heartofcity12:


Lol, was about to post this. These hoz are wilding

Executer:

Do you have a life at all?
Seeing how you exibit idiocy and foolishness daily,I only pity your family members that may be depending on you.
Mugu

ubunja:
lol the stories these women have to tell. Lol. They'll put you off serious relationships for sure.

Executer:

Do you have a life at all?
Seeing how you exibit idiocy and foolishness daily,I only pity your family members that may be depending on you.
Mugu

heartofcity12:


Honestly. They keep telling on themselves. Someone somewhere would be trying so hard to get that one’s attention, it’s why a man must always be chosen and never chase a chick.

Brokeloser:

That would be impossible for our resident bluepiller "realist"

Pukkalolo:


I like the concept of the man being the prize. Because that's the fact: the Grammy doesn't chase the celebrity; it's always the other way round.

Bro, you're making sense on that.

But I smirked while thinking of it because this concept can easily be misunderstood.

If you do a quick google search on "being the prize", you see that having the "I am the prize" mentality is scattered on both men and women dating advise blogs. This advise is even more dominated by the women's dating advise blogs.

For women, the advice of "being the prize" seem legit because in real-life regular situations the young woman is effortlessly the prize...
This is Sad, but the truth is, the female starts off with a higher Sexual market value than the male.

She receive free stuff and gift from men all the time. Men whistle at her on the street. They compliment her all the time.

If you look at her inbox, you'll be shocked by the indefinite large number of men trying their best to get her attention. Every photo she upload on social media she get likes and comments, and even the ugly woman still have thirsty men trying to get into her pants.

So basically, her sense of "I am the prize" is fallaciously pumped up on a daily basis.

But, this is entirely a different story for the average man.
From an early age, the male is giving a false knowledge about women and their sexuality.

He's taught that women are the prize to be won. He got this idea from movies, social media, magazine and the media in general:

“Buy her stuff"

“Treat her with expensive dinner”

“Be nice towards her”

“Make her laugh”

“Compliment her"

"Treat her like a queen"

To top it all, the media says become a man of success and you will get the girl.... because she's the prize to be won.

Even here, It's even more contradicting. They say "be the prize" then they still say, "In other to get women chasing you, build your muscles; make tons of money; accomplish lots of shit; become a successful badass"

Achieve all these amazing sh*t and life will reward you with the beautiful woman (or women). Doesn't that establish the fact that women are the prize to be eventually to won after working your ass off to become successful.

Guys, seriously

Mtcheew.... SMH.

We see a lot of advice that men should "be the prize" if they want romantic success.
In and of itself that's a profound advice.
But if you think of it literally, the logic there is, men should stop going for women, and instead they should come for you... You should basically just go about your business and allow women do the work of gaming you...Because you are the prize to be won, and grammy(prize) doesn't go after celebrity.

If you still look at it literally, a man who's the prize wouldn't be leaning game...Because it doesn't make sense to view yourself as the prize...and still be learning stuff on how to handle women.

Ok, Enough talk.

Let's get things straight. The advice "be the prize" mean different thing for both men and women.

For women, "be the prize" mentality, is about NOT approaching men and not expressing your her interest first; it about allowing men coming for you and doing all the work of getting you. ( If I'm not mistaking, I believe that's the point those female dating bloggers are trying to pass across)

For men, understand that "being the prize" doesn't mean you should stop going for women....Because when all is said and done, masculine actions is what get you girls...The man that get laid: is the man that goes for what he wants; is the man that move things forward with women; is the man that doesn't hesitate to escalates.

But beyond that...For men, being truly the prize is about having Self-Respect.
When I talked about being Respect Focused and NOT being sex focused when interacting with women, some of you misunderstood me.

Essentially, what I meant by being respect focused was "Being the fucking prize."

See, for as much as you are all about getting the shining vagina, you will be a slave to your emotions. Because when you're pussy focused and she denies you the pussy, you feel like a loser. You can't be at your most powerful behavior when you are pussy focused.

When I'm interacting with attractive ladies, I'm naturally cocky, ballsy and care less. I give off this "I don't give a Bleep" vibe. Ironically, this is simply because I'm not pussy focused.

Once a man stops seeking the overrated treasured vagina that the media has programmed him to worship, then he will truly become free and he will truly be the prize. And as a result, he will easily get the pussy.... Because the less value you place on something, the easier it is to get.

This is not rocket science.

You have to give women the opportunity to treat you like the prize. Men are the ones often trying to demonstrate value to the girl, doing things for her and trying to behave right towards her--so they can 'get' her.

But the mode for changing your game with women, is to start making them do things for you and making them behave right towards you.

Let her do things for you.. it doesn't matter what she does, it can be snapping you picture; it can be reading something for you; it can be cooking for you; it can be running an errand for you...it doesn't matter. But my point is, The more she does things for you, the more she view you as the prize to be nurtured.

Being the prize inherently rephrase to having respect for yourself and placing high value on your time and effort : because a prize doesn't waste his time trying to woo a woman who isn't giving him the vibe he wants. He would immediate NEXT her.

You are as valuable as your alternatives: the more female alternatives you have, the more you'd feel like the prize.

Having more female alternatives naturally makes you the prize.
Once a woman sense that you have other alternatives, she tends to place more value on you. One legit way to demonstrate to a woman that you have other female alternatives is to--IMMEDIATELY NEXT HER if she is showing lack of interest in you or she's not giving you the treatment you want.

Stay blessed brothers.

Labadi69:


I will comfortably feed your father and all the men in his lineage. No cap. Frustrated hungry man like you. Yamayama fall on that your bald head there

ubunja:
yes stay Chosen, and always have backups. Always. That's the one area men consistently fail.

Executer:

I don't care if you can feed the whole world.even hushpuppi used to boast then,where is he now?


It's your parents I pity.they will be thinking they have a son not knowing they gave birth to an animal
Idle idiot

Labadi69:


You sound hungry and frustrated. I for like give you this burnt offering wey I reject before them throwey am. Poverty die die die!

Labadi69:
All of una useless la y youths wey dey plan to go meet that kidnapper wey say he dey do giveaway, see the yamayama fate wey dey wait una. I pity all of una. Useless lazy youths

ubunja:
You gents need to follow these massage pages on Instagram,,,, the things these dudes are doing to these women,,, AND what the women are saying in the comments!...how they're all eager for it... I'm sure this particular guy's DMs are overflowing... Maybe that's a possible side hustle for some guys here...lol

ubunja:
You gents need to follow these massage pages on Instagram,,,, the things these dudes are doing to these women,,, AND what the women are saying in the comments!...how they're all eager for it... I'm sure this particular guy's DMs are overflowing... Maybe that's a possible side hustle for some guys here...lol

ichidodo:
That's Chiropractics, a noble profession the reprobate malfeasance has turned into a sh**t show and thirst trap all for the gram..... What's the sh*t, with flowers and bamboo as well as half naked bikini clad ebolas, all about? When I do Yoga, I just go..Boom! it's done...No scented candles or what not.. Same thing with qualified chiropractors out there, you need a medical adjustment done on your person? Boom! You get on a Chiropractor's table, Boom! Boom! It's Done, you're on your way...No f**king about..

Labadi69:


Rubbish as usual. All your materials are from the internet. Do you even have any real life experiences? Any man that has experience in the real world won’t just go around quoting and believing internet trash from clout chasers.

I doubt that this guy even goes out. I dare you to mention three nice spots in Joburg and Cape Town where there are nice girls. I fukking dare you. All you do is get naked and watch Latino porn and masturbate in your cockpit. I can’t believe idiots on this thread take this wankker seriously. Yamayama fall on that your receding hairline. Tueh!

Rafiquie:


You sound like you have a thing for mastutbating men and latino porn

akwesenana:

Imagine footing the bills for this to be done to your wife.

CaveAdullam:
, where are thou?


Someoneschild2?

et al.

Stay well bros.

ubunja:
ladies there were saying these massages are an acceptable way for women to buy sex without making it awkward. And I remember one saying like in the West there's a shortage of romance ever since hookup culture took off. It's all sex sex sex and very little intimate stuff. So massages are gaining popularity cause they're filling that gap.

ubunja:
ladies there were saying these massages are an acceptable way for women to buy sex without making it awkward. And I remember one saying like in the West there's a shortage of romance ever since hookup culture took off. It's all sex sex sex and very little intimate stuff. So massages are gaining popularity cause they're filling that gap.

Agelastus:
Men still had to share their day with women.