Tonnyray:
Pure puerile emotionalism. I expected better mate.
If you are versed in the Nigerian sociocultural context most single girls often lament that their married female friends and colleagues immediately shut them out of their social life. With women there is that clear-cut social distinction between the 2.
If you married a woman that's still partying and hanging out with girls then guess whose fault it is. Definitely not mine
Practically every guy either played or currently plays football to some degree so I naturally homed in on that. It was what the discussion arose from. I deal with the norm. For you to start bringing up oil rig workers, long distance truck drivers, 30 storey-building cleaners is mere straw manning mate. You can definitely do better than that.
There are jobs that are risky we all know that. There are jobs that take men away from home, we all know that too. Those in those jobs know what they're getting into. Responsible men make the necessary adaptations to arrive at the best outcomes. Permit me to say it still does not guarantee things will not suffer on the Homefront especially as regards bonding with the kids. It is why slayqueens (who suck at keeping the homefront) are highly vilified everywhere as unsuitable for marriage.

So much for perceptions, let us argue with facts and data. Bring up research findings that prove your continuous assertion that single men are happier, healthier, more fulfilled, live longer, less likely to develop HBP, stroke etc. than their married counterparts This is the real crux of the matter. Let us argue with verifiable research findings. I'm ready when you are.

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BigBashiru:
@ the bolded.... the facts are there and you don't need much research...single men are healthier, happier, more fulfilled less likely to develop HBP, stroke etc or go to an early grave due to FINANCIAL STRESS induced by marriage...men were manipulated to carry it all financially....women are uncompromising about men being the "provider".....you seem not to understand the implication of financial stress.... its continual and unending- food prices are expensive, health care is expensive....

I wonder where people came up with the idea that "men are providers" from....

And in over a 100 years of this civilization as we know it people are yet to conduct credible research to confirm this ba? factoring the ALMIGHTY MARRIAGE INDUCED FINANCIAL STRESS
I forgot research is only conducted in the matrix, here we rely on individual observations and directives from ubunja and his alternates.
Same folks that are quick to bandy research stats that suit their skewed narratives.
Clowns.

BigBashiru:

I wonder where people came up with the idea that "men are providers" from....

In the past century or so, men were actually providers and they were ok( not necessarily happy) with it. Same way the other gender was ok (not neccesarily happy) with staying at home.
In recent times, the other gender evolved and no longer want to do those things, which to me is 100% fine. My surprise is why men dont want to evolve themselves. Why they are still keeping to their end of the bargain when the people they are dealing with are no longer interested in keeping to theirs.
Men simply have to evolve... But they cant because they cant control their urge for s3x and there lies the opposite genders' biggest leverage..

Tonnyray:
And in over a 100 years of this civilization as we know it people are yet to conduct credible research to confirm this ba? factoring the ALMIGHTY MARRIAGE INDUCED FINANCIAL STRESS
I forgot research is only conducted in the matrix, here we rely on individual observations and directives from ubunja and his alternates.
Same folks that are quick to bandy research stats that suit their skewed narratives.
Clowns.

Two bottles of Odeku for this gentleman please

Tonnyray:
And in over a 100 years of this civilization as we know it people are yet to conduct credible research to confirm this ba? factoring the ALMIGHTY MARRIAGE INDUCED FINANCIAL STRESS
I forgot research is only conducted in the matrix, here we rely on individual observations and directives from ubunja and his alternates.
Same folks that are quick to bandy research stats that suit their skewed narratives.
Clowns.

There's ample research evidence it's the time I don't hv to start pulling it up.

Tonnyray:
And in over a 100 years of this civilization as we know it people are yet to conduct credible research to confirm this ba? factoring the ALMIGHTY MARRIAGE INDUCED FINANCIAL STRESS
I forgot research is only conducted in the matrix, here we rely on individual observations and directives from ubunja and his alternates.
Same folks that are quick to bandy research stats that suit their skewed narratives.
Clowns.

dude just post your research without dragging people's names. there's stats out there for literally anything. find them, screenshot and post here. end of story. whether you're right or wrong, it's your priveledge to present your case here but without involving anyone's name. why do you enjoy making things harder for nothing? just reply the man with facts and we move on.

Zabiboy:

In the past century or so, men were actually providers and they were ok( not necessarily happy) with it. Same way the other gender was ok (not neccesarily happy) with staying at home.
In recent times, the other gender evolved and no longer want to do those things, which to me is 100% fine. My surprise is why men dont want to evolve themselves. Why they are still keeping to their end of the bargain when the people they are dealing with are no longer interested in keeping to theirs.
Men simply have to evolve... But they cant because they cant control their urge for s3x and there lies the opposite genders' biggest leverage..

Men keep to their end of the bargain because they are threatened with Holy Books e.g. if you don't provide God will judge you and you are going to hell....

As for ur last paragraph that's for the monogamous guys...if I'm chasing 100 girls at the same time, the sex leverage of the females reduces....

ubunja:
dude just post your research without dragging people's names. there's stats out there for literally anything. find them, screenshot and post here. end of story. whether you're right or wrong, it's your priveledge to present your case here but without involving anyone's name. why do you enjoy making things harder for nothing? just reply the man with facts and we move on.

That’s an intelligent person that can see through you. That you are a good for nothing Zimbabwean immigrant that gets not pucci in real life in SA. Just looKing to cash out from very stupid lazy Nigerian youths. You can’t even spell privilege. Yamayama fall on that your ugly bald head wey dey smell of shitt

Market yourself but don't seem desperate by patronizing your intended/desired customer(s).

They should be the ones patronizing you/your product(s).

You're the one with the goods they need to survive or at least feel better about themselves.

PS:This post is not about marketing.
#Stay chosen always.

ubunja:
dude just post your research without dragging people's names. there's stats out there for literally anything. find them, screenshot and post here. end of story. whether you're right or wrong, it's your priveledge to present your case here but without involving anyone's name. why do you enjoy making things harder for nothing? just reply the man with facts and we move on.

I'm not supporting the guy but this is rich coming from you cuz I remember when you made an outlandish claim and I challenged you to prove it but you then started running around and did almost everything except bring proof of your claim here https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1210#110150632

now you're asking for screenshot about someone else's claim?. what a hypocrite

Tonnyray:
And in over a 100 years of this civilization as we know it people are yet to conduct credible research to confirm this ba? factoring the ALMIGHTY MARRIAGE INDUCED FINANCIAL STRESS
I forgot research is only conducted in the matrix, here we rely on individual observations and directives from ubunja and his alternates.
Same folks that are quick to bandy research stats that suit their skewed narratives.
Clowns.

actually I can't speak for the other claims he made but research has shown married people tend to live longer than single people.

hopefulLandlord:


I'm not supporting the guy but this is rich coming from you cuz I remember when you made an outlandish claim and I challenged you to prove it but you then started running around and did almost everything except bring proof of your claim here https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1210#110150632

now you're asking for screenshot about someone else's claim?. what a hypocrite

just as I told you on that day....

ubunja:
too lazy to give you,, follow the antivaxx pages on the internet and social media and see for yourself.

I told you to go do your own research. Which you never did anyways. Not that I expected you to.

You think I quoted Tonyray cause of the "proof" or "stats".? You missed my point. I don't want him dragging me into his debates. He could have replied the guy anyway but why must "ubunja" be part of it? Can't he reply without dragging me into it?
Plus I post proof here everytime. Just cause I ignored your request doesn't change anything.

hopefulLandlord:


actually I can't speak for the other claims he made but research has shown married people tend to live longer than single people.

He never said single people live longer…

ubunja is truly a gentleman. I love all his reply. You are very smart ubunja.

ubunja:
dude just post your research without dragging people's names. there's stats out there for literally anything. find them, screenshot and post here. end of story. whether you're right or wrong, it's your priveledge to present your case here but without involving anyone's name. why do you enjoy making things harder for nothing? just reply the man with facts and we move on.

The guy is a troll. Normally I don't do this. Kindly ignore him from hence forth baba. It'll die a natural "Death" if we all ignore.

Trex4:
The guy is a troll. Normally I don't do this. Kindly ignore him from hence forth baba. It'll die a natural "Death" if we all ignore.

point taken bossman

ubunja:
what's important to note about the 80/20 rule is that it's an instinct or code in every woman. It doesn't mean it will always happen in reality cause there's lots of variables in reality. It's like how men want virgins and hate single *mothers -that's in men's DNA, but men still marry non virgins and date single mothers. Cause there's a world of difference between desire and actualization.

Women desire only the 20% of men but it doesn't mean they'll get their heart's desire. While the 80% of men are effectively cut off sex it doesn't mean they're sex starved or incels. It's more about the type of sex they are getting cause The 20 % and the 80% are being given TWO DIFFERENT TYPES OF SEX. The 20% get the lust and plenty of sex, while the 80% get the chore sex that's dished out grudgingly and with severe limitations. Yet plenty in this 80% are not getting anything. I don't know if it makes sense? : I remember a video on YouTube where some married men were asked what they wanted for Christmas? And almost all of them said they wished they could get sex. And these are married men! Married but getting scant sex. They're definitely sex starved although once in a while they do get it.

Men being in marriage and still sex starve women are really playing games on many men

hopefulLandlord:


actually I can't speak for the other claims he made but research has shown married people tend to live longer than single people.

By "married people" you mean married women

MJBOLT:

he's a real man but it can never be me

sometime you just have to let go some irredeemable simp by praising them in as much as nobody will get hurt is Win/Win phenomenon
You are happy for being a simp

And I'm also happy for you being a simp

No qualms!

You guys shouldn't waste your precious time replying to those trolls here... They should perish with their own thoughts and thinking.

Understand the difference

Simp don't understand women hypergamy

ABSO-LUTE-LY

tosaino95:
Men being in marriage and still sex starved ,women are really playing games on many men

the most cruel games Bro. That's the problem with marrying a non virgin especially if she's been sleeping with chads and Tyrones/alphas/select men,, when she has to compromise and settle with a Beta for survival, instead of her being appreciative instead she starts hating and resenting the Beta.
In the Beta's mind he deserves respect and honour for saving the woman but in the Woman's mind the Beta deserves to be punished for "taking advantage" of the woman's plight and using the power of money to have her.
If a woman has been dealing with chads and Tyrones/alphas/select men and she happens to have her own money she won't stoop low to deal with any Beta. She'd stay single and fucc these top men till she goes down the grave. If these top men per chance vanish from the face of the earth or there's a problem with the supply thereof - the woman, with her own money, would rather stay celibate, go lesbian or even kill herself before she allows any Beta to touch her. This is the end point of Hypergamy: extreme quality control of the human species where non deserving, sub par genetics must not be given any access whatsoever to the womb.

It's always men fault
Because women can do no wrong

Smartb0y:

By "married people" you mean married women

I tend to back what I say up......... unlike you guy's demigod here

Last last overwhelming majority of the single people who are against marriage here would eventually get married. I hope they would have the decency to come here and tell the house they're married when they eventually do

You can have it all
Is all yours

LutherSanchez:
You guys shouldn't waste your precious time replying to those trolls here... They should perish with their own thoughts and thinking.

The problem with people like you is that you lack critical reasoning skills. You are like a child that needs to be led and guided through life without asking questions. If to say you get sense, you go realize say what the so called trolls are saying make sense. But stupidity will only let you listen to a chronic masturbator who has assumed the title of leader of the pack and manipulates you idiots here using his main and alt monikers. Small time he go start to dey use una cash out.

How can you take seriously a man that tells young men to impregnate women in order to keep the woman. Are you all daft?

Yamayama fall on the heads of the idiots wey dey allow themselves to be manipulated by Zimbabwean man wey una better pass. Tuehhh!!!!

MJBOLT:

he's a real man but it can never be me

I'm curious. as much as there are lots and lots of speculation about her cheating on him I'm yet to see the so-called "evidences" the poster is claiming. am I missing something?

True story!

In case you don't understand
Its called hypergamy