Tokskob2008:

Lol... looks like it's the mods that do create this monikers and stories then push it to the FP just to keep the forum lively otherwise I don't see why a woman who has been married for close to 25yrs will start sex chatting her old school mate/boyfriend who is probably in his 50s and even sending him money and gifts plus I'm sure her own first child will be around 20yrs or so.... It doesn't make sense honestly

There's a scientific explanation for it sha

Man,you Acted Nice but not up to per,the daughter of EVE were Crazy in Nature, assuming you're doing traveling work, your Wife should have go meet the guy in his place and Nack, never trust woman in your Life
My advice for you is that,you should now acted aggressive way to your wife,you should let her understand that you can never forget the issue in your life, that you have lost trust in her
And you too find small lady that will be taking care of you

Chloraseptic:
Phone and social media are the greatest barriers to successful marriage..

There are old flames that would never have crossed path nor reignited again in this lifetime if phone and and social media weren't available.

Just watch how redpillers will rush in to tell you to leave your wife of 25 years as if it's as easy as leaving a relationship of one month. They don't know or believe that anything marital issues can be fixed..

You forget that infidelity can lead to spouse death,then you're now said marital issues can be fixed,why are you thinking like a fool,I pity the parents that brought you up

Urheadmaster:


I fear men who no fear their wives








For men to think that women are only entitled to one prick after marriage for the rest of their lives is the most stupid things to think about

Sensible Talk.

This is one of the reasons why paying dowry and matrimonial ceremony spending of a Lady now a days IS AN ABOMINATION.

Better just make her a baby mama.

CaptainFM1:


Otilo!

Your wife don go be dat!

Wetin smart phone and social media go cause we never even see 10% of it.

Lemmie teach you a simple trick if you don't already know anyway...

Mirror your wife WhatsApp on WhatsApp web.
Any messages going in/out you will be reading them in real time.

Warning: They may share obscene pics of one another that may extinguished you.

True true, fear women! Women na your mate?

Only a very idle man has time to do this!

TheRareGem1:
Two and half decades is such a long time. Try and manage the situation for the sake of your children. It hurts really but your wife is your wife.

Manage what? If he die only thing you will say is rip and that's all , those kids will still grow and be whatever they will be , is better he take care of himself, better still send that devil packing

Abeg I no get wetin I wan tell you sir, i am just 23 and young. I only want to know about the lucrative business your wife does.

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

Thank your stars that you got in on time.
My honest advice. Don't send her packing. First she will start deleting her Whatsapp chats. So beat her to the game by cloning her WhatsApp. Using Whatsweb. Download it from play store. This may not serve you fully. Also download and install WAMR in her phone. Configure it well. Find a way and freeze it somewhere. Anytime you pick up her phone, just go there all her chats, including deleted ones will be there. This will tell u if you married a woman of easy virtue. Please don't thank me.

So you follow your wife everywhere? If she gets a man's number and save it with a female name. Do not think you have it handled. That wife you think you have cornered will just be laughing at you with her boyfriend. Or maybe you have her chained in her a garage.

MansoryMX:



You are a very foolish man! Do you know why I call you a foolish man? Okay sit down and listen to what I have to say about your mistakes;

1. A married woman has no business making friend with a male friend. Be it old time friend before she got married, bestie before she got married or old class mate.

2. The moment you saw your wife getting too comfortable chatting with another man. You could have put a stop to it from the beginning but you fold your hands watching.

. The only friend a woman is supposed to have is you, her husband and some other female friend who must be married as well.


I am a married man like you and one principle I gave my wife is never ever give out your number to any guy! Be it old school mate, old friend or past Ex.

And what’s that nonsense of you sending or sharing porn video with your wife? Are you sick or something? My marriage is 6 years old and I don’t do such sick shit! Man! You dey Bleep up ah swear!

I disagree with the bolded. Your wife is only your wife when she respect her marital ought but when she drag her marital status to the mould she because public wife and then the man is allowed to find his own personal wife.

TheRareGem1:
Two and half decades is such a long time. Try and manage the situation for the sake of your children. It hurts really but your wife is your wife.

jagtinic:
Married for almost 30years and you still come to nairaland for advise. This story can be real but for a man over 50 not to know where he stands is indeed funny. You either allow your wife enjoy herself and you look away or you move on and she still does what she wants. Marriage of over 2.5 decades and you don't know how to act.

Allow people to express their mind. What da Bleep is age?

Time registered: November 25, 2022

Time spent online: 59 minutes & 48 seconds

No comment from me to waste my time and brain cells on NL fiction.

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bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

jokes

jeromestarks:
You have made a mistake marrying a woman with heavy social media presence.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her in the market or on Facebook.

Marry a virgin woman and enjoy your home.

Do otherwise and train another man's child.

[quote author=immortalcrown post=118663798] More than two and half decades and your marriage is still like this?

This story is not complete. Show your wife this post and let her tell her side of the story. Then, I can say something. I say this because I wonder what led to your friend sending you porn, you that have spent more than 2 decades in marriage. This seems to be a case of a pot calling a kettle black.

He that comes to equity should come with clean hands.[/quote

Crazy inexperienced kids chatting with phones bought by their relatives and getting some crazy 'likes' from crazy fellows as their rewards

For ur own sanity. i will just advice you caution her and try to get the guy contact and give him a stern warning to stay off your wife....also your wife should be warned else, she is going out...Though for me,i cant tolerate a cheating partner.

A friend sends you porn and you show your wife that means both of you are the cause of your problem....At this point in your marriage you dnt need porn again

immortalcrown:
More than two and half decades and your marriage is still like this?

This story is not complete. Show your wife this post and let her tell her side of the story. Then, I can say something. I say this because I wonder what led to your friend sending you porn, you that have spent more than 2 decades in marriage. This seems to be a case of a pot calling a kettle black.

He that comes to equity should come with clean hands.

Wrong advice lol

Show your wife this post lol

You don’t know woman

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

Throw her out over texts?

Are u that sensitive

Truth be told women too are like men and their eyes wonder from time to time.


Seems you have to rekindle her and Do small romance and romantic things.

At the end talk to her and tell her it’s bothering you. 2 decades ?

Rexymania:
Tell your children in her presence... Let them know how wicked and stupid their mother is

You have senses!
This is the final solution NOW!
God bless your wisdom!

Ddworld:


Shush... You talk too much. Stop calling elders old enough to be your dad or granny, children.

If you are smart as you claim, you should know that the op is a liar. Next time, use your little brain.

Thank you

Dumbo. Chief lie detector of NL. It is easy to decipher that you have akamu in your skull.

So you know the OP is a liar and you read to page5 and still commented instead of going to the next tread. IDIRIN

Urheadmaster:


Short story about me and my ex-girlfrend .

Married with a child, and when she heard that I have travelled out of the country to Germany.


On my Instagram page, I have my contact details.

That was how she got my contact and began to chart me up on WhatsApp messenger.


After telling me that, she regret married to the man she is currently living with.


One thing lead to another, she started sending me videos of her naked body while taking her baths.

Asking me to do the same but I declined.



She would call me on video chat while pressing her milky tits asking me to bring out my dick for her to see



I kuku ma blocked her because I couldn't take it any longer

Lamba!!!

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

if you forgive her for what she wasn't suppose to be forgived for, she will punish you with it and still blame you for forgiving her.

John Doe 2022

advanceDNA:


This is one that is already offing pant in her head is the one u are saying "your wife is ur wife"
What does this statement mean seff??
That he doesn't have any choice but to accept her nonsense or what?? "your wife is ur wife"

Shut Mumu, what do you know?

advanceDNA:


This is one that is already offing pant in her head is the one u are saying "your wife is ur wife"
What does this statement mean seff??
That he doesn't have any choice but to accept her nonsense or what?? "your wife is ur wife"

How will you know when you are not married yet. Why not wait now. Experience is the heat teacher.

jagtinic:
So you follow your wife everywhere? If she gets a man's number and save it with a female name. Do not think you have it handled. That wife you think you have cornered will just be laughing at you with her boyfriend. Or maybe you have her chained in her a garage.

I do not follow my wife everywhere and if your own wife have a boyfriend, mine doesn’t. In as much as she is a faithful woman, as a man still set down some strong rules and principles to save her from herself. If you don’t get my point, don’t mention me again and stop commenting like a little kid who still lives under his parent roof and is stolen being fed and given pocket money or monthly allowance his parent.

immortalcrown:
More than two and half decades and your marriage is still like this?

This story is not complete. Show your wife this post and let her tell her side of the story. Then, I can say something. I say this because I wonder what led to your friend sending you porn, you that have spent more than 2 decades in marriage. This seems to be a case of a pot calling a kettle black.

He that comes to equity should come with clean hands.

wat are u saying...a colleague of mine do send me porn without prior notice...he just sends it n laugh ... It doesn't mean I'm questionable.

Shagbatshagba:
For ur own sanity. i will just advice you caution her and try to get the guy contact and give him a stern warning to stay off your wife....also your wife should be warned else, she is going out...Though for me,i cant tolerate a cheating partner.

A friend sends you porn and you show your wife that means both of you are the cause of your problem....At this point in your marriage you dnt need porn again

Exactly what he should have done initially! Instead he fold his arms and watch everything.

TheRareGem1:


How will you know when you are not married yet. Why not wait now. Experience is the heat teacher.

Lol.....
What is this one saying....Experience indeed....
Those their marriage crash after 10-20 years dont have experience..??
because some pple choose to be a door mat and allow their partner treat them like trash in the name of makimg marriage work does not mean thats how it should be...we all have different tolerance level....
... marriage is supposed to be a journey of companionship to be enjoyed....but u people have made it to be something people must suffer and keep quiet because of some śtupid experience......
Marriage is not by force when one person is constantly being selfish and treating the other person babdly without consideration.......

use ur expereince how u like....but dont come here and down-talk general common sense because u are married..... experience koor ..experience niiii

@OP it is very clear that guy is FUCKING the BITCH you called WIFE.You think you must CATCH them on bed before you believe those evidence supose give you signal since.you Look like a JEW MAN.Never you trust a woman because 95% are BITCHES one DICK no reach them.What was she thinking that she decide to be STUPID nd FOOLISH FUCKING another MAN.Never you accept a CHEATING WIFE.Those real ALPHA MALE in the house will understand.It is better marry a woman who dont no how to cook but have a good character because me the MAN teach her than to marry the one that no how to cook but a CHEAT and PROSTITUTE when you do dig ur own grave with ur hands.@OP it better you send her out after all ur children are grown up they can take care of themselves if not PREPARED for the worse from that ur ASHAWO WIFE.See have been there @OP so Wisen up before she plan with her LOVER to kill you.who qoute me saying truth hug transformer.

MzErica:
Shut Mumu, what do you know?

..basic social skills of consecutively countering people's opinion ..u dont know....
.......that's why u go around insulting pple. ...madam know it all.... e pele ancient of days.
.abi u too have plenty years of experience enduring a cheating parter or it u thats cheating and ur parter is accepting it as a norm..... useless people that know everything

Firstcitizen:


Dumbo. Chief lie detector of NL. It is easy to decipher that you have akamu in your skull.

So you know the OP is a liar and you read to page5 and still commented instead of going to the next tread. IDIRIN

Bless you