HARDESTNIGGAINT:

LutherSanchez:
Talking About Misery Loving Company..
I play Football Sometimes on Week Days but Mainly on Saturdays,(i no dey miss that wan).. Some of My Teammates are Young but married,they usually gather around every Saturday before Training to start talking about how their wives didn't want them to come to training today,each will be talking how his own wife don't allow him do this or that.. Me i normally avoid their talks because someone here today said that trying to Advice a married SIMP is equal to like trying to run with a broken leg or ankle.. It's Practically Impossible.. I usually screenshot some Nuggets here and post on my Whatsapp status, sometimes i download some of HeartOfCity's pictures and post too and to be very sincere it's been very helpful as the leeches have left my DM on WhatsApp. Almost 97% of the ladies i use to chat before have filtered themselves naturally.. Many of my teammates also view my status and the Married SIMPS always pick offence....So back to my main topic here,there's this picture of Will Smith and His Wife with the caption [b]"Never Lose a Loyal Woman just because she cheated just once". So i posted the picture on my Whatsapp status with the Caption "The Words Of An Insecure and Societal Perfect God Fearing Man,It Can Never Be Me". The one of my married Teammates viewed my status and ask said,"I wonder if you will get married at all" ... Is our God not wonderful?

Emotionss:
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I have come to realize it is mostly men that are miserable in their marriage that are quick to defend marriage and demonize any man that try to speak against the injustices men face in marriage and society....

Most married men of this age lack self worth.
They have been so pussifyed in to believing that the emotional terrorism and mental demoralization being experienced in their individual marriage is a necessity for a peaceful home...

Society and women have successfully used the term "REAL MAN" or "MATURE AND RESPONSIBLE MAN" to manipulate,conditioned and pussifyed men both married and single men into submission and slavery.

HUMAN MAN is the only creature in existence today that will gladly use his hard earned resources to imprison himself in the name of marriage and also employ/marry his Tormentor just to prove to society that he is now mature and responsible...

If men start Analysing marriage the same way we logically analyzed our everyday life, majority of Men alive today will run away from marriage....

Tonnyray:
No offense intended but you only exposed your lack of knowledge when it comes to women in the marriage context. Why do you think their wives frown at them going for footballing sessions? I'll educate you.

1. I’ll start with the flimsy one which is that women naturally dislike the fellowship of young men cos it brings out the "boys" in them and boys are known to be mostly up to no good, only mischief. The same women will not raise an eyebrow if it was a workplace career training/workshop their hubbies were going to with other guys for obvious reasons.

2. Injuries are common with football, and guess who bears the brunt of care should things go south? The wife.
A secondary school friend residing here in Abuja was confined for over a month to the hospital bed for a fibular fracture + knee injury sustained from a football game. Guess who bore the burden of care? shuttling between the hospital, her office and caring for the 2 kids at home? Preparing food o cos my guy detests hospital meals even though it's covered on his health insurance plan with us.
What if he wasn't working for an understanding firm that invests a lot into staff welfare? The dude was out for well over 6 weeks. Are you aware that is enough for many workplaces in Nigeria to have him replaced? Especially if his job demands he be actively up and about?
What then befalls his wife and kids? She will have to shoulder responsibilities she never in her wildest dreams imagined. And if she eventually snaps and leaves because she cannot cope, you'd still be one of the first to call her unprintable names. Yet when she's employing common sense to prevent such now you are wailing "she's controlling him".
One thing I have realized with good wives/gfs is they smell danger a mile away and move to avert it. Their sense of premonition alone could be lifesaving. If I find the time I’ll share an experience along this line.

3. Good wives hate what takes their men away from bonding with their kids. As working men how many actually have enough time to play bond with their children? Out of the time you don't have you still want to spend hours playing football from which you will come back extremely tired and spent. The more common one is those always going to football viewing centers. And we later complain the children love their mothers more.

It’s ok not to marry bro.. in fact I’ll advise many here not to cos so much growing up is obviously still required just judging by what many spew here.

dontai:
or the way we analyzed football.

Martinez39s:
Most people today underrate strong and sound fatherly influence.

Emotionss:
[color=#006600][/color]1) Women are against men hangout because it brings out the boys in them..

CaveAdullam:



1. In life, you must work before you eat. The distance between you and what you need is the amount of work you are ready to do to obtain it.

2. Even though you are living a life of easiness, luxury, and comfort, it is because of the work another man has done. If people don't work nothing can be achieved.

3. The enjoyment and suffering of future generations are predicated upon the deeds of their ancestors. We are enjoying the effects of science and technology in the world today because ancestral scientists put in the work. We are experiencing an unstable economic situation because our ancestors never came up with a tangible way to maintain a good economy.

Men and women have a need: resources, territory, mates, children, and comfort.

4. Women don't have the same physical strength as men, so they can only work a little to get what they need because women are not as strong and muscular as men, and are conflict avoidants - it is wise to stay out of trouble when you know that you are weak.

Also, women's emotions will not make them challenge the abyss (there is another side to this though: that women love mystery... a story for another day but I have dropped notes on it previously).

5. Women can't fold their hands and die because they are conflict avoidants and don't have the same level of strength as men. They must do something to get their needs. And what they do is leverage their sexuality. How do they do this?

6. Women are the highest patronizers of the cosmetic or facial industry: makeup. Bútt enlargement. Breast enlargement. Sexual revealing clothes and other physical effects.

Cc. Hedgefunds.

Tonnyray:


[s]No offense intended but you only exposed your lack of knowledge when it comes to women in the marriage context. Why do you think their wives frown at them going for footballing sessions? I'll educate you.

1. I’ll start with the flimsy one which is that women naturally dislike the fellowship of young men cos it brings out the "boys" in them and boys are known to be mostly up to no good, only mischief. The same women will not raise an eyebrow if it was a workplace career training/workshop their hubbies were going to with other guys for obvious reasons.

2. Injuries are common with football, and guess who bears the brunt of care should things go south? The wife.
A secondary school friend residing here in Abuja was confined for over a month to the hospital bed for a fibular fracture + knee injury sustained from a football game. Guess who bore the burden of care? shuttling between the hospital, her office and caring for the 2 kids at home? Preparing food o cos my guy detests hospital meals even though it's covered on his health insurance plan with us.
What if he wasn't working for an understanding firm that invests a lot into staff welfare? The dude was out for well over 6 weeks. Are you aware that is enough for many workplaces in Nigeria to have him replaced? Especially if his job demands he be actively up and about?
What then befalls his wife and kids? She will have to shoulder responsibilities she never in her wildest dreams imagined. And if she eventually snaps and leaves because she cannot cope, you'd still be one of the first to call her unprintable names. Yet when she's employing common sense to prevent such now you are wailing "she's controlling him".
One thing I have realized with good wives/gfs is they smell danger a mile away and move to avert it. Their sense of premonition alone could be lifesaving. If I find the time I’ll share an experience along this line.

3. Good wives hate what takes their men away from bonding with their kids. As working men how many actually have enough time to play bond with their children? Out of the time you don't have you still want to spend hours playing football from which you will come back extremely tired and spent. The more common one is those always going to football viewing centers. And we later complain the children love their mothers more.

It’s ok not to marry bro.. in fact I’ll advise many here not to cos so much growing up is obviously still required just judging by what many spew here.[/s]

Emotionss:
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1) Women are against men hangout because it brings out the boys in them.

BUT THEY SAME women have no problem hanging out with their Female friends even though it brings out the whoring whoreee in them.

Men hangout is immature But girls night out, girls trip and girls me time are perfectly ok. Magnificent!!!!!

2) So men are soo useless, careless and incompetent in taking care of ourselves (even though we have been doing so many many years before getting married ) that it now require our wife's to now be the ones to TELL us how, where , when, what and who to play with BECAUSE JUST LIKE CHILDREN when we get hurt they will be the ones taking care of our childish, useless and incompetent asss...

It's ok for me to climb the roof of a 30 story building all in the name of making money for my family BUT it is too risky and childish to hangout or play football with my friends.

It's ok to drive a truck from kano to port Harcourt Even with the security situation of the country as long as madam is happy and satisfied but it's to risky to play soccer with my nigggerrrs !!!!!!!!

3) So a man hanging out with his friends ones a week for 2hrs will deprive him the opportunity to bound with his children ? Wow!!!! what an excuse.

That means truck drivers, rig workers , military men and other interstate workers are finished.
They certainly can't remember the name of their children talk more of bonding with them whenever they are opportuned to return home.

MisterRuk:

So if we as men begin to condemn marriage as a trap, we might laying foundations for a society built on sexual promiscuity and eventually chaos.

MJBOLT:

A single mother out here is angry
with me because I said I can never take care of another man's child

MJBOLT:

A single mother out here is angry
with me because I said I can never take care of another man's child

MJBOLT:

A single mother out here is angry
with me because I said I can never take care of another man's child

Tonnyray:
let us argue with facts and data. Bring up research findings that prove your continuous assertion that single men are happier, healthier, more fulfilled, live longer, less likely to develop HBP, stroke etc. than their married counterparts This is the real crux of the matter. Let us argue with verifiable research findings. I'm ready when you are.

Trex4:
Don't waste your strength bro. That guy is another troll. Ignore.

MJBOLT:

Society descended into sexual promiscuity and chaos the moment feminism was born.

Society descended into sexual promiscuity and chaos the moment men were demonized and women made to look like angels.

Men choosing not to get married is due to the fact that modern day marriage is of no benefit,the number of happily married men today is extremely low compared to their counterparts decades ago.

MisterRuk:
1. Not actually feminism on it's own...
2. The male and female nature both have their positive and negative sides...
This is not enough excuse for men to start forming a victim mentality.
3. A man choosing not to get married should be influenced by his own belief and not a biased red pilled narrative. Life is suffering, the single man and the married man both have different forms of suffering. Choose your own suffering. Marriage is not guaranteed to give you happiness, so you must carry your cross on whatever path you take. As there are unhappy men in marriage, there are equally unhappy women in marriage. Just be very careful when choosing a spouse.

Prior to feminism, sexual promiscuity wasn't that common because sex was a private affair, prostitutes did their affairs in private and prostitution was not as common as it is now then feminism came along and told women "their body,their choice",today we have women who are proud to be prostitutes.
Feminism told women that sleeping around wasn't prostitution but "sexual revolution",how many feminists have we seen condemned prostitution??

It's these same feminists that say being a housewife is slavery but being an onlyfans model is being strong and independent,in societies where feminism has little or no effect,the level of sexual promiscuity is extremely low.


Yes, every man must choose his suffering and men choosing not to get married is not a biased redpill thing.There are dozens of men today who haven't heard of the redpill but have chosen to stay unmarried,it's basic common sense now.
Men have simply gotten wiser and realized marriage is a waste one's time and resources with little or no benefits.

MisterRuk:

1. Not actually feminism on it's own. Modern feminism was an instrument for sexual revolution to happen, which I believe led to a lot of sexual debauchery the modern world experiences. Women are the custodians of sex and men are the buyers of sex. So don't only blame women or feminism alone for the rise of sexual promiscuity. Is it not men that solicit prostitutes, go to strip clubs, watch porn, subscribe to Onlyfans, become sugar daddies? Aren't magazines like Playboy and Penthouse not targeted at men? So as there a lots of women who are willing to prostitute themselves there are much more men willing to pay for it.

2. The male and female nature both have their positive and negative sides but society today have only examined the positives and negatives of the masculine nature, but have neglected the negative sides of the female or tend not to talk about it. I feel the reason is because women are seen as the only "victims" according modern day feminism. And to garner public sympathy and support to the victim, only their positive side is shown while their negative tendencies are pushed to the corner. This strategy is also practiced by radical anti-racism movements like BLM whereby the blacks are seen as innocent victims to the white oppressors while crimes committed by blacks against black people and other races are ignored.
This is not enough excuse for men to start forming a victim mentality.

3. A man choosing not to get married should be influenced by his own belief and not a biased red pilled narrative. Life is suffering, the single man and the married man both have different forms of suffering. Choose your own suffering. Marriage is not guaranteed to give you happiness, so you must carry your cross on whatever path you take. As there are unhappy men in marriage, there are equally unhappy women in marriage. Just be very careful when choosing a spouse.

Tonnyray:

Let us argue with verifiable research findings. I'm ready when you are.

Tonnyray:
Pure puerile emotionalism. I expected better mate.
If you are versed in the Nigerian sociocultural context most single girls often lament that their married female friends and colleagues immediately shut them out of their social life. With women there is that clear-cut social distinction between the 2.
If you married a woman that's still partying and hanging out with girls then guess whose fault it is. Definitely not mine
Practically every guy either played or currently plays football to some degree so I naturally homed in on that. It was what the discussion arose from. I deal with the norm. For you to start bringing up oil rig workers, long distance truck drivers, 30 storey-building cleaners is mere straw manning mate. You can definitely do better than that.
There are jobs that are risky we all know that. There are jobs that take men away from home, we all know that too. Those in those jobs know what they're getting into. Responsible men make the necessary adaptations to arrive at the best outcomes. Permit me to say it still does not guarantee things will not suffer on the Homefront especially as regards bonding with the kids. It is why slayqueens (who suck at keeping the homefront) are highly vilified everywhere as unsuitable for marriage.

So much for perceptions, let us argue with facts and data. Bring up research findings that prove your continuous assertion that single men are happier, healthier, more fulfilled, live longer, less likely to develop HBP, stroke etc. than their married counterparts This is the real crux of the matter. Let us argue with verifiable research findings. I'm ready when you are.

Emotionss:

HUMAN MAN is the only creature in existence today that will gladly use his hard earned resources to imprison himself in the name of marriage and also employ/marry his Tormentor just to prove to society that he is now mature and responsible...

Zabiboy:
"Research findings" done by who? Those in the matrix?, those trying so hard to keep others in the matrix? Those who don't want men to truly be free?
I'm quoting you because i know you always talk about being "realistic".
Same "Researchers" said a popular covid vaccine was effective with no side effects only to come out less than 2 years later to discover that it doesn't even get to the lungs.
Researchers could be wrong too. The best form of research for those of us "Unplugged" is personal observation and from my own personal observation, In this age of social media, the "growing up/maturity" and "marrying the right spouse " you are talking about CANNOT gurantee a successful marriage..
_{i'm not active enough to make this a debate, just had to quickly put this out..}

Itzlinda:



Some people wants mask their inability to game women by saying that you can pay for sex.

Paying for sex is simping. We can't all be successful with redpill due to different reason.

Many don't even have time to be chasing women daily and build confidence with women. You can pay for sex if you are such type of a guy but never call that a redpill.

You can pay for sex But just know that's never redpill.

Ubunja I think you should start teaching guys here the art of pick up, building rapport, flirting, teasing and getting woman invested. That's the basic skill you need to have to game women.

Seems many guys here are bad at that