Lolzzzzz

If a girl dictates having a date and where to meet gangan, she should be ready to pay her bills


But chief you for hint her when she was doing the ordering that you won't be a party to this gluttony

The lady would not die if she ordered meat pie and ice cream alone or just bottle water. The notion that men must spend on you has no bearing in Morden or ancient rules of dating. Ladies somehow expect a man to :
1. Dress to impress
2. Make her laugh
3. Give her butterflies
4. Direct the discussion
5. Pay for the entire date
What was her own input to the date. She be carton? What is her value in the date? My date paid for her own and also was funny although the date, adding value can't wait to see her again am cooking for her this time cos she deserves it.

Medianna:

I never said what she did was right?
I only corrected that impression of him thinking he can't spend on a woman who is not his wife.
Imagine a lady being with a guy for 2 years and a kobo of the guy has not entered her hand.
What do you think will happen to such woman when she eventually married the guy?

FashionCookie:

Please don't let me laugh...Men don't enjoy sex you say? I'll leave that matter 4 another day.
But you see that spending aspect? Just forget it bros...it's here to stay.
Na normal thing. Man no dey wise(let me not use sense)for where women dey.

I mean you females enjoy sex more than us.
Forget all dat desperate disturbance to f.uck by guys.
Na only when man dey release e dey enjoy am.
Woman own na from beginning till wen she release too.
Give dat SPENDING maximum of 5yrs from now, the mata go change.
Men don dey wise up small-small.
Shebi to see breast and kpekus hard very well before?
Na so things dey change. Just give it some time.

Medianna:

I can't speak for others but looking at it from my view of point the woman should be a friend.
And when i talk about friend i don't mean someone who is looking for a trade by barter.
Cuz even the man providing is in his quest to be her friend.

So basically a man who takes care of your bill, what you offer is friendship? The equation no balance o

Medianna:

I can't speak for others but looking at it from my view of point the woman should be a friend.
And when i talk about friend i don't mean someone who is looking for a trade by barter.
Cuz even the man providing is in his quest to be her friend.

So basically a man who takes care of your bill, what you offer is friendship? The equation no balance o

CheapHomes1:


read what again?

The first post of mine you responded to.

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I'd rather not go on a date with this kind of person....


But why d girl go come dey order champagne

Tbaba001:



So basically a man who takes care of your bill, what you offer is friendship? The equation no balance o

If a lady is a friend she can equally take care of his bills too. Its simple

Nigeria girls always take a relationship date as opportunity to finish u

MNDY:


I mean you females enjoy sex more than us.
Forget all dat desperate disturbance to f.uck by guys.
Na only when man dey release e dey enjoy am.
Woman own na from beginning till wen she release too.
Give dat SPENDING maximum of 5yrs from now, the mata go change.
Men don dey wise up small-small.
Shebi to see breast and kpekus hard very well before?
Na so things dey change. Just give it some time.

E no go change...an average Nigerian man no dey use T*to play. Instead, it gets worse with time sef.

JackHamma1234:
The lady would not die if she ordered meat pie and ice cream alone or just bottle water. The notion that men must spend on you has no bearing in Morden or ancient rules of dating. Ladies somehow expect a man to :
1. Dress to impress
2. Make her laugh
3. Give her butterflies
4. Direct the discussion
5. Pay for the entire date
What was her own input to the date. She be carton? What is her value in the date? My date paid for her own and also was funny although the date, adding value can't wait to see her again am cooking for her this time cos she deserves it.

The ones that a woman will say 'lemme add value to him' , the man will start seeing her as a mumu. Am talking from experience.

Sheistoopretty:



Wailings of a poor wretched simp turned Redpiller wannabe so ordinary rice and ice cream is what u couldn't pay for and u are here already giving motivational advises You see why I don't take these Nairaland Broke Wretched Boys serious?

All these BJRAN (Broke and Jobless Redpillers Association of Nairaland) boys sef

I have one thing to tell you. GROW UP!

So he should spend his money on what he didn't eat? He should pay for her because she has a smelly pvssy? No naah.
If that's your definition of "grown up" , I rather remain a child.

LordReed:


The first post of mine you responded to.

did you read the first of yours that i responded to?

brandsoncharlie:

So if you ask for a date to meet any of your friends then they can eat whatever they like with out considerations on the side of your pocket.

Nigeria is a funny country.
The Bleached lady asked him out, let her pay for all their food.
Because on a very normal day, the man should ask the woman first and then prepare himself and pay.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnj0CoZJ0Nc

Medianna:

If a lady is a friend she can equally take care of his bills too. Its simple

This particular lady in question is a TOTAL stranger.
She and OP met on dating site.
She then asked OP on date (Because of long-throat). Probably, OP has not manned up enough yet to ASK her FIRST.
The BLEACHED, washed out lady, now thought it was a good opportunity to get OP indebted.
She's stupid.
But OP should have picked up this signal right from his phone/computer and just declined the date instead of wasting his time with a girl he does not even like. OP don't even like bleached girls.
They both wasted their time.

CheapHomes1:


did you read the first of yours that i responded to?

LoLz!

chidifrank:


all what you wrote doesn't make sense and its stupid to say.. he should have told her politely that her orders are much? like who does that? if she is too wicked not to realize it when she was making the orders, no one should stop or correct her. let her order all she cared for and pay for it. its that simple. i had a similar case with a lady some months back and she was just ordering all expensive things.. you will be crazy to hear what i did to her the only person wicked here is she

Try get manners small naw

No one is talking about being wicked
If you cant caution your girlfriend
Then you can't caution your wife

funny as this gender with hole dey cause trouble up and down on a first date all you can think of is to eat and eat on top first date you carry ice cream pie*3 jollof rice and even expensive drink loll na last 2weeks sister Linda husband return sister Linda to her papa say her kpetus too wild on top say everytime na different guys on different date

Godada:



Since she asked for a date.

It's important you state it clearly you are going dutch.

Having stated this, it's up to her to decline to come.

A date, like I get it, is supposed to be a time for conservation and getting to know each other, not stuffing the face.

While at it. It's expected that as the man, you pick up the the tab.

She is supposed to be moderate in her consumption.

In any case, you got it wrong.

Women, child and pets gets to be loved and pampered. Men get to earn their keep. What a man truly deserves, any man deserves is respect.

Men don't need love but respect.

In any case, this sad campaign against women is pointless.

It's just juvenile and myopic.

You aren't forced to do relationships.

Just stay in your lane.

I have seen women go through life transformation just to birth a life. I have seen the pains of pregnancy. A mother on her way to birth multiple kids, believe me, it ain't a freaking walk in the park.

I have seen pregnant women lose bone mass, blood, nutrients, get all lots of sicknesses at the time of gestation. How about the kicks from the babies.....

Women birth, nurture the world from the cradle to raising kids to preserving lives from the kitchen.

Men, I mean men 47 and above knows that the position of a mother should be respected.

These kids shooting their mouth about being alpha male and being a redpiller just need to grow up.

They need to take a breather

well written Boss.
Hmm but some ladies can show guys pepper ooo.i believe she jam her type in her game.what the type did was wrong in a way but some ladies have gotten this skills of leading a guy on

Medianna:
That 'i can't spend on a woman that's isn't my wife' is very wrong. Lines of an irresponsible man in the making.
Imagine during courtship you don't take care of her. In marriage it will be worse cuz you've subconsciously condition your mind not to meet her needs deliberately.
Though there is limit for everything.

What constitution states that a lady should be taken care of during courtship?

Medianna:

If a lady is a friend she can equally take care of his bills too. Its simple

I can take care of my bills
The only thing I took away from your comment is MEN WHO CAN PAY THEIR BILL AND MEN WHO HAVE FRIENDS DON'T NEED A WOMAN


PEACE!

Godada:



Since she asked for a date.

It's important you state it clearly you are going dutch.

Having stated this, it's up to her to decline to come.

A date, like I get it, is supposed to be a time for conservation and getting to know each other, not stuffing the face.

While at it. It's expected that as the man, you pick up the the tab.

She is supposed to be moderate in her consumption.

In any case, you got it wrong.

Women, child and pets gets to be loved and pampered. Men get to earn their keep. What a man truly deserves, any man deserves is respect.

Men don't need love but respect.

In any case, this sad campaign against women is pointless.

It's just juvenile and myopic.

You aren't forced to do relationships.

Just stay in your lane.

I have seen women go through life transformation just to birth a life. I have seen the pains of pregnancy. A mother on her way to birth multiple kids, believe me, it ain't a freaking walk in the park.

I have seen pregnant women lose bone mass, blood, nutrients, get all lots of sicknesses at the time of gestation. How about the kicks from the babies.....

Women birth, nurture the world from the cradle to raising kids to preserving lives from the kitchen.

Men, I mean men 47 and above knows that the position of a mother should be respected.

These kids shooting their mouth about being alpha male and being a redpiller just need to grow up.

They need to take a breather

My God will bless and keep you.
I do not like what the lady did, i mean you don't start picking things like a glutton simply because a man asked you out but boy, you are petty.

Babara1994:
We met on Facebook, exchanged numbers and few days down the line, she asked for a date.

Fine, I obliged, but she didn't know I'm always on Dutch mode when it comes to dates. LOL

So we got the place. A very expensive eatery. She was well-dressed but was all bleached - a big turn-off. I actually like light-skinned women, but not the bleached ones.

Okay, fine. She ordered a plate of rice, a bottle of champagne, a cup of ice-cream and three pieces of meat-pie. I began to wonder if we came for national eating competition. Anyhow sha, I ordered a plate of rice and a bottle of malt.

When it was time to pay, I paid for mine ONLY and told her to settle her bill. It led to an argument and all eyes were on us. I left the place and insisted she settled her debt.

A big lesson to all women out there. If you come across me, I won't pay a dime until you're my wife. Why should I act like I'm your husband when you aren't my wife?

And if you're a guy reading this: Spend what you're OK with and don't make yourself a fool. If you go broke tomorrow, you'll be forgotten.

PS: I'm not a redpiller and I'm not a feminist; I'm just human. Humans THINK.

Maximum respect, that's the way to go

wink2015:


You are wrongly claiming innocent in a matter you deliberately exploited.

Why did you not make it clearly before the get together that she will pay for her food.

You were afraid of rejection.

Do not claim moral space in the matter.

By Your mischievous conduct you actually took advantage of the ladies from her weakess points.

If you meet gbagbati ladies she go bring thugs to beat crazy from your body.

Before making idiotic comments, always remember no one has monopoly of violence.

FashionCookie:

E no go change...an average Nigerian man no dey use T*to play. Instead, it gets worse with time sef.

See you...
T*to don cheap wella and before you know am, e go become free very soon without spending on her.
Na ordinary indomie and cheap food dem dey use Bleep many girls now.
Food wey the guy go follow chop too.

Sweetvie:
Ain't encouraging anything. That's y in a date you take the tap and order when she refused to av sense. Don't encourage rubbish
Before you take her on a date tell her she's going to be paying then it left for her to accept or reject. They'll go out and disgrace themselves

It's actually awkward to go on a date and start making orders for the person I'm on a date with, it's common sense i expect you make orders sensibly and not start ordering everything you have ever crave at a sitting;like ordering champagne and ice cream at a sitting, rice and pie? Are u gonna eat those together or what? And if any guy is a dutch guy, he should make it known before the date because we're not used to such here.

But that lady in particular is a gutter and hungry girl. You don't have to act hungry even if you're. She deserve to be left to pay her bills. People should learn to behave civil

MNDY:


See you...
T*to don cheap wella and before you know am, e go become free very soon without spending on her.
Na ordinary indomie and cheap food dem dey use Bleep many girls now.
Food wey the guy go follow chop too.

Lol...I laugh in Chinese.
No matter how you look at it, you'll spend on a woman. No just stress yourself...even the ashawo wey you dey talk. You know how much to carry ashawo? The Indomie and egg no b money you go take buy am? Na sand?
Some will come here to advocate for going Dutch bla...bla...bla.
Weekends go to Shoprite and other relaxation centres and see. Filled to the brim...how many women pay the bills there? Men do!
Leave matter 4 Mathias. Men no go spend on women but no be for this life...probably the next.

Tbaba001:


I can take care of my bills
The only thing I took away from your comment is MEN WHO CAN PAY THEIR BILL AND MEN WHO HAVE FRIENDS DON'T NEED A WOMAN


PEACE!

Peace!

FashionCookie:

Lol...I laugh in Chinese.
No matter how you look at it, you'll spend on a woman. No just stress yourself...even the ashawo wey you dey talk. You know how much to carry ashawo? The Indomie and egg no b money you go take buy am? Na sand?
Some will come here to advocate for going Dutch bla...bla...bla.
Weekends go to Shoprite and other relaxation centres and see. Filled to the brim...how many women pay the bills there? Men do!
Leave matter 4 Mathias. Men no go spend on women but no be for this life...probably the next.

Na gradually. E don start wella already.
Watch and see.
E go taya dem soon.
This one wey many of una don dey fall hand nowadays so.

Babara1994:
We met on Facebook, exchanged numbers and few days down the line, she asked for a date.

Fine, I obliged, but she didn't know I'm always on Dutch mode when it comes to dates. LOL

So we got the place. A very expensive eatery. She was well-dressed but was all bleached - a big turn-off. I actually like light-skinned women, but not the bleached ones.

Okay, fine. She ordered a plate of rice, a bottle of champagne, a cup of ice-cream and three pieces of meat-pie. I began to wonder if we came for national eating competition. Anyhow sha, I ordered a plate of rice and a bottle of malt.

When it was time to pay, I paid for mine ONLY and told her to settle her bill. It led to an argument and all eyes were on us. I left the place and insisted she settled her debt.

A big lesson to all women out there. If you come across me, I won't pay a dime until you're my wife. Why should I act like I'm your husband when you aren't my wife?

And if you're a guy reading this: Spend what you're OK with and don't make yourself a fool. If you go broke tomorrow, you'll be forgotten.

PS: I'm not a redpiller and I'm not a feminist; I'm just human. Humans THINK.

Bro, it's not fair now., shae you tell her say na dutch mode you dey before you agree to the date?

You for clear am before hand.