Bamrems:
This is what is happening to your wife, if she is in her late twenties, there is slightly an increase in the testosterone level in her body as they start preparing for menopause. The level of oxytocin starts decreasing and they feel the effect of testosterone more as guys do in their teens and early twenties.

Most women don't understand why all of a sudden, they start losing interest in their husbands and find young guys around more attractive. They lose interest in sex with their husbands and fantasize about their young lovers. They start to develop emotional connections with these young guys and become distant to their husbands because of guilt.

Most men fail to understand or don't believe their faithful or loyal wives have started stepping out and even deny the obvious signs which most times come with abstinence from sex with them and emotional bonding with their lovers. It's actually frustrating for both parties, most women because of the high level of dopamine they get from their lovers are conflicted with either leaving their husbands or becoming angry with them.

Although it is suggested that it's a way of nature making the older eggs fertilized by younger sperms. Very soon your wife will ask for either separation or divorce if you fail to confront her to choose between you and her lover.
You can Pm me I'll advice you on how to confront her and call her out, so she don't play with their emotions or gaslight you as women in this stage do to justify their cheating as being unhappy or the man not doing enough in the relationship.

I have a lot to write but time won't allow me. I see a lot of me crying here saying their wives are stepping out or leaving them because of this same brain hormonal chemistry happening in their women.


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hmmmmmm awon biologist... weldone sire

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

DONT GET IT TWISTED. ANY WOMAN THAT CHOOSES ANOTHER PERSON'S RELATIONSHIP WITH HER OVER YOU HER MAN, SHE DOES NOT VALUE/LOVE/RESPECT YOU
SHOW HER THE DOOR AND MEAN IT.

PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.

Once in a while make we de encourage these guys because most of our fathers really tolerated our mothers. Most of us nor go fit face half wetin most of these guys de face, as for me I Bleep, born before I RUN, BECAUSE I nor ready for stories that touch. BUT!!!!!!!! WE CHOOSE THE EASY WAY OUT, NEVER FORGET THAT.

Unclesamo:


Soldiers to warn for what??

what kind of simping is that!!


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he has no business with him as she's not underage....and it wasn't Rape.


The wife was the one that took the marriage vows of Loyalty.

The Wife should be the one to tell the Bleep boy to exit.

calm down, this is a strategy in the greater scheme

No married woman/man can stay 3month without sex, she obviously cheating

Kavod:

Once in a while make we de encourage these guys because most of our fathers really tolerated our mothers. Most of us nor go fit face half wetin most of these guys de face, as for me I Bleep, born before I RUN, BECAUSE I nor ready for stories that touch. BUT!!!!!!!! WE CHOOSE THE EASY WAY OUT, NEVER FORGET THAT.

I can't face what he is facing cos I was not born to be a SIMP.... Go ahead and console him.

The boy is fucking ur wife.. some one said dat married woman pussy is d sweetest

Even gf no dey deny sex not to talk of wife. My brother please quit because ladies are secretive. Sometimes as a man you need to be harsh and crazy . Ladies take advantage of guys who love them genuinely,buy them gift and one who keep on begging and acting as if without her ,he cannot survive. One thing is , before marriage, most girls want just money but when they get the satisfaction, they want sex I mean good sex .
Try challenge her and be a man not come here seeking advice .
You are the man !!!!!

Romanoff:
Your suspicion is based on previous trust broken and I know too well that trust once broken cannot be put together like before.

Before you keep confronting her, have evidence, calls aren't enough, the calls could be innocent and really work related.

Sha check her phone to set your mind at ease.

Una wey dey stay with unfaithful partner, the Lord is your strength o.

Adun27:


The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

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Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

You be mumu.....she has been having sex with him since...can't you see the hand writings on the wall?....the supportive aspect is what she think will call you down....she does house chores my foot....guy do what's needful before jump into water for third mainland.....if you're not financially okay please stop the relationship abeg!!!

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

When I see a thread like this, I remember one Nairalander who’s wife left him after taken numerous advices from here.

Your story sounds sketchy and empty, you accused your wife of cheating with no evidence but a phone call, your wife can’t just deny you sex for 3 months and you know it. If you want some good advice tell us what really happened between you two. Or you can choose to applaud the teenagers here chanting you to bring down your marriage.

Just remember that when it crashes you alone will bear the consequences.

omotoshodontee1:
the boy dick is sweeter Dan urs,she now find sexual pleasure from him..ur marriage is in big mess cos once a girl is dickmatized,nah only God fit undicmatized her...sorry bro

Very apt and correct

PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.

It is no longer medal, it is now by ordination

Onye kwuru dat tin

PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.

He might not be a weakling but e be like say na condition wan make him crayfish bend.

omotoshodontee1:
the boy dick is sweeter Dan urs,she now find sexual pleasure from him..ur marriage is in big mess cos once a girl is dickmatized,nah only God fit undicmatized her...sorry bro

Na lie, 90% of the time, it doesn't end well and doesn't last either.

Munzy14:



It is no longer medal, it is now by ordination

Onye kwuru dat tin

I go even anoint am sef.... The guy get first class for SIMPING and Weakling Planning.

adetula148:
Even gf no dey deny sex not to talk of wife. My brother please quit because ladies are secretive. Sometimes as a man you need to be harsh and crazy . Ladies take advantage of guys who love them genuinely,buy them gift and one who keep on begging and acting as if without her ,he cannot survive. One thing is , before marriage, most girls want just money but when they get the satisfaction, they want sex I mean good sex .
Try challenge her and be a man not come here seeking advice .
You are the man !!!!!

“Ladies take advantage of guys who love them genuinely,buy them gift and one who keep on begging and acting as if without her ,he cannot survI’ve.”
You can’t be more correct bro

PlayMaker14:
I can't face what he is facing cos I was not born to be a SIMP.... Go ahead and console him.

No one was born a SIMP or RED PILLER, Na our experience and upbringing categorize us. I can bet this guy would have really loved his mother and she went through HELL for him to be this patient and caring. Perhaps his mum is Late, or out of marital union, GUY we have to look out for each other on this Earth because these women go know say their babes na Ashana and them go still pretend just for the Man to fall in Love. You said you were not born to be a SIMP? DUDE, EVERY BASTARD MAN WAS ONCE A SIMP. WETIN YOU WAN TELL ME GUY? SAY YOU BE ORLANDO BLOOM OR BRAD PITT OR Johnny Depp abi na BEN AFFLECK? All these guys one woman don use them wipe ground times without numbers, even me self. I HEAR WORD BY FORCE.

Go and check if the baby is truly yours

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Oga set a trap for her monitor her movements meanwhile give her a serious warning never to get in touch with him again also give the fool a double warning also. But if she don dey bang the guy just peacefully arranged her things secretly when out and take it to the boys house

Scamburster:

How?

Download whats chat and snap her whats app bar code and you will see all her conversations and hear her calls

Your wife deny you of sex because the guy told her not to give it to you

Adun27:


The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

Have you done DNA for that kid you calks yours?

You're wrong to have brought this here

Adun27:


The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

It doesn’t mean
A breastfeeding mother can still be bleeped

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Nawa o..

Two things I won't forgive in my partner.

1. Stealing...No now! it spoils family name from generation to another . Taking my money is cool, I know where I go collect am..But stealing mba nu na.

2. Cheating..If my woman cheat, she will return to her father's house..Because she spoil my kids or kill me..Especially if I become an obstacle to her orgasm outside.
Or she go born criminals or ashawo.

For this your case, stop flaring up, cover up the mess because she will be 3times careful now..But if you play along like nothing happened, she will lose guard with time..Then mount SS on her, set traps without her knowing..Catch her and have a concrete evidence, nail it!

If a woman begin go outside, the hubby life will be shortened by hook or crook.

Gather evidence.

Meanwhile I am curious to know her kind of Job?

grafixdon:
What kind of man is this? Your wife has no iota of respect for you, what a mess. Even if she's one feeding you, the level of disrespect is too much. You don't have a wife bro. Get a divorce or take charge of your home immediately. What nonsense, I'm so angry right now.

The only way out is divorce. I have dealt with women like her. They lack the capacity to think clearly. They always speak out of context according to the waves of their irrational emotions.

I find it very difficult to believe the kind of stories I read here are real.
They have told you what you should do, hope you would follow through since you need instructions on what needs to be done.

yahoodetector:


See this one!

A woman can start having séx from 6 months after childbirth Oga!

And you said it with our own mouth that she has been denying you sex for 3 months now...if she had sex with you 3 months ago last, what makes you think she won't have sex with another man after that time.

Oga you be mumú sha!!

Let me tell you...once you confront a woman about cheating and she flares up, it means she is CHEATING! That's how they respond to catching them.

You be SIMP sha!!

oh my nairaland....gone were the days sha....see abuse on top advice

First I'll advice u stop eating her food, a cheating wife brings bad luck to a man financially, if she ask just tell her u're on a specific fast, try hold urself don't ask her for sex then watch her reaction

Ignore her, pray for God to bless you financially, she will soon become tired and want to become loyal again, give it time if you can, but if you cant move on with your life.

I had similar experience. Your wife they Bleep up. Mine na she I had in mind to marry... Upon I de see signs of cheating. I open up n ask her. She go flare up. Using quarrels as defensive tactics. One faithful day I just told her am done. Naso we go seperate ways. Fee months lata she begin apologies. Am sorry for what I did... Mi nothing concern mi again. I don move on. So my brother I recognize your case. She de Bleep up... The difference btw mi n u is that you don marry her mi never marry her then.... My advice talk to her. If she no listen. Let her family know. So that any action you take won't be recorded as if u be the bad egg.