Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this I have been married now for 7 years.

And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways.

The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up.

And for me I feel appreciating and complimenting.
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.

I don't know

E go be

Little things like this matters but patience and understanding is required in this case to avoid unnecessary trouble

Communication will do the trick, madam.

Find a way to pique his interest in having a tete a tete with you. This should allow you to jokingly or as a matter of fact, tell him what you feel he isn't doing right after praising him for some other things you think he does right.

Not being the complimenting type is a follow-come thingy. I'm in the same boat but I've had to learn on the job.

His not complimenting you doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate you, it is just what it is. "You can't give what you never had".

You can imagine how alien it almost became for most of us who grew up without hearing the words "I love you or I miss you" from our old-school parents. It never meant they loved or missed us less, it was just not a part of their lexicon. But with time, we had to learn on the job with our kids.

It is well with you ma.

nojeemat:
Ok

I need to come and learn wickedness from you.

nojeemat:

Haaa why?

Your response was too cold blooded

If he starts complimenting you, your head will over swell up because of his complimentings, he knows this and that's what he's avoiding

Some men are built like that. If he never lag in his duties at home and in the oza room, leave him be. Wetin dey his head surely pass romance and compliments. Country hard abeg



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Madam compliment is not by force. Don't force out issues.
If he's been all nice to you in other areas then let him have peace of mind pls. Already the country is in chaos,let him be. Thanks

DaddyRochie1642:
If he starts complimenting you, your head will over swell up because of his complimentings, he knows this and that's what he's avoiding

Exactly

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know

he might just be an honest man by not complimenting you. , you know people are fun of complimenting people even when they look like shit, maybe, just maybe you are not ticking his clock, and also don't try too hard to tick his clock

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know

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Can I ask you a question?
Sincerely tell us when last u complimented ur husband.
How often do you compliment him?

That's how one woman was saying her husband doesn't show her affection through text or voice calls.
I asked her to tell me when she did same, she was looking at me like...

Didn't you observe this while dating? Madam, carry your cross.

He knows that if he compliments you it will enter your head and your Shakara will increase.

If he never appreciated or complimented you before marriage, he will never do it in marriage.

There are men like him.
Try and learn how to live with him without expecting compliments.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know

Compliments Of D Season.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this

Know thyself!!! Ur husband knows u....u have probably forgotten what happened in the beginning....he got to understand you and now u want him to change.....change starts with u...

Reset....Totori the Goodman, appreciate him and he will be the person u are looking for.

SELAH.

Can you see how little things can be a big issue

Women gets bloated n ugly after childbirth and during marriage. A few though.
Its why you catch n stretch them when de r young. Like, check out ritzy beauty now, and check in 4years time.

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know

It's strange indeed, but you have to balance it out with other things.
- Does he take care of you?
- Does he take care of his children?
- Does he relate to you in a reasonable way?
- Does he show you a decent level of respect?
- Does he show your family and friends a reasonable level of respect
- is he faithful?
- Does he have bad habits like, drinking, smoking or drug use?
- is he diabolic?
- Does he beat you or the kids?
- Does he satisfy you to a reasonable level in bed?
- is he mentally stable?
- Does he misuse money?
- Does he go out too much?
- Does he lavish all his money on one flashy sweet mouth Pastor, or alfa, prophet etc?
- is he gay?

- WAS HE PAYING YOU COMPLIMENTS BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED??

As you can see, there are a lot of things that can be wrong in a marriage. He might not be paying you compliments because its just not his nature (you can tease compliments out of him instead of using it to provoke him). You must have noticed this before you got married but you still went ahead with him.

So why the complaints now? Is it because some random guys, who just want to chop and clean mouth, are now paying you compliments? Empty compliments that they can pay to anything in skirt. Compliments that have no depth and just rolls out of their mouths very easily.

I hope that some of those compliments are not getting to your head and you are now looking for an excuse to cheat?

Studio247:
Sometimes I wonder if it's normal or is just the man I married or there are men like this
I have been married now for 7 years
And for ones my husband has never complimented me in anyways
The funny thing is people outside will appreciate and compliment me even before him
but not the man I married no Matter how much effort I put into doing anything.

Several times I spoke to him about it
But he will flare up

And for me I feel appricating and complimenting
Your partner makes them happy and give them the energy to do better.


I don't know

Sorry dear. I feel your pain. When people talk about marrying left and right, I laugh cos most who do do not even know what makes marriages work. Many men are very guilty of this. I learnt so many things from my mum and one of them is that a woman never gets tired of appreciation and commendation. Appreciating a women is another tonic that boosts her confidence and makes her happy with you.

Women and complain are like 5 & 6 everything is a problem...….
If you are not comfortable with that just leave the marriage and go and marry those men that are complimenting you simple.....

Buy men are from Mars and women are from Venus as gift to him.
Book man page 200 or so on little things man takes for granted but women values very high.

Entitlement mentality, you when last you complement am?

Dont talk about it again n bone him n forget appreciation or compliments

Him head go reset soon

Well it necessary for him to compliment you, but if he doesn't learn how to compliment urself nd be happy

Does he complain when u complement yourself before him?

Complement yourself and move on jare.

Stop making marriage look like one big wahala place.

Eyah if compliments were that important to you then you probably shouldn’t have married him it’s other men that compliment you instead.

Wahala be like wetin again??

Compliment him.
With time, he will reciprocate.