ChristineC:
one year?

. See, marriage na patience, na to fold one eye open another, woman too get wahala, jusy leave them let them be doing them village things oo, if not they will say na you cause am. I was cooking for my self Washing, etc while my wife change , Omo me no send her na as am a soldier.

LikeAking:


You are a weak man... End d marriage ASAP.

Never allow any woman raise her voice at u.

Long live TRP.

What can of advice is this

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Some people are not smart. When you suspect your partner of cheating, you dont keep quarreling on the issue when you dont have evidence. You're suppose to act as if you dont care much about her relationship with other guys, while you keep doing your investigation secretly until you get her redhanded.

Some people can lie even if you catch them with your two eyes.

So use this method and see how the truth comes out.

Adun27:


The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

Firstly, how are you sure the baby is yours.

Secondly, how does breastfeeding stop her from opening her legs?

It is like you need a sharpener to sharpen your brain, sir.

PlayMaker14:
You need glasses to see where I advice him.... But since you were too quick to mistaking me for your Dad, you failed to see it.

You got daddy issues?, do u need someone to call you dad soooooo badly? Get a life son

jeff1607:


You got daddy issues?, do u need someone to call you dad soooooo badly? Get a life son

Next time check well before you display your f00lishne$s...


Efulefu.

PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.

Before he destroy the world. That video funny no be small

PlayMaker14:
Next time check well before you display your f00lishne$s...


Efulefu.

Next time read your posts before you argue ignorantly

Seems you can’t differentiate between advice and casting someone down cos it’s ur way of life, only a child with no experience or empathy talks the way you do, , just as I suspected your pops did a shoddy job hence daddy issues.

Go to read the post I first quoted ,

jeff1607:


Next time read your posts before you argue ignorantly

Seems you can’t differentiate between advice and casting someone down cos it’s ur way of life, only a child with no experience or empathy talks the way you do, , just as I suspected your pops did a shoddy job hence daddy issues.

Go to read the post I first quoted ,

Mr E-diot, go back and see where I advice him in my second comment on the first page.


Buzu.

PlayMaker14:
Mr E-diot, go back and see where I advice him in my second comment on the first page.


Buzu.

This would be my last quote to you boy. Read the first quote that led to this

Truth here on nairaland is the people who tend to tend to give advice on marital issues are no where close to the level of the any OP who puts their travails online , any small thing they call for divorce (most of which even their home ain’t good or parents aren’t living together) or they trash talk and make mockery of any OP, e go reach ur turn , na so people go laugh you, things like like this have made people depressed and commit suicide, if you can’t give concrete solution to someone’s predicament just move on to the next post abeg, others who want to learn or too ashamed to say their ordeals are here to learn, foreign forums frown at such rants or name calling.

jeff1607:


This would be my last quote to you boy. Read the first quote that led to this

Truth here on nairaland is the people who tend to tend to give advice on marital issues are no where close to the level of the any OP who puts their travails online , any small thing they call for divorce (most of which even their home ain’t good or parents aren’t living together) or they trash talk and make mockery of any OP, e go reach ur turn , na so people go laugh you, things like like this have made people depressed and commit suicide, if you can’t give concrete solution to someone’s predicament just move on to the next post abeg, others who want to learn or too ashamed to say their ordeals are here to learn, foreign forums frown at such rants or name calling.

For real I want only married men and women to advice me pls, youth stay off

jeff1607:


This would be my last quote to you boy. Read the first quote that led to this

Truth here on nairaland is the people who tend to tend to give advice on marital issues are no where close to the level of the any OP who puts their travails online , any small thing they call for divorce (most of which even their home ain’t good or parents aren’t living together) or they trash talk and make mockery of any OP, e go reach ur turn , na so people go laugh you, things like like this have made people depressed and commit suicide, if you can’t give concrete solution to someone’s predicament just move on to the next post abeg, others who want to learn or too ashamed to say their ordeals are here to learn, foreign forums frown at such rants or name calling.

Go to the foreign forum.... And remain in your misery. SIMP.

Adun27:


For real I want only married men and women to advice me pls, youth stay off

Why don't you go outside and call married men and women to advise you....

Nairaland is for everyone including a SIMP like you.

olasaad:


Many guys don't know we house wife too went through a lot of emotional depression. Most time we cried alone in our room before going out though I don't know what really causes it maybe we are just tired of the marital environment and how many men noticed this change in their wife very view that is why an outsider guys came in most of the time to talk this out with the depressed house wife and immediately our men see this they term it as cheating most time if this matter is not handled well, it will lead to divorce.

Me I always advocate that the house wife should be having a break by going back to our parents house to spend sometime there. At least when she comes back her mode will change positively. Whether you like it or not our husband house is tiring sometime most especially at the early stage of marriage.

Sex I don't deny my husband but I just do it for him sake because I don't want to deny him of his right.

My dear, I'm sure ur husband can't deny u of visiting ur parents. But the idea is, who did u marry? A friend or a provider? Tribal marriages and generational gap were the advantages our parents took for selecting spouses. Also enough background checks and those marriages happened by match making by experienced parents, though sometimes selfish but it's one of the reasons most marriages of 60s/70s lasted.

You will get bored of each other definitely, so what do you think will bring the spice, create the spice and enjoy your marriage.

Cheating as a woman, is like a child breast feeding from another mother while the mother is alive. Judge this within urself.

Romanoff:
Your suspicion is based on previous trust broken and I know too well that trust once broken cannot be put together like before.

Before you keep confronting her, have evidence, calls aren't enough, the calls could be innocent and really work related.

Sha check her phone to set your mind at ease.

Una wey dey stay with unfaithful partner, the Lord is your strength o.

as in eeh, you caught her cheating the first time, and you think that's the end of it. Please he should check if that child is actually his.

Tamilore11:
Lmao. Go n enter a polygamous home. And ask dem wassup. U think happiness stays der Lmao!!!!!! Marry 2 to 3 wives in one roof first. Come back n tell us wassup. Even in the olden days, the diabolical things Dey do alone cannot be talked about. And most men die b4 their wives den. Bro, polygamy is not somtin u enter because first wife is not good!!! Body go tell u!!

The fact that all the students in a class failed Mathematics in WAEC does not mean that there are no student who got Distinction in Mathematics in the same Exam.

I have seen many polygamous marriages that are hell on Earth. I have also seen few polygamous marriages that are heaven on Earth. The difference is that those that are hell on Earth are headed by a poor leader while the few that are heaven on Earth have a good and firm leader.

Hence it has to do with the leadership provided by the husband. Many monogamous marriage are also hell today because of the poor leadership of the husband.

Similarly, many people believe the reason that Nigeria is not working is because we are a polygamous nation with many tribes. Hence they want Nigeria to break up.
However the problem of Nigeria is not many tribes (polygamy) but poor leadership.

If we have good leaders in Nigeria, we will enjoy the benefits of being a polygamous nations. Similarly, a polygamous family will enjoy many benefits if the family have a good leader.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Lol I laugh in Greek. Women love fvcking raw whether married or single.. And once they are cool with you.. you can bang them even without condoms.

That is true sha. A lot of people I know are of the opinion that concubines don’t use condom

PlayMaker14:
She betrayed you twice.... One was cheating, while the other was stealing and you're still staying with that deadly black mamba because she's supporting you financially? Condoning nonsense because of the little cash she throws at home?


Continue staying there, very soon she will plot with that her colleague furcking her to send you to the great beyond.

Weaklings are better off in the great beyond

Go and do your polygamy in peace. Stop advising other men to practice polygamy. No be everybody get that mind n strength. Some prefer to even remain single n have kids than to have many wives living with him. See Wahala o. We rather embrace single n free life than to live under same roof with 2 to 3 women. God abeg ��

MikeofAfrica:


The fact that all the students in a class failed Mathematics in WAEC does not mean that there are no student who got Distinction in Mathematics in the same Exam.

I have seen many polygamous marriages that are hell on Earth. I have also seen few polygamous marriages that are heaven on Earth. The difference is that those that are hell on Earth are headed by a poor leader while the few that are heaven on Earth have a good and firm leader.

Hence it has to do with the leadership provided by the husband. Many monogamous marriage are also hell today because of the poor leadership of the husband.

Similarly, many people believe the reason that Nigeria is not working is because we are a polygamous nation with many tribes. Hence they want Nigeria to break up.
However the problem of Nigeria is not many tribes (polygamy) but poor leadership.

If we have good leaders in Nigeria, we will enjoy the benefits of being a polygamous nations. Similarly, a polygamous family will enjoy many benefits if the family have a good leader.

diogo23:

All of a sudden she stopped, it's a sign that she's getting it somewhere

If she's getting it somewhere, does that warrant her not to fvck her husband again or she made covenant with the new lover not to make love with anyone else.
Her denying her husband sex is very illogical.
What will it cost her pussy by giving him twice a week.

achimendy:



Some people are not smart. When you suspect your partner of cheating, you dont keep quarreling on the issue when you dont have evidence. You're suppose to act as if you dont care much about her relationship with other guys, while you keep doing your investigation secretly until you get her redhanded.

Some people can lie even if you catch them with your two eyes.

So use this method and see how the truth comes out.

I think say na my watching Investigative Discovery too much.
I dont accuse without evidence.
Accusing your partner without evidence will result to greater disrespect and more troubles even if she's guilty except she's caught red-handed.

Microwhy:

If she's getting it somewhere, does that warrant her not to fvck her husband again or she made covenant with the new lover not to make love with anyone else.
Her denying her husband sex is very illogical.
What will it cost her pussy by giving him twice a week.

Sometimes the guy will tell her not to sleep with her husband again, i have seen it before

Microwhy:

I think say na my watching Investigative Discovery too much.
I dont accuse without evidence.
Accusing your partner without evidence will result to greater disrespect and more troubles even if she's guilty except she's caught red-handed.

Just keep acting a fool as if you dont know what you're doing until you get she and that guy in bad position, then you can act.

Tamilore11:
Go and do your polygamy in peace. Stop advising other men to practice polygamy. No be everybody get that mind n strength. Some prefer to even remain single n have kids than to have many wives living with him. See Wahala o. We rather embrace single n free life than to live under same roof with 2 to 3 women. God abeg ��

My advice to men is to ensure you are the head in any relationship with women.
If you can achieve this by being a single parents, so be it. If you can achieve this by marrying one wife, so be it. If you can achieve it by marrying more than one wife, so be it.
Hence if I see a man with 2 wives who is finding it difficult protecting the interest of the 2 women, I will advice him to consider having only one wife because he does not have the qualities required to manage a polygamous home.
Similarly, if I see a wealthy man with strong character, who unfortunately has a wife that does not respect him, I will advice the man to take a second wife . This will make the first wife to appreciate the headship of her husband.
I prefer having one wife to two or three. However my personal preference does not invalidate polygamous marriage.

zexy2030:
If ur wife denies u sex because she is breast feeding.. Sit her down and ask her questions she will tell you and if she insist, call one of her relations that is closer to her, report it. If it doesn't change, send her out or stay away outside ur home for a week. No call, no message, just act caring in the morning then lodge outside with either phones off or don't pick her calls. Then after 7days return home. If she asks you where u went don't reply her. Stop eating her food. Buy food and bring home. If she ask you why, tell her u r on a specific fast. If she ask u for money, promise u will give her and pretend u forgot. Watch her do and tell us what she will do next.

make him send her out of the house way be say no be him build am

merits:

Must you sex?just three months.

body no be firewood na you call 3months just ahbi shey you want make him akamu turn ice block abi

FREDCLSSICO7:


make him send her out of the house way be say no be him build am

If he is not a provider and the house owner in terms of rent or ownership... A woman has become the man of the home. What he can do to win her is to work harder and get richer and dump her because a self established woman will never submit to her man. Because she is the man.

She is the Husband You Are The Wife I'm Very Sure You're The One Doing The House Chores At Home. I won't be surprise if it happens that you're the one washing her pants and bra.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

I wonder how some of you manage to tolerate shit…. Spits

enonche85:


me sef weak!...person wey don cheat on you before.

I tire for some idiots who de claim say dem be men.

You guys didn't get the story right , so painful I can't delete post here. I will explain in details in my next post. Please only married men and women.

She has cheated on you before.....oh my God!!!!!!!!!....which kind men we get for this generation.She is still doing it.