Nonexisting1:
Why wouldn't marriages crash when women go into them for what they can get and not what they will give. You can't withdraw money from back if you don't first make a deposit.

NotBeenPaid:

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Lust and peer pressure. Marriage is for matured minds.

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Romanoff:
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about.

Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry.

Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about.

Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead.

I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire.

These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?

guobe:
If they had dated properly I think that won't have arose as they already know themselves properly.

Nonexisting1:
It's not about dating. I have seen people that dated 5yrs and their marriage still crashed. Men today marry for nyash and breast and women marry for comfort and to form for their friends with few marrying to escape their family's pressure and problems. I have said it, I can not marry in this world, maybe in the next. I have met so many women and I am yet to see one that knows the true meaning of marriage. Even me, I'm not ready for the bullshit. My father will always say that if a man is not ready to raise an infant ekuke dog, he should never talk about marriage and my mother will add that if a woman is not ready to be a mother to a grown idiot, she should never think of marriage.

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

Romanoff:

I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire.

Sammy07:


Epeleeee, me to go listen to Don Moen, Micheal smith before I get married

guobe:
it helps alot in marriages.very essential.No one is all knowing and experience is certainly the best teacher.

Tallesty1:
Kids are marrying kids and giving birth to kids, it will only get worse.

JustStupidity:
Yes because women don't have any other thing to offer apart from se.x

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

jeromestarks:
Why won't it crash when you be seeing red flags waving at you like Russian banner but you will still marry her.

Find a virgin and see how your marriage will last longer than a millennia.

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

Nonexisting1:
Funny thing is that experienced oloshos and retired slay queens will give you more peace in marriage now than all these small girls that scream men are scum in the comfort of their university hostels. They have seen it all, done it all and there's nothing to prove again. But make sure they are actually retired and tired because some of them retire because of something. If they retire because breast done fall and they marry rich man who give them money for breast upliftment surgery, the olosho in them will be back.

Fiscus105:
Number one problem is that people wants to married and still wants to enjoy luxury freedom of single.
(Some guys married,yet still want to sleeping with different girls like single, meanwhile, no room available in his house to carry them to sex and to get hotel, it will take additional spending, before you know it will turn it to fight, and for girls, they married yet still want attention/chatting with exes, still dressing like harlot which can make them fall for another guys)you nailed it absolutely true

Number two problem is finances, marriage comes with whole lot of responsibilities.

(Money you spend during single, will now multiple and to carry on, it's big problem)

Corridon:
One of my guys recently separated from his wife of two months after spending millions during wedding.