Adun27:


The reason I'm still doubting if she is cheating or not is because she is still breastfeeding my baby (11months old)

Bros it is not an excuse. She can be breastfeeding and still be collecting Gbola big time

Once a cheat always a cheat, know this and know peace. YOLO so move on or die with of domestic stress.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

You are benefiting from her waywardness hence your inability to think and take right action

You have not told us what you did to her that lead to this change in behavior. Did you cheat on her?

Seconded

techWriter1:
I hereby appoint you as a FULL GROWN SIMP

Bug her phone so u can get the voice note of the calls

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Jeeez see irrational thinking, why just not let OP move on, instead of ending up in prison because of an unfaithful LovePeddler.

olibeans:
Invite the guy for a drink and poison him. Simple

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

This generation is filled with stupid men. Look at this one here.

Someone once cheated and stole from you, but here you're trying to find out if she's cheating on you. You be mumu.

Go and do DNA to ascertain if the baby is yours before you raise another man's baby.

diogo23:

She is cheating on him, a woman can't deny her husband sex for complete three months without a reason. Somebody somewhere is doing it

And the person is doing it well.

Caseless:
This generation is filled with stupid men. Look at this one here.

Someone once cheated and stole from you, but here you're trying to find out if she's cheating on you. You be mumu.

Go and do DNA to ascertain if the baby is yours before you raise another man's baby.

me sef weak!...person wey don cheat on you before.

Romanoff:
Your suspicion is based on previous trust broken and I know too well that trust once broken cannot be put together like before.

Before you keep confronting her, have evidence, calls aren't enough, the calls could be innocent and really work related.

Sha check her phone to set your mind at ease.

Una wey dey stay with unfaithful partner, the Lord is your strength o.

I support this too. check her phone and if possible download whatsapp on a laptop and clone her account.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

guy run run run or send her parking

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

As a man, you have failed in life if you choose to forgive a cheating wife!

Odebayo4010:


Please how can I read more about the law

Once you bang a woman, you can always bang her again and again. That's the law

Alusiizizi:


Take a load of rubbish, throw in some medical jargon and sure, some gullible among us could actually believe that the pap you just wrote actually bears substance. Your kind are all the same, if you aren't supporting homosexuality by appealing to pop psychology balderdash then its female promiscuity with testosterone, menopause and other such "scientific" terms shamelessly used to punctuate pure nonsense.

Comrade calm down now!!

enonche85:


And the person is doing it well.

Exactly

My brother any woman way do shakara for you leave her. This kind issue be like say you buy new slippers, when the slippers cut and you give aboki make him amend am, the slippers no fit be thesame again. Mark go still dey dere. Bros, use your head make your future for fine

MyVILLAGEpeople:


How do married men living with cheating wife know he is the biological father of their kids ??
What if those kids are a product of one of her sexual escapades ??
Reason why DNA tests is very vital!

Some concubines Dey use condom �

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Your wife cheated before and also stole money from you before?

This is obviously a SIMPle matter.

Persephone1:
What should he have done? The earlier you realize that online chest beating has no effect in solving real life issues the better for you.

If it was that easy to fix, would op create a thread?

He's taking too much rubbish. I guess he had been taking these rubbish long before now. In relationship, partner needs to respect each other and consider each other wellbeing.

Tamilore11:
Alaye, all dis ones are old tales. Ppl dat come from polygamous homes swear never to practice it. U re just building hatred, envy , bitterness between wife n kids. There is no need putting ur kids in so much harm just yo prove a point. Just pray to marry a good woman. I have seen situations where men marry 2 bad wives. And where women raise thier kids to hate each other . Not everyone is lucky. If u marry 2 troublesome wives, na BP go kill d man. There re many desperate women there masking thier characters just to get married, even if na second wife

We all pray to marry a good woman but the bitter truth is that only few men will marry a good wife.
Hence for the majority of men who are not lucky to have such good wife, they have to find a solution that can get the best out of their wife. Believe me, the worst woman on Earth can still become a good wife if her husband refine her.
You talk about polygamous marriage creating enemity in the home. For this to happen , the husband must have fail to be a good leader. He must have prefer one of his wives and her kids to the other wife and her kids.
Even in monogamous marriages, this still happens. Many siblings are living in enemity today because their father have a favourite.
We also saw this in the Bible in the case of Esau and Jacob.
Experience is the best teacher. Hence if a man marries a second wife and she happens to be worst than the first, then it shows the man himself has an issue since he fail to learn from his first mistake.
I will not recommend polygamous marriage to all men. However there are still men in our society who have the qualities to manage a polygamous home. They will be cheating themselves if they tie themselves to one wife.

emee701:
Once you bang a woman, you can always bang her again and again. That's the law

Alright thanks

Lmao. Go n enter a polygamous home. And ask dem wassup. U think happiness stays der Lmao!!!!!! Marry 2 to 3 wives in one roof first. Come back n tell us wassup. Even in the olden days, the diabolical things Dey do alone cannot be talked about. And most men die b4 their wives den. Bro, polygamy is not somtin u enter because first wife is not good!!! Body go tell u!!

MikeofAfrica:


We all pray to marry a good woman but the bitter truth is that only few men will marry a good wife.
Hence for the majority of men who are not lucky to have such good wife, they have to find a solution that can get the best out of their wife. Believe me, the worst woman on Earth can still become a good wife if her husband refine her.
You talk about polygamous marriage creating enemity in the home. For this to happen , the husband must have fail to be a good leader. He must have prefer one of his wives and her kids to the other wife and her kids.
Even in monogamous marriages, this still happens. Many siblings are living in enemity today because their father have a favourite.
We also saw this in the Bible in the case of Esau and Jacob.
Experience is the best teacher. Hence if a man marries a second wife and she happens to be worst than the first, then it shows the man himself has an issue since he fail to learn from his first mistake.
I will not recommend polygamous marriage to all men. However there are still men in our society who have the qualities to manage a polygamous home. They will be cheating themselves if they tie themselves to one wife.

Yessss

Those Daughters of Eve at it again

Oga to be frank with you, your wife is playing Champions League with that boy.

Did you ask her the reason she have been denying you sex?

Since she has cheated before (as you said) , then I don't see why she can't do it again

But hope you sef no get fault for this thing too

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money conniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Your cheated on you before, she connived to steal before, she now has a boy who regularly calls her at home ( most likely at night) to find out how she is doing......etc etc and you are asking us whether she is cheating on you and what you should do ?

Like seriously

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You are a weak man... End d marriage ASAP.

Never allow any woman raise her voice at u.

Long live TRP.

You very correct �… The first mistake was forgiving her after the first 2 mistakes….

...this world....

She's gone.....

I feel she's capable of doing all that you are suspecting her of.

Once a lady cheats on her marriage and gets away with it, there is a higher probability she will do it again and again, probably perfect her acts so well, she will never get caught again.

She supports financially! A cheating housewife will bring her husband ill luck that will reduce the man to a pauper who would rely on that wife more and the more a man relies on his wife financially, the greater the reasons for such a woman to cheat if she would and also disrespect her husband if she's not the humble type.

The ball is in your court man, you decide.

Maybe for the sake of your children you don't want a broken home but how about your mental health? How about the possibilities of things getting worse in the days ahead?
Three things destroy a woman - adultery, stealing and lying. Greed will make any woman unfaithful, unfaithfulness goes with lying. Same greed will make anybody steal, the thief will always lie. So the adulterous will definitely lie and might steal too. Imagine what sort of children she will raise.

May God lead you aright. Amen!

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Guy man do d needful..

She suppose dey humble n respectfull cos of wat transpired in d past.. Since she is still aggressive she Neva change.

Stop been a nice guy... Ladies hate nice guys.

Read the red pill treads on NL n also Google the red pill. Ur eyes go open.. Most women hate weak men.



Wake up..

End d marriage..

Moniya4Real:


Some concubines Dey use condom �

Lol I laugh in Greek. Women love fvcking raw whether married or single.. And once they are cool with you.. you can bang them even without condoms.