Eriokanmi:
Why Block him after doing her so much good?

Carcholce:
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You must have contributed to what killed him.
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BabaCommander:

God can use anyone and anything to bring about His plan and purposes.

Sholayeaminebir:
So Sad for the woman and children what crime did dis woman commit... She only married a man who was foolish ..

do4luv14:




Go through her Church pastor, explain your reason to him,

But First provide the Accommodation, it can be rented, or build, Then get in touch with her pastor, and let her relocate there,

Since you wanted to assist her with business, If you are going to build the Accommodation for her, or rented, let there be a shop there, where She can be selling Goods,

God bless you for your kindheart

ZIMDRILL:


why the pastor? you dont need the all the time all she needs someone close to her, who get infor like bank details, with that she can directly deposit into the woman's account.

maasoap:


He invested heavily on you. You used him and dumped him. His heart was broken and shattered. And he never recovered!
Now, your conscience is disturbing you. Help the damn woman and may be, you will have your peace.

do4luv14:



That why I said the pastor, Furthermore She said, the Wife knew her, reasons She was thinking of going Annoym, And there is a chance the WIFE might reject, if she goes directly,

Remember the WIFE is a close Friend of her Aunt

JustStupidity:
Why are people wic_ked like this?

So after her husband helped you, send you abroad and sponsor your education over there.

Now it's your turn to pay him back with good, you're now asking us whether to help his wife or not

Helpout12345:


Why will she reject your assistance if she knows it's coming from you?

ZIMDRILL:


pastors will manipulate her situation, the pastor will dip in whatever is sent

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2


beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.



She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Mindlog:


Do it anonymously since she knows about the affair. Her husband failed to secure his family's future but rather spent on his infidelity thus leaving his family penniless and homeless upon his demise.

You can go on and help with accommodation, so she can have all her 5 children with her and assist her with money for business.

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Carcholce:


The man is dead, he has already faced condemnation for his wrong life choices.


But the OP here must have subjected the man to make the poor choices that one way or the other must have led to the man’s demise. The question and condemnation should be directed at the OP because many years have passed and who knows how many more married men are going to die in the near future because of her.

Helpout12345:


And she knew you had an affair with her husband back then? Any other reasons?

confun:


Its good to help...
But my concern is the bolded, I pray it won't be a temporary statement, by the time karma catch you, that statement will be changed...

And there are some pp that should never be hurt, the way their head will fight back, you will wonder , i pray the widow is not in that category, otherwise, Pauline, you go suffer ooo...

You need help honestly, and only Jesus can help you to escape judgement. Pls run to him. My humble advice.

tiswell:
the 19yr old wen go finish the OP's husband is already in the pipeline. So you mean she was more responsible than the older sugar daddy who should have known better...


Karma is a fvcking biatch!


@op,wait for it!

Carcholce:


See what you did here, Women are very crafty. See the way you condemned the man and removed the OP from every faults. What will you teach your daughters?

At 19 She was more than matured to turn down the “married” man’s advances but She accepted to ruin his home, used him to travel abroad and eventually contributed to his death.

ZIMDRILL:


but remember he was married, it was better that way, she moved away to start a new life.
Already she had caused damage while she there, it was going to hurt more on the wife finding out that from a great distance she still talk to him

Eriokanmi:
Being married shouldn't be an excuse for blocking him. For someone to have been so kind, she must have meant everything to him and that's if the story was true. The girl in question could have been his only source of happiness cos she never knew what the man was going through. She should have just told him the plain truth and moved on with her life. She couid drop the sim instead of blocking him. How would she have felt if the man had blocked her when she needed those help, which the man cheerfully rendered? That's why I even doubted the veracity of the story.

Let me share a true life story with you. There was someone close whose marriage was going through a lot. Then he had this girl who was very close to him. He gave her almost all she needed, including sponsoring her University project, accommodation when she was on her nysc, even giving her money monthly. This girl told her parents she's dating a married man when the mum asked her to bring her fiancé. The man actually travelled with her to see her patents , cos he truly liked her. They travelled by air together. He was lodged to a hotel. The following day, she began to act funny. Her character had changed completely. Her dad welcomed him with open arms while mum was totally against their relationship. The man even said he'd not mind marrying her as a second wife.

Long story cut short, this girl blocked his line. She also blocked him in Facebook. All these happened after his visit to her parents. Her mum must have talked her head up all through the night he visited. The man felt hurt and moved on. A year later, this girl unblocked him. She began to ask for his favour again...imagine . But as kind as he was, he still helped but nothing between them again. This man had a project in the country where this girl later relocated to. It was the girl who provided an interpreter for him cos its a French speaking country. Throughout his stay , he didn't see her... cos he said he'd not see her, despite her describing her place. Eventually, the man still sent her money for the assistance. End of story.