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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by osazsky(m): 8:45pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please
pls do...just tell her u were friends to her late hus
.may God bless u for this..u have a good heart
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by ASHIWAJU2023: 8:45pm On Nov 05, 2022
God bless you abundantly
Rhassidy360:
Do first she go know later plssss
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by BABANGBALI: 8:45pm On Nov 05, 2022
James91:
At 19 you are already riding married man dick wonderful, try to help them please if not for anything for the love you have with the Man, specially when you guys are making love.
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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by NaBanga: 8:45pm On Nov 05, 2022
Please help her. You don't know even know if God has positioned you for this day.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by PrinceMajestic: 8:46pm On Nov 05, 2022
Purest form of giving is anonymous to anonymous - Jay Z
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by deavicky(m): 8:46pm On Nov 05, 2022
Helpout12345:


The bolded is deep. She might think you betrayed her trust then by being like a younger sister to her and still went ahead to date her husband.

She might not trust you and anything coming from you even now in need.

Because of this, I think anonymously will be better.
why can't you see that a 35 years old married man deceived her

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Avast(m): 8:47pm On Nov 05, 2022
Awon ọmọ isonu

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Mindlog: 8:47pm On Nov 05, 2022
Carcholce:


The man is dead, he has already faced condemnation for his wrong life choices.


But the OP here must have subjected the man to make the poor choices that one way or the other must have led to the man’s demise. The question and condemnation should be directed at the OP because many years have passed and who knows how many more married men are going to die in the near future because of her.

Fidelity in a marriage is the sole responsibility of the couples involved not an outsider.

A 35 year old man at that time started a relationship with OP who was 19 and still an Adolescent by World Health Organization's classification, is the one who subjected him to make poor choices in life, same man who probably was constantly reminding his wife who is way older than the 19 year old that he is the boss in their home?

Every married person, be it male or female must take full responsibility and let not lust, guide him or her.

Infidelity is poisoned chalice.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by osazsky(m): 8:47pm On Nov 05, 2022
2Radii:
Weyrey man


U no invest in the future of Ur woman and children but u re busy sponsoring side chick to Europe...


I tire o...some men ehnn...he good as the hole block am self...y he nor carry him wife go abroad at least she for nor abandon her family

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Rechargeam247(f): 8:48pm On Nov 05, 2022
Men, smh.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by MansoryMX(m): 8:48pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Do that then y’all even.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by SPAMBOX7: 8:48pm On Nov 05, 2022
If you want to help people help them. As long as it's coming from a clear mind. But since you already know letting her know will cause a panic then do it anonymously.
I believe your aim is to put a smile on the family of a Sugar daddy that changed your life. There is nothing bad there whether anonymous or not but since it's gonna cause a panic if you reveal yourself then go anonymous. Unless you just Wan chase clout like your counterparts who always want the whole word to know they have bought chewing gum for somebody

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by strongguy(m): 8:48pm On Nov 05, 2022
Do it for her not at all cause,considering the harsh economy the country is in, she will be very happy to receive your help. To feed a mouth ,not an easy task,not to talk of 5 mouths and the worst situation the woman is right now. You will actually be the saving Jesus to her . Please do it with all you could for the sake of the man. God bless you richly for remembering them.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by malali: 8:49pm On Nov 05, 2022
Ifeanyi Adeleke was autistic.
His death reeks of orchestration.
Societal stigma of rich wealthy people having autistic children should be softened.


#Autism speaks.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by PlayMaker14: 8:49pm On Nov 05, 2022
Dear Madampauline, the 19yrs old dick rider,


I hope you won't disturb us when you find out your husband is having a side chic.... Karma is watching closely.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by DMTtechnologies: 8:49pm On Nov 05, 2022
Carcholce:


See what you did here, Women are very crafty. See the way you condemned the man and removed the OP from every faults. What will you teach your daughters?

At 19 She was more than matured to turn down the “married” man’s advances but She accepted to ruin his home, used him to travel abroad and eventually contributed to his death.


you are not perfect, neither am i.
We may not be privileged to know what you do behind closed door
No one has appointed you to be the judge.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Ofokajeremy(m): 8:49pm On Nov 05, 2022
You just melted my heart. First of all is the wife aware of your previous relationship with her husband? Was she against it? The answer to these questions will be of good help to your needed advice. Do All you can to help her and the kids. You are not interested in the husband anymore, the husband is no more, you are not the cause of her husband's death. I don't think she'll rejects such glorious opportunity that could be once and forever in a Life time. God bless your heart, bless your hands, bless your marriage, bless your decision to reciprocate what the late Man has done for you. It's your good heart that open your door to Europe please help her thank you.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by MoneyMustBMade(m): 8:49pm On Nov 05, 2022
Did you in any way contribute to any harm to his family and travel to Europe?

Why did you feel she will not accept the help?
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Dchampion65: 8:50pm On Nov 05, 2022
At 19 you dated the husband of your aunty's friend that she is very much aware of the unholy affairs.

She is now a widow and you wanted to help but you are doubting she may not accept your help because of what you did in the past.

Thank God you are now married. Imagine yourself in her shoe, the pain, the hurt,the betrayal.

First, have a way of offering sincere apology for the time you put dagger into her heart. She must first forgive you before taking further steps.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by VULCAN(m): 8:50pm On Nov 05, 2022
I dare you to keep receiving bribe based on this utter lack of logic.

That is when you will find out that when the govt wants to finish you they sentence both the bribe giver and the bribe taker.

The Law does not separate btw the two.

Both are crimes

Mindlog:


She "accepted" to ruin his home? shocked

Why did the man in the first place "offer" her the opportunity to ruin his home, so his wife and children he is obligated to protect means nothing to him because of sex?

If he had other sidechicks, are they obligated to help his wife and children now?
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by abokikhalifa: 8:50pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:


Yes she was aware of the affair and she was a good friend of my aunty

Omoh you be bad girl o. Just help her if you want to help her so you don't end up like her in the future. Karma is a respected of none.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by FuckTheMod: 8:50pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please
You dated a married man knowingly and you think that the chapter is now closed because you think you're happily married? Lol
Broken and damaged leftover people usually think like this. YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT IN THIS WORLD... No matter how long it takes, your dirty past will always come around to bite you in the ass.
YOU WILL NEVER ALSO ENJOY YOUR HUSBAND TO YOURSELF ALONE BECAUSE YOU DON'T DESERVE IT.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Carcholce: 8:52pm On Nov 05, 2022
Mindlog:


Fidelity in a marriage is the sole responsibility of the couples involved not an outsider.

A 35 year old man at that time started a relationship with OP who was 19 and still an Adolescent by World Health Organization's classification, is the one who subjected him to make poor choices in life, same man who probably was constantly reminding his wife who is way older than the 19 year old that he is the boss in their home?

Every married person, be it male or female must take full responsibility and let not lust, guide him or her.

Infidelity is poisoned chalice.


You cannot control the actions and choices of other people but you can control your actions and choices. Older married women have made sexual passes at me but I turned them down. If anything happens to them or their home tomorrow, it will be remembered that I did not play a role in their wrong choices and actions.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by DonroxyII: 8:53pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please
Kindly Breathe into Her Anonymously .... It's far better than Leaving them like that !

Atleast for the Sake of God and Friendship between You Guys!

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by FuckTheMod: 8:53pm On Nov 05, 2022
Helpout12345:
First, you have to help them for the sake of the good the man did for you. That's the most important here.

Second, if you know she will reject it, then do it anonymously.
Who says he's a good man?
A good man that's married will never be having a sexual relationship with a young girl he doesn't intend to marry.

They all BASTARDS and should rot in hell.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by abokikhalifa: 8:53pm On Nov 05, 2022
Mindlog:


By breaking the heart of a married man?

I guess she dragged him away from his wife and children, put a gun on his head to spend time and money on her, a man supposedly the physical and spiritual head of his family?

No worry, when one 19 year old girl collect your husband from you, you will understand better.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by mariahAngel(f): 8:53pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:


She knows me well

So, you together with her late husband caused her so much pain, and now you're looking to clear your conscience eekwa?

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by phemmyfour: 8:54pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please
Go ahead, your mind is troubled already. Just do it and have peace of mind.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Brushless: 8:54pm On Nov 05, 2022
Helpout12345:
First, you have to help them for the sake of the good the man did for you. That's the most important here.

Second, if you know she will reject it, then do it anonymously.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Mindlog: 8:54pm On Nov 05, 2022
malali:
Ifeanyi Adeleke was autistic.
His death reeks of orchestration.
Societal stigma of rich wealthy people having autistic children should be softened.


#Autism speaks.

What is your aim with your littering of this same post in different threads?

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Justkatty(f): 8:54pm On Nov 05, 2022
While on earth, guy man forgot to invest on his kids but was interested in sending a side chick outside hmmmm
Imagine how he'll be feeling in the spirit world, seeing his kids moving from one house to the other.

Lesson for whoever that has ears.

Anyways do whatever that pleases you, but I'll advise you to do that anonymously, before you go open old wound.

Life shaaa

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