independent woman getting into a polygamous marriage.. it's her choice and in that way, she can even help her husband with his businesses or some household necessities.

Independent women get married all the time and most of them use their resources to help build good homes.

Justbehave:
So we are now in the era of our forefathers? The issue is that you women should stop pretending to be independent which you all know you are not. Those ladies he married all claimed to be independent at one point but see them hustling to even be his 10th wife without any qualms.Tell yourself the truth are they really independent? Are you saying that no single huzling guy has ever asked for their hands in marriage? Why didn't they accept? Why is it that at the sight of money,you women forget about feminism,strong and independent which you all claim?

Samantha123:
There's nothing wrong with a cultural independent woman getting into a polygamous marriage.. it's her choice and in that way, she can even help her husband with his businesses or some household necessities.

Independent women get married all the time and most of them use their resources to help build good homes.

So how many of the independent women of this generation have you seen getting into a polygamous marriage with an average man to help him grow?

So far, I haven't seen any getting in any polygamous marriage, or let me just say I don't really know much about those who are in polygamous marriages.. what I know is that there are some cultural independent women.

Back home we have these other 2 neighbours, both women have good jobs while the husbands are either unemployed or do piece jobs here and there and I've never heard them fighting or anything like that.

They always seem happy and one of the wives would make sure that when she comes home, she buys enough grocery for her husband for when she's away and both women would do their house chores whenever they're off duty.

I know a lot of such women.

Justbehave:
So how many of the independent women of this generation have you seen getting into a polygamous marriage with an average man to help him grow?

Samantha123:
So far, I haven't seen any getting in any polygamous marriage, or let me just say I don't really know much about those who are in polygamous marriages.. what I know is that there are some cultural independent women.

Back home we have these other 2 neighbours, both women have good jobs while the husbands are either unemployed or do piece jobs here and there and I've never heard them fighting or anything like that.

They always seem happy and one of the wives would make sure that when she comes home, she buys enough grocery for her husband for when she's away and both women would do their house chores whenever they're off duty.

I know a lot of such women.

What I'm implying is that most women that claim independent only make such rules when it comes to an average hustling guy. But in the case of Oni,Davido,WizKid,Yul,Ned,2face etc you see such women doing away with their independency, feminism,men are scum and so many rules just to be with unfaithful men or polygamous men like I mentioned.

Who told you that independent feminists don't get married?

A woman can be an independent feminist but still be happily married... I know a lot of them.

You guys confuse independent feminists with those bitter women who hate men.

Justbehave:
What I'm implying is that most women that claim independent only make such rules when it comes to an average hustling guy. But in the case of Oni,Davido,WizKid,Yul,Ned,2face etc you see such women doing away with their independency, feminism,men are scum and so many rules just to be with unfaithful men or polygamous men like I mentioned.

Calvary247:
My husband has suddenly developed a new habit: he comes back home late at night which is very unusual. My husband is not that type but i don't know what came over him to start living this kind of life. And any time I try to talk to him he says no problem and that i should not worry but it's a matter of concern to me. How do I get to the root of this? I'm down emotionally.

divorce that bastard

Samantha123:
Who told you that independent feminists don't get married?

A woman can be an independent feminist but still be happily married... I know a lot of them.

You guys confuse independent feminists with those bitter women who hate men.

So they can equally be independent feminist and at the same time be cultural women too that can
marry into a polygamous homes?

Calvary247:
My husband has suddenly developed a new habit: he comes back home late at night which is very unusual. My husband is not that type but i don't know what came over him to start living this kind of life. And any time I try to talk to him he says no problem and that i should not worry but it's a matter of concern to me. How do I get to the root of this? I'm down emotionally.

I think he is doing it for a reason best known to him

Maybe be you have to talk with him

He may have decided to be staying out late but am sure if not for drinking then it's for a mistress

Follow him gently he may open up and if you have been troubling him at home, you have to think twice

Yes, I think SA has a lot of them, even though I only know of two because polygamy isn't that wide here.

And some of such women are from rich homes too or are self made independent women, it's more like a business transaction than just a mere wedding between the two families.

They're not only regarded as investments, but they're also their husbands business partners, each one comes with certain skills that are gonna help grow the family empire.

And I'm not talking about those uneducated women in polygamous marriages.

Justbehave:
So they can equally be independent feminist and at the same time be cultural women too that can
marry into a polygamous homes?

Samantha123:
Yes, I think SA has a lot of them, even though I only know of two because polygamy isn't that wide here.

And some of such women are from rich homes too or are self made independent women, it's more like a business transaction than just a mere wedding between the two families.

They're not only regarded as investments, but they're also their husbands business partners, each one comes with certain skills that are gonna help grow the family empire.

And I'm not talking about those uneducated women in polygamous marriages.

Wow. I never knew that independent women that are feminist will agree to share one dick with another woman. Since we don't have them in Nigeria,does it mean that Nigerian independent feminists are all pretending to be but will easily jump into a polygamous rich home?

I don't know.

Justbehave:
Wow. I never knew that independent women that are feminist will agree to share one dick with another woman. Since we don't have them in Nigeria,does it mean that Nigerian independent feminists are all pretending to be but will easily jump into a polygamous rich home?

Samantha123:
I don't know.

Lol. No Nigerian woman is an independent feminists. You all are pretenders.

What's your definition of an independent feminist?

Justbehave:
Lol. No Nigerian woman is an independent feminists. You all are pretenders.

Samantha123:
What's your definition of an independent feminist?

I have gotten what I wanted from you. Chill. Bye.

You don't know.. lol..

Justbehave:
I have gotten what I wanted from you. Chill. Bye.

You better start praying midnight,every night.

Samantha123:
What if he comes home with a full stomach and says he's tired

He won't come home every day filled. Even if he is filled up. Remember to give him the other food in the other room.... Knock him Wella... Most of you forget to do that.... That's why most guy/man go out and entice by some woman

The issue is that most of you Nigerian men seems to prefer decent and innocent women as wives, those ones who only know missionary.

You'd prefer getting those different styles outside rather than do them with your wives because immediately she starts showing signs of her being freaky, you start suspecting her.

So how will she knocks him well if maybe all she knows is missionary?

abeniagbon:


He won't come home every day filled. Even if he is filled up. Remember to give him the other food in the other room.... Knock him Wella... Most of you forget to do that.... That's why most guy/man go out and entice by some woman

Samantha123:
The issue is that most of you Nigerian men seems to prefer decent and innocent women as wives, those ones who only know missionary.

You'd prefer getting those different styles outside rather than do them with your wives because immediately she starts showing signs of her being freaky, you start suspecting her.

So how will she knocks him well if maybe all she knows is missionary?

My own is that always knock him out , so he see another puna, he will feel tired about it by hissing and pass...

Something he will always rush home to relax and always comment about you good in bed.

I don't mean every day thing...

My advice as a woman to you men would be when you guys are out hanging out together, encourage each other to teach those decent innocent wives of yours more styles in the other room so they could knock you well.

Because they won't be able to knock you well if all they know is missionary.. It's your job to teach them.

abeniagbon:

My own is that always knock him out , so he see another puna, he will feel tired about it by hissing and pass...

Something he will always rush home to relax and always comment about you good in bed.

I don't mean every day thing...

Samantha123:
My advice as a woman to you men would be when you guys are out hanging out together, encourage each other to teach those decent innocent wives of yours more styles in the other room so they could knock you well.

Because they won't be able to knock you well if all they know is missionary.. It's your job to teach them.

How will a man talk about such with a church devoted woman... How many woman still knee to greet their husbands again? But most of them know how to knee for their pastor and cherish him more than their hubby..

It's your responsibility as the husband to discuss such things with her, else you gonna die of boredom in that marriage.

It's you guys fault that you want a boring church devoted woman as a wife instead of looking for a woman that's gonna be devoted to you and you alone.

Isn't it that you want your church devoted virgin Marys? But fail to teach them the tricks on how it's done in the bedroom..

abeniagbon:


How will a man talk about such with a church devoted woman... How many woman still knee to greet their husbands again? But most of them know how to knee for their pastor and cherish him more than their hubby..

Samantha123:
It's your responsibility as the husband to discuss such things with her, else you gonna die of boredom in that marriage.

It's you guys fault that you want a boring church devoted woman as a wife instead of looking for a woman that's gonna be devoted to you and you alone.

Isn't it that you want your church devoted virgin Marys? But fail to teach them the tricks on how it's done in the bedroom..

You're full of wisdom.. send me an email...

Nah.. instead of asking for my email, go and teach your wife on how to take good care of you in bed and knock you well..

My job is done here and good luck.

abeniagbon:


You're full of wisdom.. send me an email...

Samantha123:
Nah.. instead of asking for my email, go and teach your wife on how to take good care of you in bed and knock you well..

My job is done here and good luck.

Very funny you... Nothing much for a friend list