damoobaba:


You're not likely to EASILY find in Lagos, Calabar, Port Harcourt, Abuja, Benin, Asaba , Warri etc, but believe me, you can try osogbo, Akure and some other TOWNS where standard of living is low or you can target NOBLE FAMILIES where ladies were PROPERLY brought up. You met a random lady in Lagos who's here to look for money and you happy say you don find wife, my laff dey laff you.

Romanoff:
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about.

Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry.

Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about.

Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead.

I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire.

These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?

Dogalmighty17:


Are you still married? So sorry for this situation.

browndre:
You marry slay queen your marriage lasted for 3 months and you say your marriage no long.

Tell me, how many years you want a slay queen to spend with you in your marriage?

Munzy14:

The virgin noise is becoming unbecoming..

You guys seems to bypass character nowadays..A virgin with a nasty attitude is still a recipe for disaster..

Character and understanding keeps the marriage..Not virgin or non-virgin.

BigBashiru:


How much did you spend on the wedding??

ceeceeuwa:

How will anyone ever want to marry a virgin when he keeps engaging in sexual relationships. Where will he get the one he will marry. They keep shouting they want virgins. if you ask them if they are ready to remain celibate in a relationship,they will say "how will I buy a good I have not tested?"

pocohantas:
Why is this a topic and why is it the gender that doesn’t benefit from marriage crying the most?

Dshocker:


In the olden days, there was nothing counseling, seminars or reading any blue print for marriage.

Truth is that you married your husband.

Romanoff:
A lot of people don't know what marriage is about.

Societal pressure force people who know next to nothing about marriage to marry.

Some men think it's only to provide, have sex and have a woman to birth and raise kids that marriage is all about.

Many women get married just to be Mrs. No preparation for the journey ahead.

I remember before I got married, I attended marriage seminar, read books, listened to messages from seasoned counsellors like Bimbo Odukoya, marriage counsellors from my church and pastors whose marriages I admire.

These days, how many young people will even read books about marriage and it's preparation or listen to messages or go to seminars for intending couples?

Kelechi009:


Wau! So you're also married? With all the Wawulence you display on this Forum.

GboyegaD:


Just curious, what are these pressures?

tonyson010:


well said lack of preparation, but I don't think marriages are crashing that much, as suggested by the OP.

tonyson010:


well said lack of preparation, but I don't think marriages are crashing that much, as suggested by the OP.

jeromestarks:

If a girl truly have good character, she would have been a when u met her.

For her to have opened her legs for another guy shows that her character isn't as good as she thinks. In fact, she lacks morals.

guobe:
There are several temptations in that early days of the marriage starting from what transpired at the marriage reception.Also unnecessary financial investment may ruin the marriage too.on the spiritual side you will observe that there are some forces fighting against the marriage.The temptations are too numerous but with God on your side you shall prevail.

HEBEI:
forget it!

Virginity does not guarantee lasting marriage. At times, retired prostitutes are better than most of the so called virgins.

Look for character and quality when you want to marry.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Hi.

GboyegaD:


It is well. I guess the temptation never ends anyways although I am trying to think of what transpires at reception. Glad I skipped that because I wasn't ready for unnecessary dramas.

meobizy:
Bye.

Nonexisting1:
Why wouldn't marriages crash when women go into them for what they can get and not what they will give. You can't withdraw money from back if you don't first make a deposit.

guobe:
A trend is now occurring in our society with most marriages crashing within 2 to 3 months of getting married.

All what most young couples care about is getting married but not staying married. They go about sharing asoebis and spending millions of naira to get married but will quickly run away from the marriage within a twinkle of an eye.

Most of the girls still have someone that they love more but choose to marry the guy that is ready to get married immediately.

Most guys get their fingers burnt out of desperation to just get married without properly dating.

I know a recent case study now as the new wife just left him as he complained to me that the wife was picking the calls of her ex boyfriend in their matrimonial home.

He said she even goes to visit her ex when he is at work.

It is such a shame what marriage is turning to nowadays.

Munzy14:

A lady may fall into a deception trap of a hit and run guy, yet it doesn't make her a bad person if she is of a good character.

A lady of a good character is actually a beautiful lady...Regardless of whether she is a virgin or not..If she is a virgin, then it is beautiful lady raised to power 10.

meobizy:
Bye.