Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids. He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me. I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life. I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children. I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay. She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives. I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money. Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her. Advice me please

Helpout12345:


Why will she reject your assistance if she knows it's coming from you?

Rhassidy360:
Do first she go know later plssss

Madampauline:


She knows me well

Helpout12345:


And she knew you had an affair with her husband back then? Any other reasons?

Helpout12345:
First, you have to help them for the sake of the good the man did for you. That's the most important here.

Second, if you know she will reject it, then do it anonymously.

Madampauline:


She knows me well

Carcholce:
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You must have contributed to what killed him.
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Carcholce:
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You must have contributed to what killed him.
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Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids. He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me. I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life. I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children. I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay. She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives. I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money. Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her. Advice me please

Mindlog:


By breaking the heart of a married man?

I guess she dragged him away from his wife and children, put a gun on his head to spend time and money on her, a man supposedly the physical and spiritual head of his family?

Carcholce:


See what you did here, Women are very crafty. See the way you condemned the man and removed the OP from every faults. What will you teach your daughters?

At 19 She was more than matured to turn down the “married” man’s advances but She accepted to ruin his home, used him to travel abroad and eventually contributed to his death.

Mindlog:


She "accepted" to his home?

Why did the man in the first place "offer" her the opportunity to ruin his home, so his wife and children he is obligated to protect means nothing to him because of sex?

If he had other sidechicks, are they obligated to help his wife and children now?

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids. He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me. I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life. I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children. I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay. She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives. I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money. Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her. Advice me please

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please