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The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by Globetech(m): 2:53pm On Nov 01, 2022
[/b]The tribe where women raise and marry their children[b]

Bonda tribe in India is known as one of the primitive tribes that still exist even in 2022.

Usually, a woman will marry a boy at the age of 9-10 years and begin to live together as husband and wife; and within their relationship, the woman raises her husband so that when she becomes old he will have to take care of her. Women from the Bonda tribes get married between 25–30. If a boy passes the age of 14 he is considered as too old to be a husband.

The wife is also like a tutor that takes care of educating her “child husband” in all manners and making sure that once they reach an age when they can sustain themselves and the wife, they have the knowledge required to do so.

Due to this culture, the population within the Bonda tribes is mainly made of women and this is because women are seen as more valued than men within their culture. They are considered more powerful, more knowledgeable, and with a long life expectancy.

AN UNUSUAL WEDLOCK
One of the most unusual things about this tribe is their Marriage procession. Bonda women marry boys ten or twelve years younger than them. So a BONDA girl in her twenties marries a ten-year-old. She takes an oath to protect and feed her child husband until he becomes an adult. And the husband in return takes an oath to feed and protect the girl when she ages and loses her strength in future. Instead of dowry, they pay exact opposite, termed as ‘BRIDE PRICE’. Elder brother of child groom can pay the bride price, but the groom has to return it later compulsorily. Economic needs and physical support are the prime motives of such marriages; sexual relationship becomes a second priority. An intimate relationship is not established until boys become adults.

Source,: Womenofrubies.com

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 01, 2022
Well... every culture with their peculiarities.

Doesn't necessarily make them bad

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by TinubuThief: 3:08pm On Nov 01, 2022
Wonderful

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by VeryWickedMan: 3:12pm On Nov 01, 2022
Do they have a prophetess that loves bloodshed and pray to the Sun facing the West?

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by Foodqueen(f): 3:12pm On Nov 01, 2022
Reverse strategy

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by mespusinglez(m): 3:20pm On Nov 01, 2022
WAHALA.
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by Boogyman557: 3:20pm On Nov 01, 2022
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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by superCleanworks(m): 3:28pm On Nov 01, 2022
hmm! wonders
anyways, na them culture dem dey practice in peace and they are not kidnapping each other or mining skulls.

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by tillaman(m): 3:54pm On Nov 01, 2022
sad

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by fyzaila: 5:00pm On Nov 01, 2022
Weird culture and traditions
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by detectivejones: 5:42pm On Nov 01, 2022
We may find this culture strange, but funny enough some cultures we practise as African may seem strange to them as well. The world we live.

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by Nobody: 7:46pm On Nov 01, 2022
Those Indians in SA look like the descendants of these people because most of them are also brown or dark in complexion.
Globetech:
[/b]The tribe where women raise and marry their children[b]

Bonda tribe in India is known as one of the primitive tribes that still exist even in 2022.

Usually, a woman will marry a boy at the age of 9-10 years and begin to live together as husband and wife; and within their relationship, the woman raises her husband so that when she becomes old he will have to take care of her. Women from the Bonda tribes get married between 25–30. If a boy passes the age of 14 he is considered as too old to be a husband.

The wife is also like a tutor that takes care of educating her “child husband” in all manners and making sure that once they reach an age when they can sustain themselves and the wife, they have the knowledge required to do so.

Due to this culture, the population within the Bonda tribes is mainly made of women and this is because women are seen as more valued than men within their culture. They are considered more powerful, more knowledgeable, and with a long life expectancy.

AN UNUSUAL WEDLOCK
One of the most unusual things about this tribe is their Marriage procession. Bonda women marry boys ten or twelve years younger than them. So a BONDA girl in her twenties marries a ten-year-old. She takes an oath to protect and feed her child husband until he becomes an adult. And the husband in return takes an oath to feed and protect the girl when she ages and loses her strength in future. Instead of dowry, they pay exact opposite, termed as ‘BRIDE PRICE’. Elder brother of child groom can pay the bride price, but the groom has to return it later compulsorily. Economic needs and physical support are the prime motives of such marriages; sexual relationship becomes a second priority. An intimate relationship is not established until boys become adults.

Source,: Womenofrubies.com
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:17pm On Nov 01, 2022
Globetech:
[/b]The tribe where women raise and marry their children[b]

Bonda tribe in India is known as one of the primitive tribes that still exist even in 2022.

Usually, a woman will marry a boy at the age of 9-10 years and begin to live together as husband and wife; and within their relationship, the woman raises her husband so that when she becomes old he will have to take care of her. Women from the Bonda tribes get married between 25–30. If a boy passes the age of 14 he is considered as too old to be a husband.

The wife is also like a tutor that takes care of educating her “child husband” in all manners and making sure that once they reach an age when they can sustain themselves and the wife, they have the knowledge required to do so.

Due to this culture, the population within the Bonda tribes is mainly made of women and this is because women are seen as more valued than men within their culture. They are considered more powerful, more knowledgeable, and with a long life expectancy.

AN UNUSUAL WEDLOCK
One of the most unusual things about this tribe is their Marriage procession. Bonda women marry boys ten or twelve years younger than them. So a BONDA girl in her twenties marries a ten-year-old. She takes an oath to protect and feed her child husband until he becomes an adult. And the husband in return takes an oath to feed and protect the girl when she ages and loses her strength in future. Instead of dowry, they pay exact opposite, termed as ‘BRIDE PRICE’. Elder brother of child groom can pay the bride price, but the groom has to return it later compulsorily. Economic needs and physical support are the prime motives of such marriages; sexual relationship becomes a second priority. An intimate relationship is not established until boys become adults.

Source,: Womenofrubies.com

your article is misleading

Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by talk2hb1(m): 7:42am On Nov 02, 2022
So They Are Practising Boy Child Marriage, Nawa Oooo.
Àwọn Abani Wá Ọ̀ràn Bí Akorida
(Those Who Bring Trouble For You, when you don't want).
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by careytommy37(m): 8:03pm On Nov 02, 2022
Boy-child marriage and I'm not hearing histrionics from any quarters. angry
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by Globetech(m): 11:31am On Nov 03, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


your article is misleading

Read it again, read from Wikipedia.
Tell a friend to help explain the edition of Wikipedia to you.
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:57pm On Nov 03, 2022
Globetech:


Read it again, read from Wikipedia.
Tell a friend to help explain the edition of Wikipedia to you.

wikipedia is not a valid source anyone can edit and write what they want
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by BeardedMeat(m): 3:19am On Nov 07, 2022
VeryWickedMan:
Do they have a prophetess that loves bloodshed and pray to the Sun facing the West?
Awusubilahi!

Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by BeardedMeat(m): 3:46am On Nov 07, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool real matters on top real MATTERZ



Everybody with der OWN MATTERS..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!
Boogie man who is your candidate in this 2023 election?
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by Boogyman557: 4:06am On Nov 07, 2022
BeardedMeat:
Boogie man who is your candidate in this 2023 election?
Holly Gram cool My Gee!


I no de do online banter (fight)..


I believe in peaceful vote.. wen it's time, vote for who u want..


All this coming online to fight one another is childish to me..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by BeardedMeat(m): 4:24am On Nov 07, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool My Gee!


I no de do online banter (fight)..


I believe in peaceful vote.. wen it's time, vote for who u want..


All this coming online to fight one another is childish to me..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!
Boogie man I nor talk say make you fight anyone nah grin

Anyway, bake in peace!

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Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by Globetech(m): 7:16pm On Nov 08, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


wikipedia is not a valid source anyone can edit and write what they want

Then create your own wiki so we can read
Re: The Tribe Where Women Raise And Marry Their Children. by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:19pm On Nov 08, 2022
Globetech:


Then create your own wiki so we can read

��� i guess you take it as valid source

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