ugodson:


Your face isnt showing am guessing you look very pretty. Ur kind of woman is very few. From what you said before how many ladies will read books on marriages or listen to marriage couches?

Romanoff:


Shebi you got counselling?

Some people don't. Some who get counselling just go there to fulfill all righteousness cause the church demanded it.

All what I mentioned there doesn't guarantee good marriage but they prepare you for possible things you'd experience.

It's best to go with some knowledge than to go in blind.

Most of what I use to make my marriage work is from the preparation I had before marriage.

It also helped me pick a suitable partner. Men plenty for town but not all can lead a woman sensibly and with kindness.

Jovialjune1:



No amount of counselling, seminar, in fact nothing can prepare one for what lies ahead in marriage, I and hubby didn't do anything like that because we felt it is a waste of time yet we are 5 years strong, so it is not about counselling cos when challenges come it will still be like shock to you, we just have to pray for the patience and ability to absorb and overcome the shock and challenges when it shows its ugly head, that all.

Romanoff:
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about.

Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry.

Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about.

Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead.

I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire.

These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?

guobe:
If they had dated properly I think that won't have arose as they already know themselves properly.

Womanizer:


You mean you're married?!

Your name is on my radar o

jeromestarks:

I get 12 for my DM on Facebook. And 3 on Twitter.
Good girls dey town na you dey date ashaw0 street girls.

How you go see girl remove tongue for her profile picture and you go still marry am? No be foolishness be that?

Nonexisting1:
It's not about dating. I have seen people that dated 5yrs and their marriage still crashed. Men today marry for nyash and breast and women marry for comfort and to form for their friends with few marrying to escape their family's pressure and problems. I have said it, I can not marry in this world, maybe in the next. I have met so many women and I am yet to see one that knows the true meaning of marriage. Even me, I'm not ready for the bullshit. My father will always say that if a man is not ready to raise an infant ekuke dog, he should never talk about marriage and my mother will add that if a woman is not ready to be a mother to a grown idiot, she should never think of marriage.

BabaOfLagos:
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guobe:
If you have ever gotten married you will know that the first few months of the marriage is full of temptations.Your ability to withstand the pressure of the first few months makes you a man.

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

Nonexisting1:
Funny thing is that experienced oloshos and retired slay queens will give you more peace in marriage now than all these small girls that scream men are scum in the comfort of their university hostels. They have seen it all, done it all and there's nothing to prove again. But make sure they are actually retired and tired because some of them retire because of something. If they retire because breast done fall and they marry rich man who give them money for breast upliftment surgery, the olosho in them will be back.

DaveHarry:
Just like on 22 Oct 22 wen I attended my cousin wedding at jubilee event center; after I enta d hall, just say make i look outside I see bouncers dey tell some people to go back; immediately I just tell my people say I don go house oo.,..Dem dey ask y, I no gree tell Dem until after d occasion. How u go dey pursue people wey com celebrate with u even wen u no invite dem, for wetin u no even sure say e go last a lifetime.

zed7:


I didn't go for counselling, didn't read any books and didn't even wed in a church. Been married 10 years now and I can't remember having issues with my wife. Never reported each other to anybody. We don't even raise our voices on each other. My sister went for marriage counselling, church programmes, wed in the church and yet, I keep settling issues.

I guess I'm lucky or maybe not. What I did was to carefully screen my partner and go for personality instead of just appearance alone. Yes, my wife is good looking but good looking isn't enough.

Anyway, my submission is that a successful marriage is between two people who click. All the counselling and prayers wouldn't do much if both parties don't know what they want and don't click.

BigYash:
They are all the same.. If she is not virgin or her body count pass 2.. Just know that you are investing in what is not sure.. BigRisk

womenareapezz:
why won't it crash?

When you guys are marrying baboons as female

You see those self entitled gorillas called naija women are incapable of love and only see marriage as poverty elimination scheme.

You as a man! You are the price and should stop wasting your time on evening newspaper together with naija women. Focus on yourself and if you want to marry, look for a wife on the Asia continent

Black women, especially NAIJA women has no economical, spiritual and social value in your life! Those gorillas only bring miserably and frustration to your life

Romanoff:
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about.

Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry.

Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about.

Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead.

I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire.

These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?

KunGioKehRah:
Women will still keep contact with their sisterhood after the wedding. And that is where the pressure on thrman will start. She will be listening to them
Everything that her mother or her friend tells her is what she will be listening to and that is where the marriage will be having k legs.

Some couples will exonerate themselves from the wife s friends and the man gets the hold of the family.


And also many are not ready or matured enough to be in marital relationships with others.
Listening skill, talking skill, and sexual intercourse skills too matter alot in relationship.
Even before marriage, as a man you must have some qualities, if you can't kn.ack very well, you can't feed yourself talkless of feeding another person, how you go feed the family? Talkless of when you now have a baby? Wetin then go dey chop for this BUHARI regime

Those are some of the factors affecting marriage and divorce nowadays,

WEDDING NA BLING BLING,
AFTER THE WEDDING, EYE GO OPEN!

#itiswell!

Nonexisting1:
It's not about dating. I have seen people that dated 5yrs and their marriage still crashed. Men today marry for nyash and breast and women marry for comfort and to form for their friends with few marrying to escape their family's pressure and problems. I have said it, I can not marry in this world, maybe in the next. I have met so many women and I am yet to see one that knows the true meaning of marriage. Even me, I'm not ready for the bullshit. My father will always say that if a man is not ready to raise an infant ekuke dog, he should never talk about marriage and my mother will add that if a woman is not ready to be a mother to a grown idiot, she should never think of marriage.