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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by PlayMaker14: 8:55pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:


She knows me well
You will soon know the lady that is furcking your husband well... It won't be long.


Very shameless.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by ojimuf(m): 8:56pm On Nov 05, 2022
Pls pls and pls do. Since u can. U will always be happy u did
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Discountsempai: 8:56pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Would you agree to your husband having a side chick?

Answer that quesiton first...and you will find the answer you seek.

Thank you.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Mindlog: 8:58pm On Nov 05, 2022
abokikhalifa:


No worry, when one 19 year old girl collect your husband from you, you will understand better.

Is a man a goat, that would be dragged away against his will?

Focus on the key lesson, invest your resources in your wife and children not side chicks.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by do4luv14(m): 8:58pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:


She knows me well



Go through her Church pastor, explain your reason to him,

But First provide the Accommodation, it can be rented, or build, Then get in touch with her pastor, and let her relocate there,

Since you wanted to assist her with business, If you are going to build the Accommodation for her, or rented, let there be a shop there, where She can be selling Goods,

God bless you for your kindheart

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by royalfly(m): 8:59pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Are u an edo person? Anyways that will ensure they get help plz
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by larry4ice(m): 9:00pm On Nov 05, 2022
First things first;

1. Does she know you?
2. Is she aware you dated her late husband?

If the answers to these questions are 'yes', then she might refuse your help but that's only if her sapa is not serious. You can't force her to accept your support, at least you tried to help and moreover you've long broken up with her late husband. But if you truly want to help, you won't be here asking us in Nairaland because you already know the option of doing it anonymously.

Now if your answers to the two questions above are 'no', then nothing is stopping you from helping if you have the resources to do so. It's a simple of charity and you don't have to seek peaceful Nairalanders' opinion before you show love to anyone, whosoever it may be.

I hope this was helpful?

Thanks!!

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by adabaraabdul: 9:01pm On Nov 05, 2022
help her anonymously. Better for everyone.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Sirchiboy: 9:01pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please
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God bless you for having a good heart.
I will advise you to do it anonymously Please madam.
I am in need of help too.
I don't know you and you don't know me.
I don't deserve your help because we are programmed to fight for our own course.
I have learnt that you don't need to know someone before helping .
I am jobless and this year made me 34 years.
I needed help to start a small-scale business but no one is ready to help.
Your one kobo will make a big difference in my life.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Machinegun91(m): 9:02pm On Nov 05, 2022
You killed her husband and come to Nairaland to ask if you should help her right?


Your plate of food is coming soon.


Demons are Nigerian women

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by PlayMaker14: 9:02pm On Nov 05, 2022
do4luv14:




Go through her Church pastor, explain your reason to him,

But First provide the Accommodation, it can be rented, or build, Then get in touch with her pastor, and let her relocate there,

Since you wanted to assist her with business, If you are going to build the Accommodation for her, or rented, let there be a shop there, where She can be selling Goods,

God bless you for your kindheart
A kind hearted person will not knowingly sleep with another person's husband.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Brushless: 9:03pm On Nov 05, 2022
post=118152200:
Anonymous help is the best way to go with this. God bless your heart for helping her out at this perilous time.
We Rise.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Nonexisting1: 9:05pm On Nov 05, 2022
Today, my eyes have seen a vaginarian with conscience. Otito diri Jesu.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Olaolex: 9:05pm On Nov 05, 2022
JustStupidity:
Why are people wic_ked like this?

So after her husband helped you, send you abroad and sponsor your education over there.

Now it's your turn to pay him back with good, you're now asking us whether to help his wife or not angry
One thing is the ability to read and another is the ability to comprehend. You need help sir

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by VULCAN(m): 9:06pm On Nov 05, 2022
If only you had bothered to read before rushing to comment.

You would have learnt that she is actually asking whether to help anonymously or openly.

But like most Nairalanders, you just rushed waaaa!!

JustStupidity:
Why are people wic_ked like this?

So after her husband helped you, send you abroad and sponsor your education over there.

Now it's your turn to pay him back with good, you're now asking us whether to help his wife or not angry

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by malali: 9:08pm On Nov 05, 2022
Mindlog:


What is your aim with your littering of this same post in different threads?

Why do individuals with an autism spectrum disorder diagnosis have a higher risk of drowning?
We have found that 4 main factors contribute to the increased risk of drowning for children on the autism spectrum:

Wandering or Bolting
A characteristic of those on the autism spectrum is that they can be impulsive and this contributes to them being unsafe around water.
Attraction
They are attracted to the glistening light and movement of the water and love the experience of feeling the water surrounding their body.
Lack of Experience
Often drowning anxiety from parents/caregivers, leads to an avoidance of water or an individual’s behavioral challenges, or fear of the water, can lead to ‘putting off’ swimming lessons.
Lack of training
Parents often experience challenges in finding swim instructors with the specialized training necessary to be able to teach their child how to swim.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by advanceDNA: 9:09pm On Nov 05, 2022
deavicky:
why can't you see that a 35 years old married man deceived her


Deceive is when u lie that a 10th hand car with a ringed engine is one year second hand......

deceive is making me think i got u pregnant when the baby belongs to another man...

A lady is sleeping with a married adulterous man for financial gain...How did deception enter this equation??

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by LordReed(m): 9:10pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Do it anonymously, no need to cause her more grief.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Psalmistproject: 9:10pm On Nov 05, 2022
I feel tempted to tell you don't do it! So that cheating men won't have the excuse of squandering their wealth on sidechics in hopes of her returning the favor when he's no more but damn!

Just do the good ok!
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by robosky02(m): 9:11pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please



Use an NGO or somebody to represent you

Not revealing your identity


Then help...possible give one or more of the kids a scholarship


You have a good hart dear
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Nobody: 9:11pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please
It's nice that you are feeling this way; willingness to be of help to her. One thing I will advise you do, is to first check how she feels about you then, and what you think might be her reaction towards you today.

I think, putting both together will help you figure out, how best to channel the help to her. Please, don't be discouraged. Thank you as the Lord strengthen you.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Mindlog: 9:11pm On Nov 05, 2022
malali:


Why do individuals with an autism spectrum disorder diagnosis have a higher risk of drowning?
We have found that 4 main factors contribute to the increased risk of drowning for children on the autism spectrum:

Wandering or Bolting
A characteristic of those on the autism spectrum is that they can be impulsive and this contributes to them being unsafe around water.
Attraction
They are attracted to the glistening light and movement of the water and love the experience of feeling the water surrounding their body.
Lack of Experience
Often drowning anxiety from parents/caregivers, leads to an avoidance of water or an individual’s behavioral challenges, or fear of the water, can lead to ‘putting off’ swimming lessons.
Lack of training
Parents often experience challenges in finding swim instructors with the specialized training necessary to be able to teach their child how to swim.

Autism is not new to me as I know more about it than you think but my question remains, why posting it in different threads?

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by sirblend: 9:11pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

At the bolded...

Though it is none of my business..

Tell us the truth
The man is more than 35 years

Let say he is actually

35 + 30 = 65 years

That means at 19 you were comfortably making love to a granny...

Una dey try sha.....

How do you cope with seeing grey hair in his genital area.
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by sirblend: 9:11pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

At the bolded...

Though it is none of my business..

Tell us the truth
The man is more than 35 years

Let say he is actually

35 + 30 = 65 years

That means at 19 you were comfortably making love to a grand pa.

Una dey try sha.....

How do you cope with seeing grey hair in his genital area?
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by malvisguy212: 9:12pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:


Yes she was aware of the affair and she was a good friend of my aunty
what a world we live in.... anyway, by all means, help her asap, don't delay

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by larry4ice(m): 9:12pm On Nov 05, 2022
**simple act of charity
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by advanceDNA: 9:12pm On Nov 05, 2022
PlayMaker14:
You will soon know the lady that is furcking your husband well... It won't be long.


Very shameless.

Shame has left this world....
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by JealousCobra(m): 9:13pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on

Advice me please





I feel like reporting you to our SS Organization, I get your details....
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by goody234: 9:13pm On Nov 05, 2022
Dont tell her who you are... but help if the man helped you back in the day sponsor the children to school if you can
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Bubu4Sea: 9:14pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:

She knows me well

Send am help & pray that nobody dates ur husband

Galatians 6:7
Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by PlayMaker14: 9:14pm On Nov 05, 2022
advanceDNA:


Shame has left this world....
Long time ago....

Some dummies are praising her for having a "Good Heart"

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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Enkidu70: 9:16pm On Nov 05, 2022
Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

If truly you wanna help her just do it anonymously, unless you just want to make yourself feel good from her pain

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