BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

Well, something good will always come out of Bethlehem, glory to God

Alright

Marriage is complex. I know someone who married his age mate and they are living happily while another buddy is always fighting with his wife because she doesn't respect him because they are the same age. However, it is always better for the man to be older than the wife with 5-10 years as the wife will give him more respect, all things being equal!

Just make sure you have lots of money as a man in NIGERIA and the wife will always respect you, no matter the age difference!

Age is just a number, most of this matured people are the healthiest to be in a relationship with

The age difference is too much.

Sha no carry this one go North,

The home of the living 😂😂

Just make money.
One Alhaji for Kano just dey marry sweet virgin teenage girls wey e senior with 50yrs because he get small money,after few years e go marry 2 others join them, nobody complain, nobody dey shout paedophile

To each their own!
Adulthood is hard enough!

Who knows how Regina they cope?

When the man is rich, all things are possible as most ladies would not entertain attention from men who are 20 years older than them and BROKE.

One man's food is another man's poison. You can marry your age mate and still regret it. Some men prefer younger girls and some women prefer younger men.

Age is just a number

I'm 20 years older than her and she is my Joy giver ,gives me sex anyway,anytime and every where
She is my peace of mind I can never let her go
❤❤❤

mr ned look at you now

seunoladele:
BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

The Equatorial Guinea sex god is 54 years and all the young women left their so called young husbands to go and have a piece of his action. He is more than 30 years older than some of the women. You have no case.” F “off please

Age is just a number. Attitude is everything.

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seunoladele:
BEFORE YOU MARRY A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER...

You have to take note of the high disparity and see if you can cope.

Will he see you as a friend or a daughter who must always listen to his command and nothing more? Or he will put his age aside and be your best friend, gist mate and romantic partner? You need a young blood to enjoy your life with and age doesn't really determine the freshness of the blood. Attitude is, if you understand what I mean.

I have met guys who were just few years older than me and treated me like a kid with no thought of her own and I have met men far older who treat me like a buddy, some even say "Yes ma". You get it? Attitude basically matters not just the accumulation of numbers.

At forty, your sexual desire peaks and you want more sex like no man's business. At forty, his own sexual desire begins to decline talk less of when he is sixty years old! But with good diet, enough sleep, right attitude to work and a very young heart, the man can boost his libido, desire you like crazy, have sex 2 to 3 times a week and stay on top of his sexual games with you!

One lady separated from her elderly husband because she was starving sexually! There are young men less than thirty or a little over thirty who also starve their wife sex!

Attitude matters.

God's will matters most!

If God says at 25, you will marry a man who is 45, who are we to say NO?

When Jesus says YES, nobody can say NO my dear!

Do not box God!

Still, don't do what your power can't carry!

Not every lady can marry a man far older than she is.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

You will not mis-choose in Jesus' name!

© Seun Oladele.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele

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Hmmm

Na this kind women dey line up for Edonga room 406... While he dug them like no man's business..

If you have very high libido don't go for a man 20years older than you.
If your libido is moderate you can reconsider.
If you want care and you know how to pamper a man go for a man 20years older than you .
If you are smart and respectful you can consider him .
If you are rude and impatient don't try it. Men generally value women who respect them.

Awon Ned Nwoko and Reginal Daniels

This kind marriage go sweet if the man get money...

Everyone with their choices

If na money be their problems then they should go for it.
You don't have any right to advice anyone
What works for A might not work for B.

@op

At 40 a lot of men are still horses and destroyers in the other room...

Forget about hearsay.......Men's libido seem to drop because of financial burden and a high level of stress...

Women age faster than me. So, it's fine even 50 years difference.

Everyone can give advice but can't advise themselves to mind their business!

Women love security and that's what old men provide. When they're secured, they now think about adventures which if the old man cannnot give her and if she lacks morals, begins to find young boys to do her job.

Foolish idea for the man ... But brilliant idea for the woman... Because all his property don enter her domain... All he gets is a used pussy and a nagging problem.

But she has security

vincenteger:
Everyone with their choices

If na money be their problems then they should go for it.
You don't have any right to advice anyone
What works for A might not work for B.

Thank you for voicing my opinion. The writer, in a limited POV has not thought about a 40 year old woman attracted to 60 year old or a 50 yo woman vs 70 yo man.

This is why family is important, not online family. Omotola married an older man, Senator married that younger actress and the internet was screaming as if they loved the young girl better than herself or family. Family is the one to protect marriages, not all these online advisors that don't know your family, history and everything. No context

No be Shade Okoya de celebrate 25 years marriage at the age of 47? She got married at the age of 22 and she is saying here that her marriage will not have lasted if she married a younger man. She was also not the first wife but children without family values will come and be advising young men and women to do this, don't do that.


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Bianca no marry Ojukwu? You never see life.

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Chizmickey:
Age is just a number, most of this matured people are the healthiest to be in a relationship with

I totally agree with you 👍👍👍

Eniitankorede:




The Equatorial Guinea sex god is 54 years and all the young women left their so called young husbands to go and have a piece of his action. He is more than 30 years older than some of the women. You have no case.” F “off please

My boss is over 50 and in his office he smashed young ladies below 25 years. Funny thing is this ladies know my boss is married but still come to his office for smashing..

Women no send to marry a man few seconds to his grave as long as he has money..

Women have always desired older men, back in secondary our girls were already rolling with university boys and some corpers or at times teachers, while neglecting us.

They thought we were not match for the type of experience they wanted, no wan.

When boys became men and started going for younger girls, these same girls whom have had their youthfulness messed up by the type of men they hanged with then turned around to ask why are older men going for younger girls, no be juju be that.

Nonsense.


Just marry who makes you happy whether an elderly or toddler.