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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by murtalaa(m): 1:00pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
OP, your heart is in a good place. Do not allow people put you down for your past life choices. At 35, the man should have been more circumspect since the burden of circumspection is more on him than you at just 19! My advice to you on this is not to help her anonymously as it might not get to her considering economic situation in this country. Even if it does, it might not be as life-changing as you intended it to be as a lot of it can be withheld. So, I would advice you to contact her directly and tell her your intention. If she rejects, move on with your life and face your family. If she accepts, then you can go ahead and help out. To tell you the truth, considering her situation you painted, there is no snowball's chance in hell that she will reject your generosity. Poverty has a way of resetting people's high horse meter back to default settings. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by HRMK: 1:01pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me. I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life. I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children. I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay. She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives. I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money. Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her. Advice me please[/quote] i dont think how you do it really matters since she is urgently in need!disclosing your identity may be risky though!mixreactions on the motive may not be in your favor!do it anonymously since you dont want to be paid back!! |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Munzy14(m): 1:06pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
mariahAngel:Hot prayer . Ike gwuru o. Her karma is still on the way..The man don collect his sha.. The thing is, if the said wife is pure, OP'S karma should have happened quick quick..If she isn't, the Karma will delay..But must happen. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Wuppdex: 1:11pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
And the now husband would be thinking he found a good wife ? hmmmm what a 304 lifestyle Carcholce: |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Wuppdex: 1:14pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Yes o, she has already started by using the current husband funds to finance her sugar daddy's family and the music goes on, WOMEN Carcholce: |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Mercury12(m): 1:20pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Bridget95:lol |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by mariahAngel(f): 1:22pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Munzy14: My mum would say "Chineke e kwela ihe'm wuru ihe onye ozo" There must be a reason why she's looking to make amends. O gahu a gbalaha ya. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Basiljoe: 1:23pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Omo. Some men dey really mumu o. Kai. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Boosheman(m): 1:30pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
She won't reject it even if she knows it's coming from you. We are Africans, our pride no reach that side |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by sihamey: 1:34pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
FuckTheMod:SHe dated a man makes her a whor’e and a slut You are just STUP!D The one you are dating is not a whor*o and slu”t , if a girl tell you marriage before sex you will still call her stup!d and she open leg for your broke ass you still call her a whor’e and a slut. She choose to use her stupidity wisely and you are condemning her. Hypocrite Everywhere You will soon join bob risky 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Munzy14(m): 1:48pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
mariahAngel:Hahahahaha as in eeh.. O ga enwe rila ihe o ji na monitor the family..Ujo ga ju zi ya.. O napuru nwaanyi ibe ya nri ya Ihe nke ya no na uzo abia ga sha.. Ma o na emehu ya na ndu, ya eme ya na onwu..Idi sure na oburu hu ego Nwoke ahu gbaala Europe sef.. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Tundex911: 1:53pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Pray to God for forgiveness cuz you cause him not to support his family financially though he get his fault too but he already use death senior you... Don't forget if you help the wife no reward for you Peace ✌️ |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Exceed15: 2:01pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Please do my dear sister. May God reward you. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by theforemost: 2:09pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
It's like i know you in ilorin. That man had Toyota. You both fought over your phone. If yes, remember you called me to report him that day asking me to intervene. Anyways both of you were guilty but he was more. I wonder how he'll expect you marry him even when you witness what he was doing to his family. Probably if he'd been sincere and shown you how good he could ever be to his wife, you might have considered that. Anyways, help the family anonymously but after they are through, make sure you tell her it's from you. You might find forgiveness from there. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by mariahAngel(f): 2:09pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Munzy14: Ihe m ma wu na onye gbaroo mmiri mmadu ibe ya, onye ozo ga a gbaroo nke ya. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by MrRemedyAlagbo(m): 2:12pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.it's a good thing to give back,God bless you as you render the help back |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Munzy14(m): 2:14pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
mariahAngel: Ofor na ogu ka ndi mama.. Ihuru gi eeh |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by mariahAngel(f): 2:20pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Munzy14: Op e deactivatiala sef. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Munzy14(m): 2:27pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
mariahAngel:Reminds me of that funny song shey you they whine mi ni... She can't run from karma...Same with guys banging married ladies.. Sacrilege |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by FuckTheMod: 2:31pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
sihamey:You're just plainly stup !d and I perceive you to be a damaged, frustrated and pained SL*T. SHE DIDN'T JUST DATE A MAN, SHE DATED A MARRIED MAN! What's your problem? What is your bodycount? ARE YOU PROUD OF YOUR BODYCOUNT? How many married men have you dated too? Do you want to get married and enjoy your husband to yourself after dating married men? DO YOU DESERVE LOYALTY, COMMITMENT AND FIDELITY? Judge yourself e-diot. You want to date a clean and decent person, when you're not one. In which world does that happen? For your stupid question about no sex before marriage, HOW'S THAT A BIG DEAL AND WHAT'S THE PROBLEM WITH THAT? Even if you've lost count of your bodycount, won't you like your daughter (s) to marry as a virgin? The problem with most of you that usually request this no sex before marriage is that, most of you are slǔts and whóres and have fucƙed your life away with numerous men. While you ask one to wait for you until marriage, you'll secretly be engaging others in the same sex you lied you don't want. Many guys have learnt their lessons this way and that's why most won't agree to such terms. IF YOU'RE NOT A VIRGIN, YOU DON'T HAVE A RIGHT TO ASK FOR NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. Not being a virgin before marriage means that you're a SLÚT (except in the case of rape). A SLÚT does not deserve any respect, because you lost that already. In every culture around the world, sexual purity is very important. Even in christaindoom. This is why you have reverend fathers and mothers. EVEN GOD DOESN'T LIKE FILTH. THIS IS WHY HE CHOSE MARY, A VIRGIN TO BIRTH JESUS, AND NOT A WHÓRE. 1 Share |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by mariahAngel(f): 2:35pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Munzy14: Oh my god! So damn funny! |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:54pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
maasoap: i was talking as in general not direct to the dead man |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by sihamey: 2:56pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
FuckTheMod: All I can see is nothing but TRASH 1 Like
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Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Sibbb: 3:01pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Carcholce: You are not a man of peace The bitch give am heart attack |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Memunat27: 3:05pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
May you remain blessed for remembering his family. We all fall short as human beings, no one is perfect. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Xsw1: 3:10pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Yes |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by shineeye1: 3:16pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids. Invariably, you cannot go to your grave in peace without paying the debts you owe that man. You were a wicked soul. If you help his children you stand a chance of escaping retribution. The best help you can offer yourself is to help his children (better anonymously, lest you gain glory for the "help" and forfeit your liberation) |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by membranus: 3:58pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Kobicove: Yes please. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Askmewhy(m): 4:14pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
it seems I know you. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by demoBaba: 4:19pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids. You contribute to his death..... instead of you to continue communicating with him when you get Europe, you cut all means of communication with him you're a wicked soul. Moreover, your sister is a friend to your late sugar daddy wife..... your sister is also wicked family friend to the late man. It's a very very big lesson. |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Helpout12345: 4:27pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
deavicky: This is not a good reason for her to date a married man, and a husband of her sister's close friend. I am also sure the man was not her only toaster then when she was 19 and she must have rejected some men and accepted some then. Why did she accept the 35 years old married man of her sister's close friend and rejected some other men? |
Re: Should I Anonymously Help My Ex Sugar Daddy Wife by Archtype(m): 4:33pm On Nov 06, 2022 |
If other side-Chicks atleast have this kinda of small Conscience to even think of helping at the first place the world will be a better place to live. Help them Anonymously, they will know later. God's ways is really not our ways |
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