Ellexy:
Dem fit carry your principal for head laidis with him waving a flag?

Ellexy:
One is a sickly and much older 77 years old.

The other is a healthy and much younger 71 years old.

obainojazz:
I use topratetransfer dot com
I just did a transfer today and it took less than one minute.

Make sure you use Poli

Ebukacute:
Is it even advisable to teach a three years old boy how to swim?

Ebukacute:
Is it even advisable to teach a three years old boy how to swim?

Ebukacute:
Is it even advisable to teach a three years old boy how to swim?

sod09:

The boy is small, his father was teaching him how to swim was it last week or so I read it in news,he shouldn't have been left alone knowing how curious toddlers are especially after new experience

E pain me sha

seankafor:


Those crowds are good for nothing and only good in smoking, drinking and carrying women/prostitutes up and down..

I dislike crowd so much

Donjazet2:
Amoto94, this is why I said a gorrilla is better ruling us than buhari.

https://twitter.com/Ofonmbukituh/status/1587064316423028736?t=m0xtRXkPIobCorxOLzRkQw&s=19

Na sango go visit you if you don't watch this clip.
I'm sure after watching this clip, nothing will ever make you support the failure again.

GloriousGbola:


If there was any doubt most of our wealthy people have empty head, this clarifies it. Dbanj son died in a pool two years ago. You would think these billionaires would have the fking presence of kind to ensure their swimming pools are completely enclosed and child proofed. But here we are
And Davido could have gotten a trainer to teach ifeanyi how to swim.
These guys have money, they have access to the best architects, they see how thier friends abroad deploy safety measures - but yet they cannot implement any of these
all these yeyebrities wishing an saying no no no, all have the same unsafe swimming pools in their houses, and after all is said and done, they will leave them as is.
God is my protector
i had a neighbour who travelled to texas every year. and ye he put is 4 year old in the front seat of his car. i asked the guy wetin you dey do, this is not safe. man just shrugged. and there are plenty of them like that across all levels. prople driving car with toddler in their lap
we dont take safety seriously unless we are forced.
hate lastma all you want, they have conditioned all of us to wear seatbelts. go outside lag, you will see frsc guys casually saying no need for seatbelt
they did not learn in dbanj case, and they will not learn now either

BlueRayDick:
Seeing multiple blogs report Davido's son dead is saddening even though the family is yet to react to the reports ( understandably so), one can only pray for the family to stay strong in this trying period.

That being said, I think I agree with GloriousGbola on the fact that Nigerians (and in particular Nigerian celebrities) do not learn from the experience of others. One would think our celebrities would've learnt from Dbanj's case and.would have a safe home where kids are not exposed to something like an open swimming pool.

It will not be surprising if all celebrities who show concern during this period go back home and still not do anything to forestall such occurrence in their home. Kids will always be kids, no matter how u try to chaperone them domestic accidents will still happen (but it shouldn't be domestic accident that are preventable.)

I pity every domestic staff and minder in the residence as at the time of the incident. Some of them will rot in the cell for this unfortunate incident.( I read on a blog that they've arrested people in the house as at the time of the incident.) That kind case na to just dey beg God to comfort the family quickly so dem go order Ur release after taking their loss in good faith.

Itsrm:


Everybody is so busy these days chasing money that they leave childcare for schools and minders. If the mother was home with him, this incidence will likely have been avoided. No one can take care of a child the way the mother will.

The other day in my street it was a child who poured hot oil on his body and suffered serious burns. The maid finished frying and placed the oil pan on the ground. The mother as usual was out there chasing the bag.
The idea of leaving children below 10 years with maids must be discouraged.
Funny thing is, when these parents leave Nigeria and go to places where it's expensive using the services of minders, they suddenly have the time to stay back at home with their kids.

Donjazet2:


I have always said that I'm never a fan of victim blaming. The instinct to criticize when an accident occurs never sits right with me.

For God's sake, its an accident. Accidents are by definition UNEXPECTED! You just said, that our celebrities here don't learn better protection measures from their counterpart celebrities abroad. But I'm sure if we look deeper, we will see a host of foreign celebrities who have lost their children to preventable accidents. We don't even have to look far, what of celebrities themselves who lost their own lives to accidents and drug overdoses?

Don't get me wrong, the message of prevention and foresight is valuable but timing is everything! One can take all preventative measures and still fall victim to an accident.

This reminds me of when my sister and kids died in a car accident, when we were grieving, someone came and was asking, was she over speeding? Maybe she wasn't vigilant enough, that we know that women are not strong drivers. It took another friend of mine to tell him to shut up! That that wasn't certainly the time for that.

Also reminds me of people that were shouting "Japa, Japa" just immediately after the owo massacre where dozens lost their lives unnecessarily. I mean,the message of Japa in and of itself is not wrong but the timing of it was very insensitive.
This is not a slight on you but constructive criticism not to blame victims immediately accidents happen. Empathy should be the foremost reaction.

Donjazet2:


Click on this link below, you would see the children of foreign celebrities who lost their lives to unexpected accidents. Accidents are by nature random and unexpected. You may take protection and prevention and still be a victim.

Just look at your post, are you saying that mother's of 3 year old kids should still ALWAYS be with their kids. That supervised periodical baby sitting shouldn't be a thing? Common!!

That sounds like clutching of straws to me. Accidents can happen to the best of us. You could be sorted still on a position in your house and stray bullet hits you. Maybe someone starts asking, why didn't you have bullet proof windows?

https://tinseltownmom.com/13-celebrities-whose-children-died-by-sudden-and-bizarre-accidents/

GloriousGbola:


i will start off with the fact that i am often paranoid, and in addition, i am an engineer who has worked in oil and gas

the industry trains you to take safety seriously. the problem with safety is that it comes at a cost. both in timeliness and in cash

but the more cash you have , the more you will [if you are intelligent] push that money into making the workplace safe, because if for no other reason, an accident will cause disruption to operations, increased cost, litigation, etc

in 2015 or so, my wife fell down and broker her wrist. she had been sganding on a stool that was on a table. i immediately went out and bought two step ladders. one for upstairs one for downstairs. because i know someone might be like the ladder was too far away. that is the proper response to an incident. also - anyone in safety will tell you. a death NEVER happens in isolation. there were always some incidents or near misses - which present an opportunity to start proper preventive measures. there were other incidents in Davido's house - maybe they were not reported; maybe they said na God's intervention - and so here we are today.

i constantly harangue and harass everyone when i see them doing something that can cause an accident. and i tell them - do you want to spend the next six months in the hospital? that place you dont like?

i bought my wife a car last year, completely unplanned, a major dent in finances - because her banger was constantly breaking down and the mechanics were not helping matters. why? because the last thing you want is to be in a car that breaks down at 8pm in orile or oshodi or other parts of Lagos. then a small incident can be multiplied. ask yourself today - have i don all i can to mitigate potential incidents? what are the things i need to do? i know for instance that as soon as some extra cash comes in, i will change the tires on my wifes car. same reason. they are looking worn. rather than wait for an incident.

the poor will always live with risk because safety is about money. so they will enter danfos with inebriated driver, no seatbelt, no brakes, worn tires. but davido is rich. none of these things should be an issue for him. he travles abroad and he sees friends who have fully childproofed their homes

also, this has HAPPENED before. it happened to dbanj. anyone with a modicum of sense would have immediately called an expensive architect to ask - how do i stop this from happening in my own home? but that is for people who are ready to grow up and learn responsibility.

everyone is 'empathizing' with davido, but no one is saying what should be said - THIS SHOULD NOT BE HAPPENING.

maybe davido will use his platform to push for swimming pool safety going forward. because it is not just him an dbanj. every year youth drown in hotel swimming pools while out partying.

i was arguing with someone else and then i realised the difference between us and the west. because in the west at least one person who is a victim in this kind of thing will become an activist to ensure it does not happen again. over here we will wring our hands, empathize each and every time it happens, but do nothing to prevent a future occurrence.

Android22:

You have tried the broke shaming, we don't know your location, and who you are angle. I laughed all through because protecting my identity is more important to me than settling for your NL games. Just because I have decided to defend myself a little, you are now claiming I am responding because I am trying to lie. Don't other Nigerian Americans travel back from time to time mumume?

I told you to believe what you want. Why must you engage me? Why must I see your point? Mental illness is not transferred by replying NL posts so no matter how you quote me I won't be contracting it from you. You are almost 40 man, act your age. If you are not ashamed for yourself I am sometimes ashamed for you.

Post what you want, throw shade, just don't quote me while at it. I don't know why that is too hard for you. I am happy with my life. I am content. I don't try to engage you or respond to your posts yet you are always looking for me. Do I look like your psychiatrist?

Mumume, for the umpteenth time we have nothing in common. I am not a short bow-legged obese looking bastard with documented manic episodes who is too prideful to admit he was wrong. .

Android22:
Believe what you want but I have never been a Barcelona FC fan. People will just make up stories when they can't find one.

Android22:

My only sadness is that Davido's son died and not you

Donjazet2:


Click on this link below, you would see the children of foreign celebrities who lost their lives to unexpected accidents. Accidents are by nature random and unexpected. You may take protection and prevention and still be a victim.

Just look at your post, are you saying that mother's of 3 year old kids should still ALWAYS be with their kids. That supervised periodical baby sitting shouldn't be a thing? Common!!

That sounds like clutching of straws to me. Accidents can happen to the best of us. You could be sorted still on a position in your house and stray bullet hits you. Maybe someone starts asking, why didn't you have bullet proof windows?

https://tinseltownmom.com/13-celebrities-whose-children-died-by-sudden-and-bizarre-accidents/

Ibime:






I understand. Words can cut deep in the soul to endender such feelings. I wish comfort for the Adelekes, psychiatric healing for you. . . and restitution for your creditors.

Ibime:


You can fabricate any shíts you want about me like a drowning man, but when the cock crows thrice, you will snap back to real facts and reality - that your whole existence is a fraud, and N20k is the price of your honour.

Saul Goodman still dey learn work where you dey. Imagine a nigga depriving and denying himself of his lifes passion because of a peppersoup bet





Oh what tangled webs we weave, when first we set out to deceive.

When you wake up in the morning, do you look in the mirror and say to yourself "Nigga, you did for N20k what very few men have done for life insurance fraud". Congratulations, your life is a movie. 

Oga we are not interested in anything you have to say at this point. You have zero credibility. Even your life and moniker is a Conspiracy Theory debunked.

You have been on Nairaland for years alluding to being Americana. When challenged, you said your 'return" flight is more than my heating bill. Abeg the return leg of that flight never expire till now? Guy no dey show yourself

Everybody talks freely about their location here from London to Lagos, PH to Australia, Abuja to Texas, but one Peter Iscariot22 is "protecting his location", scared to even say he's American with his chest, worried we might find him amongst 300m Americans. More like he can't even convince himself of his lies.

As of 7 years ago, you alluded cunnily in your usual lying way to being a senior manager in the oil industry. 5 years later you were struggling to pay N20k debt. You can tell us intimate detail of Barca matches going back to mid-2000s. Elruditor, you are not a young boy. Yet when people with lives in Obodo Oyigbo are concerned with houses, pensions, investments, kids ISAs, vacations, and have been on these things for a decade plus, you are putting "return" flight tickets from Naija as proof of being in Obodo Oyinbo like an Obalende dreamer still hustling in the VISA office. Keep hustling, as long as cassava turn to garri, I'm respecting your grind.

Please do well not to reference, allude or "chook mouth" indirectly, by proxy, or roundabout in any conversation I'm having, and I will reciprocate by letting you spout your conspiracy theories unchallenged. Diagnosis is not my calling





I understand. Words can cut deep in the soul to endender such feelings. I wish comfort for the Adelekes, psychiatric healing for you. . . and restitution for your creditors.

Itsrm:


Hope you know you're talking to a parent? I have kids and they are never left on their own or with a maid. If we have outings to attend, we either go with them or one of us stay back at home with them.

The boy falling inside the pool is clearly avoidable and someone has to say the hard truth. Hopefully, those with kids and even you will listen and put as much measures in place as possible to safeguard them when you have them.