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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by titiboti(m): 1:29am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Please help them, you will find Joy in it. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:30am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Eriokanmi: your story is irrelevant at this point, as the girl is not asking for any assisant but looking for ways to help the poor wife Yes the girl was wrong to date a married me but the one who was in control was the guy who most likely manipulated the girl or the girl took advantage of him But lets not for get the guy was 35 was he fooled by a 19 year old ? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Kobicove(m): 1:37am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Carcholce: Seun, I think you need to create an "Unlike" button for comments like this! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Badgers14: 1:39am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Madampauline: Please help them if you could. I will suggest anonymously.. Think about it, the important part is helping her and her kids... please do help them .. Cheers! |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Burgerlomo: 2:02am On Nov 06, 2022 |
You do have a heart of gold, pls do it codedly because you have reaped a lot from have late hubby and you will forever be blessed as you do so. 1 Like
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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by AreaFada2: 2:04am On Nov 06, 2022 |
2Radii:The guy and OP must have had a different agreement. Maybe the idea was to make her move benefit his family in another way too. We will never know for sure. Before a lady admits that she broke a man's heart, you can imagine how much water went under the bridge. She redacted the gist and told us very little part. The man might have died of heartache and regret. Some are saying she has a good heart. Very funny logic people have these days. This is more like guilt. Knowing how much pain she caused the woman, the late guy and his family. Sure, the man wasn't forced into it. OP should do whatever will make her sleep better at night. I hope she will be happy if a girl from nowhere comes to try to scatter her "married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children" family. Karma is a patient but aggressive bodybuilder. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by sihamey: 2:31am On Nov 06, 2022 |
FuckTheMod:She never committed any crime dating a married man , if she hurt the man that’s when you talk of Kama like you hurting someone will also get Karmic debt to pay either in a relationship or not. No different between you dating two girls at the same time as single guy Marrying 2 wives is traditionally and constitutional accepted in Nigerian so no crime dating someone . Meanwhile either she dated married man or not her husband must cheat |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by stonemasonn: 2:37am On Nov 06, 2022 |
ictplotter:sharap! You are part of this generation. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Duru009(m): 2:41am On Nov 06, 2022 |
To keep your sanity, I will advise to do it Anonymous atleast for the time being..... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Ndidi2: 2:45am On Nov 06, 2022 |
obinna58:shameless one.. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Btruth: 3:00am On Nov 06, 2022 |
I'm sure you knew the man loved you all along.....but as you said, you broke his heart. Anyway, do what you think is right from your mind. Because his family deserve better from you now at their needy period. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by manmade(m): 3:45am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Hmmmmm, respect the dead and let's what happened In Vegas remained in Vegas do the help but annoymously,this is a big lessons to all the sugar daddies invest in your immediate family and yourself instead of lavishing your Whealth on suya girls that would fly away like the Twitter's bird. Now to the ex sugar girl, give the woman something reasonable enough to change her life to atleast her social status before the demised of her husband or even better than then , if you couldn't afford to do that for now, give what you could afford then as a way of restitution try to help her first child to succeed in life just the way that man has helped you , the bitter truth is that karma is real and doesn't forgive or forget but you can always minimize the impact of the wrath of karma by restitution. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by olaodun: 3:51am On Nov 06, 2022 |
pls repent and render help for the sake of innocent children and move on in life thanks death is for everybody |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:56am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Madampauline: If you reach out and help her, you're only proving that you have a conscience. For some, their conscience is dead after the act they seemed wrong. For others, their conscience remains active, pushing them to take actions that may right the wrong. Besides, the man helped you, and in return, you're helping his kids. The person you should be concerned about is your husband. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Clinghton: 4:17am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Help her through your aunty |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by romunu(m): 4:22am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Please help her, since it’s from your heart, apologize to her later. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by neztar: 4:25am On Nov 06, 2022 |
eyinjuege:you are a bastard for saying this 1 Like |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Okhuadams(m): 4:29am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Madampauline:Do it anonymously later you can show yourself thats if you wish . At least you have the heart to do it |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Secondly: 4:30am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Madampauline: Somehow I feel your offer to help is genuine. But I also get this feeling that you want to send her a message as in you want to remind her that no one knows tomorrow probably because she was fighting you when you were a side chic. Well sha, na you sabi 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by PS712: 4:31am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Madampauline:Now that you are married with two lovely kids, can you stand your husband cheating on you with someone younger than you, especially with the niece of your friend? I guess not. Perhaps you'll bear it if he cheats and not let you find out, but not so much under your nose. Well, what has happened has happened, it'll be wrong to judge you because we are all sinners, doing the same thing you did and some others not doing exactly this but other things that are worse causing more grievous harm,...rest assured personally I am also on no good ground to throw stone at you. That being said, kindly not hesitate to assist that woman and the children. Maybe for this reason you crossed their path and they crossed yours too. Most times God in His wisdom turns bad situations into good. He doesn't like sin neither does he promote it, but out of His love, mercy and grace He saves the sinner and still blesses him or her. Fact is if you ever prayed to God for forgiveness, then He has forgiven you. But there could still be an expectation to fulfill such as this. So, do not hesitate, reach out to them as much as you can, but do it anonymously first. And since the woman knew of your affair with her husband it is wise and advisable that you don't let her know just yet. But you certainly have to let her know one day and go to her and apologize, if she had laid curses on you or your generations which are yet to manifest by the time she realizes how much assistance you had given them all along anonymously and that it is sign that you are truly sorry for what you did at a younger age she will forgive you. By then you'll seek that forgiveness. You'll plead with her to mention out your name in your presence and pronounce she has forgiven you. This is because words are powerful and life is mysterious. If she or someone attached to her laid a curse on you it may take time but will most likely manifest, no matter how long it takes, despite that you are comfortable at the moment. Sometimes it manifest in similar ways we caused the hurt, or in another aspect of life or in those of our kids, but it is what it is, karma. Good thing is it has time within which restitution can be done. Best wishes as you have a good heart. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by gbogboija: 4:33am On Nov 06, 2022 |
You are saying rubbish. Fool. Carcholce: |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by gbogboija: 4:35am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Do it anonymously. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by stanlink(m): 4:37am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Don't mind anyone throwing violence, everything happens for a purpose Kindly contact the pastor of the church that is accommodating her and the kid's; and assist her as the spirit moves you and try everything to stay under cover u never can tell how much bitterness she habour perhaps you had hurt her alot |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by manmade(m): 4:40am On Nov 06, 2022 |
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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by nakoks(m): 4:40am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Carcholce:You are very correct. She didn't disclose some major details in her story. They must have had an arrangement for him to marry her after she gets her papers so he can bring his kids and wife later. Then she can remarry and settle down. Reason he invested his life savings but sister had other ideas. If you check well maybe the wife knew too and played along , reason she is disgusted and won't take any assistance from OP. She did them 419 now wants to give back peanut after the man had died. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by samwillyco1(m): 4:48am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Bridget95: APC Member Spotted 1 Like |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Sagefromtheeast: 5:20am On Nov 06, 2022 |
dawnomike: I'm condemning! She should repent properly,if not, karma still holds... she shouldn't think she has escaped |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Alwaysready(m): 5:30am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Madampauline: After 11 years? Chai. This is wickedness. You don't need to ask again,just help them immediately and also,try to take in one of the kids to Europe for a payback. It was God who made you remember the family and nothing more. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by b1olat: 5:32am On Nov 06, 2022 |
It is payback time dear, kindly go ahead and give a helping hand, the man will appreciate it in his grave Moreso when you confessed he really did a lot for you when you were dating. From your write-up, the wife probably knew you were her husband side chick then, hence the reservation she might turn down the offer of help, but don't worry, time and event has taken care of that. I believe the woman will welcome help from anyone now and that includes you. Remember you used this man as a stepping stone to greatness help not only the woman, but one of the children too. God bless you as you pounder this. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Sagefromtheeast: 5:38am On Nov 06, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest: I can't believe I liked your post, I did I totally agree with you |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by NNTR: 5:38am On Nov 06, 2022 |
Madampauline:Luke 12:20 '"But God said to him, "'Foolish man, this night your life is demanded from you; and these preparations--for whom shall they be?' James 4:14 'What do you know about tomorrow? How can you be so sure about your life? It is nothing more than mist that appears for only a little while before it disappears.' Nothing is as good as Nike it NOW, meaning do it now, already. God forbid bad thing, what guarantee have you that you'll see next week. No one is promised tomorrow, talkless of next week. Consider this though sister, God allowed the 'Back in the days' escapade to happen, maybe for such as time as this that you're in a position to help this widow, and be of help especially in her hour of need. God sure works in mysterious ways cc 1Alex, Rhassidy360, Helpout12345, Wawelexy, dawnomike, Carcholce, Mindlog, Starz825, Eriokanmi, ZIMDRILL, Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories. 1 Like 1 Share |
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