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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by sonmvayina(m): 9:58am On Nov 27, 2022
One of the reason why demons hate humans is that we can have and enjoy sex but they can't...

God in his laws only gave us the people we should never approach for sex, however we want to do it provided it is within the limits of the divine laws...carry go.

The first purpose of sex is for pleasure, and what ever position that can enhance that is welcome....

So whether it is missionary, spoon, touch your toe, boomerang, wheelbarrow, cow girl, reverse cow girl, dynamic elbow....enjoy it..

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Shampoo77: 9:59am On Nov 27, 2022
Wait oo is it the styles you give your spouse or did not give your spouse that takes one to heaven or hell? To me in as much it is not anal and oral there is nothing wrong in satisfying your spouse in what ever form you choose

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Burgerlomo: 9:59am On Nov 27, 2022
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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by profndu(m): 10:00am On Nov 27, 2022
Penguin2:
Silly question!

Some people make this Christianity hard for themselves.

Who gets hurt if married couples engage in different sex styles in bed? God? Angels? The Bible? Just who?

Where is sex styles in the Bible?

It hurts those who are impotent and sexually weak. They will do everything under the shadow of the Bible to make you behave like them in bed.. Religious fanatism is the problem of the world. These gullible over righteous lots have multiplied the 10 commandments to include everything we do on earth. The cannot keep the 10 commandments but they have expanded it and they are now operating 1000 commandments.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by owomano(m): 10:01am On Nov 27, 2022
Humans are generally explorers and God loves explorers. Afefrall he said "in those days I will pour my spirit on all men and my people shall be able to dream dreams and do great things"
Ọmọ explore whatever makes u and your partner fulfilled ó.
No where in the Bible was it written how couples/partners must have sex.
Be an explorer...
Explore new techniques of having it to create more fun.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by BigDawsNet: 10:02am On Nov 27, 2022
yemzone:
Of course. But I won't suggest anal style o. Other styles should be allowed like doggy, cowgirl, the reverse cowgirl. Nobody is too holy to engage in those styles, even pastors are not left out.

Happy last Sunday in the month of November. wink

Sucking of boobs nko
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by KosiGee(m): 10:02am On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Oh.. I see you're a cave man to know they had different styles.

Abeg, park one side. Your own no dey follow way.

You are the cave man here, brainwashed, confused and unreasonable.

What’s the origin of your missionary style? Would you expect a 150kg man and and 50 kg petite woman to indulge in missionary style?

Who and what even gave you the right and authority to question the sexual habits of married Christian couples or consenting adults?

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Dada4me: 10:02am On Nov 27, 2022
Did the Bible recommend any style?

Did Adam and Even use missionary?

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by phemmyfour: 10:04am On Nov 27, 2022
BigDawsNet:


Sucking of boobs nko
It's allowed

Prov5:19

Your Woman is a Loving Doe,a graceful deer,let her BREAST satisfy you always,may you be intoxicated with her love"

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by KosiGee(m): 10:05am On Nov 27, 2022
profndu:


It hurts those who are impotent and sexually weak. They will do everything under the shadow of the Bible to make you behave like them in bed.. Religious fanatism is the problem of the world. These gullible over righteous lots have multiplied the 10 commandments to include everything we do on earth. The cannot keep the 10 commandments but they have expanded it and they are now operating 1000 commandments.

Those people are not Christians. They do not represent or speak the minds of christians. Those bunch are religious bigots and fanatics.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Honchoslim16(m): 10:06am On Nov 27, 2022
Christians with funny Topics.
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by dododawa1: 10:08am On Nov 27, 2022
Black mindset and RUBBISH discovering.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by jaxxy(m): 10:10am On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!



Christians think God will come down and tell the a,b,c laws of everything. Why did God give u a functioning brain and ability to gain knowledge of not just spiritual things bt circular things? where did God teach or instruct Adam and eve about sex act?

and who told u our father's of old did only missionary style? where u there?? what if Adam and eve practiced doggie or Reverse doggie? where u there?? undecided


Some questions asked my Christians are completely dumb and sometimes they behave like people under the bondage of different types of laws.

How can u compare anal sex with sex styles? and asking dumb questions? Can a woman procreate from anal sex? if yes then it can be used.

God has given u sense of what ur body can do and what it's used for.

if I was asked such questions in a church I will ignore it or walk out of the place. We should know all these childish no brainer questions and ask more important questions like the origins and history of the bible of which many Christians have no single idea of.

just imagine arguing about sex styles in church like there's a holy style. who told u sodom and Gomorrah didn't do missionary? these are childish questions

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by kingvil(m): 10:10am On Nov 27, 2022
We're all blind folded with different religous policies cos we don't know our takes and don't have proper understanding about religious matters

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by solukunle(m): 10:11am On Nov 27, 2022
No styles is forbidden as along as both part agreed

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Chem2020: 10:12am On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!

I tire for all these roadside churches oo
Wetin concern Bible again with the way couple should enjoy there bodies as husband and wife. Marriage is holly and is the only place God approved sex. God didn't approve any particular sex style for married couples.
This topic cannot be and shouldn't be a concern for any church. There are many things to focus on

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Olaism(m): 10:13am On Nov 27, 2022
I just laugh, has I dey read people's comment.
To me, wetin concern God has u dey knack ur bab.As long as u no engage in fornication or adultery.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by thadotech(m): 10:13am On Nov 27, 2022
Please can you explain what you are saying with a photographic image so I can understand.

And also help me quite from the bible where it was written so I can learn biko.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Onucs(m): 10:15am On Nov 27, 2022
I don't see why exploring each other in any way you please should be a sin. Pleasure comes with sex and God wants humans to enjoy it to the fullest, else he would have remove the pleasure from the sex like he did most animals.

It's just like food, the pleasure from good food is the reason we have several recipes today. If exploring pleasures are bad, then humans should have stuck to eating just communions too.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by almarthins(m): 10:16am On Nov 27, 2022
Righteousness2:
When it comes to KNOWING yourselves as couples, GOD ALMIGHTY left Husband and wife to Know themselves. He didn't ask them to use this style or that style.

As long as you are legally married, Husband and wife should KNOW themselves as they desire.

As Humans, GOD gave us knowledge to know what is abnormal and what is not.
There is the right and Healthy channel to KNOWING your spouse.
However you wanna KNOW your spouse, do it through the right channel and to the Glory of GOD.

You don consult the holy spirit before you come post this message?

Some sex style no be from this dimension, if you know, you know. If na lie, where is cunnilingus from? And that MouthAction from?

Worst of them all, anal sex. Is it godly?

You know men are doing what animals don't do at all.
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by IMMUNO1(m): 10:21am On Nov 27, 2022
Christianity doesn't have any business with the sex style of duely married couples. We should stop bringing our personal sentiments into everything. Missionary style my foot.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Ginomel(m): 10:22am On Nov 27, 2022
Bahamas95:
"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.


I want to assume you were in Bahamas in 1995 but if it was the day you were born, then you are too young for this
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by TheirFADA: 10:23am On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?



this is the most absurd and ridiculous thing I've ever read in my life, it was written out of both ignorant and myopic mind. It is the response of people i read that finally made my mind come to rest sad

Nothing wey person no go read and hear in this life. Man and woman wey don marry o, you go still dey dictate their sex position for them

OP
Dem suppose wipe you oraimo cord for neck angry

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by TheirFADA: 10:26am On Nov 27, 2022
jaxxy:


Christians think God will come down and tell the a,b,c laws of everything. Why did God give u a functioning brain and ability to gain knowledge of not just spiritual things bt circular things? where did God teach or instruct Adam and eve about sex act?

and who told u our father's of old did only missionary style? where u there?? what us Adam and eve practiced doggie or Reverse doggie? where u there?? undecided


Some questions asked my Christians are completely dumb and sometimes they behave like people under the bondage of the law.

How can u compare anal sex with sex styles? and asking dumb questions? Can a woman procreate from anal sex? if yes then it can be used.

God has given u sense of what ur body can do and what it's used for.

if I was asked such questions in a church I will ignore it or walk out of the place. We should know all these childish no brainer questions and ask more important questions like the origins and history of the bible of which many Christians have no single idea of.

just imagine arguing and sex styles in church like there's a holy style. who told u sodom and Gomorrah didn't do missionary? these are childish questions

God bless you o

like, you'll go to hell because of the style you use in knacking your wife

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by onome2013: 10:27am On Nov 27, 2022
Apart from anal sex, is good you practice what she wants or else cow will loose rope and start hitting on others
I mean she will abandon the marriage, because of not enjoying the mama and Papa style

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by BigDawsNet: 10:28am On Nov 27, 2022
phemmyfour:
It's allowed

Prov5:19

Your Woman is a Loving Doe,a graceful deer,let her BREAST satisfy you always,may you be intoxicated with her love"

Wonderful cheesy

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Pat081: 10:28am On Nov 27, 2022
Do it anyway you want it

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by onosbaba3310: 10:28am On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!



Op, so you saw the cave men having sex in missionary style abi? Or you were there when Abraham was having sex with Sarah? What if doggy was actually the way of having sex those days? Show me where it is written boldly in the Bible that "missionary is the only way of having sex" the problem with African religious people is that one man will just read the Bible, twist it to his to suit his own point and come out to claim it is the truth and is a doctrine..very rubbish and poor mindset.
You guys play God too much.

Who gave it the name missionary in the first place? The Westerners, the same westerners are more liberal than you people, am a member of one foreign Christian marriage story website called marriage heat, you will see Christian couple sharing their romantic stories. But in Africa omon na sin, am not allowing any man dictate how I live my life anymore, I have started reading my Bible myself, done with all this low mentality spiritual manipulators and entrepreneur claiming evangelist and pastors�

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Lazenby007(m): 10:29am On Nov 27, 2022
Enjoy self in anyway and style you can. As long as a third party does not know. She is your wife and he is your husband.
Adam must have blasted Eve in different styles and positions. It went on like that down to generations before the pornographers.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by DAramis: 10:32am On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.
In my own little contribution,

This styles which you alluded to have been in existence, before porn.ogra.phy came to be. At least, it was practiced in other regions of the earth like the Asian part or European. It was only magnified by Por. no.

And, I think it is still "mummy and daddy styles" majority of them. The only thing that changed is the position of both people hence it is called styles (The entrance is always through the front door).

The ones I know that is not sanctified to be practiced by couples or (even singles in sin) should be An. al, cunninglinuss, Analingnuss, etc (don't know if the spellings are correct) which I think is a sexual perversion.

Over, and out
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by zeedof(m): 10:33am On Nov 27, 2022
Bahamas95:
"This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.


Did our forefathers practice christianity? Therefore christianity came in is own way and different sex styles comes in their own way too
Re: Should Christian Couples Practise Other Styles Of Sex Apart Frm Conventionastyle by Nobody: 10:34am On Nov 27, 2022
Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.
you don't have common sense. You have a brain, please use it and stop chatting shït

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