Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.

Try every style u want as far as it's not anal..........islam

triple996:
Try every style u want as far as it's not anal..........islam

Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

Modified.
What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination. She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

2. One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

3. I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

4. Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

5. Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

Why do you folks confuse the senseless things you engage in at your churches with that which has to do with God?

1. Where is your mommy and daddy sex style commanded by God? Why would you debase yourselves to concluding God concerns himself with your sex styles, the same God who told you your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God?

2. Is sin defined by the opinions of individuals or the Truth of God, Jesus Christ Himself?

3. So when cavemen had sex in different styles, the source was all internet pornography?

4. So pornography came before sex is what you pretend makes sense? Men...some of you don abandon reasoning altogether in your worship of the religion of men.

5. If you truly believe this, why not live wholly as a Eunuch for the sake of the Kingdom of God then?

Kobojunkie:
Why do you folks confuse the senseless things you engage in your churches with that which has to do with God?

1. Where is your mommy and daddy sex style commanded of God? Why would you debase yourselves to concluding God concerns himself with your sex styles, the same God who told you your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God?

2. Is sin defined by the opinions of individuals or the Truth of God, Jesus Christ Himself?

3. So when cave men had sex in different styles, the source was all internet pornography?

4. So pornography came before sex is what you pretend makes sense? Men...some of you don abandon reasoning all together in your worship of the religion of men.

5. If you truly believe this , why not live wholly as a Eunuch for the sake of the Kingdom of God then?

Oh.. I see you're a cave man to know they had different styles.

Abeg, park one side. Your own no dey follow way.

Blessedmercy8:
Oh.. I see you're a cave man to know they had different styles.

Abeg, park one side. Your own no dey follow way.

I don't need to be a cave man to be able to put two and two together as far as humans and sex is concerned. Before even the Kamasutra was written, humans had been having sex in various positions for thousands of years before. To conclude that pornography is the only reason why folks don't use the one position during sex one has to abandon all ability to properly reason these things out.

Blessedmercy8:


Oh.. I see you're a cave man to know they had different styles.

Abeg, park one side. Your own no dey follow way.

You don talk nau, as the author of the Bible and godly Christian practice. Una go church, instead of to focus on how to expand the kingdom, una dey dey debate wetin no get any sense. Na this kind thing make Jesus detest the ways of the Pharisees. Continue. You wan tell husband and wife how to enjoy each other's body. Even the apostles no do am. Heck, even Jesus himself didn't. Make God no vex for you.

U Guys never tire?
This is something GOD implanted in every living creature to enable them enjoy themselves but humans in their own foolish and complex ways will always want to be taught how to apply themselves where necessary.

Righteousness2:
When it comes to KNOWING yourselves as couples, GOD ALMIGHTY left Husband and wife to Know themselves. He didn't ask them to use this style or that style.

As long as you are legally married, Husband and wife should KNOW themselves as they desire.

As Humans, GOD gave us knowledge to know what is abnormal and what is not.
There is the right and Healthy channel to KNOWING your spouse.
However you wanna KNOW your spouse, do it through the right channel and to the Glory of GOD.

Ok, thank you Sir.

Blessedmercy8:


Ok, thank you Sir.

What styles are u referring to

Can u please elaborate

In summary, neither Jesus nor Paul gave you the missionary style of daddy and mummy! So the same way other styles are not sinful!

No verse on this topic in the Bible!

So no verse just enjoy copulation so far as it's from the right organ to the right organ!

triple996:
Try every style u want as far as it's not anal..........islam

Not anal, not oral and not self masturbation! Illegal sex is forbidden outside marriage!

If you're married abeg enjoy your copulation in peace!

Plenty styles dey to embrace!

You can even use different style per action day!

Be sexually fit! Shun fornication! Embrace marriage!

illicit:


What styles are u referring to

Can u please elaborate

Helloooo.. did you read where I said someone asked the question and not me?

If God had given "couples" who have "legally" married the go ahead to have sex and procreate, why should he care the manner in which they do it?

I cannot imagine there's a style he abhors..

Was it God that told you to practice your socalled missionary style to start with?

Why are you guys so desperate to criminalize every form of sex!? I don't understand it!

Leave God out of this plss

Silly question!

Some people make this Christianity hard for themselves.

Who gets hurt if married couples engage in different sex styles in bed? God? Angels? The Bible? Just who?

Where is sex styles in the Bible?

Damnnn niggar
Hahah

Grab my weed to learn from all these Christians

If I hear so una nor dey do doggy

Before nko

Is there a style mentioned it not mentioned in the Bible

How is a style godly or ungodly??

Of course. But I won't suggest anal style o. Other styles should be allowed like doggy, cowgirl, the reverse cowgirl. Nobody is too holy to engage in those styles, even pastors are not left out.

Happy last Sunday in the month of November.

Yes..


No restriction to their body.



69 was a very good year.

Righteousness2:
When it comes to KNOWING yourselves as couples, GOD ALMIGHTY left Husband and wife to Know themselves. He didn't ask them to use this style or that style.

As long as you are legally married, Husband and wife should KNOW themselves as they desire.

As Humans, GOD gave us knowledge to know what is abnormal and what is not.
There is the right and Healthy channel to KNOWING your spouse.
However you wanna KNOW your spouse, do it through the right channel and to the Glory of GOD.

Pastor dey reason well today.He obviously on loud

Means say i fit knäck but it must be missionary if e pass like that na sin.... toh na missionary henceforth

Yes nah


Everything isn't spirituality. Will you keep using missionary for a 7month old pregnant woman.

Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

oga talk for yourself

Asking foolish questions about as if you don't have a brain and you don't have the the Holy Spirit to guide you

And if you see those forming holy holy, na them bleep pass. Giving birth almost every 18 months like wild rabbits.

Style no matter Lol....at the end man go still cum

Pussy is there to be preeked with any style at all. Any style can go jare. Where in your Bible did they put missionary as the holy style? What I don't encourage is anal. But you see pussy ,preek it with any style. Na humans give am names,and na the same humans dey consider some styles as sin. Our thoughts are not the same as God's thoughts. Some things we see as sins,no be sins for papa God register..

Stupid people asking stupid questions.

No, Christian couples should not have sex... Hypocrite