Happy Sunday my fellow nairalanders!!!
I read a thread just last week the OP was telling the men not to give ladies or out gf 100% of our attention, make that our attention scarce, that by doing such it will make the lady crave and beg for your attention. Most ladies and few men came online to revile this guy, insulted him but he stood his ground.


I seem not to understand this generation is it not that a guy or lady that loves you will always want to talk, gist, play or even spend most time with their bf or gf but reverse is the case now, if u care too much the girl go say u be maga, or he's choking me, imagine me oo!!! it is not only in women, most men always get bored anytime their gf is around them, some will say she's always hanging around me!! for God sake who should she hange around with? her ex?


This is very common in ladies when a guy is extremely caring they see the guy as a business venture they can exploit, call him simp and store his name as maga,at the end they break up with the guy and fall into the hand of another who treats them like trash, dumps them and they will now come out to say all men are wicked! imagine!!!


A lady once told me when I asked her why she is still dating her ex who is a Casanova, see her idiotic response " I date him because I love the way he treats me and I'm believing that one day I'll win his heart and we'll live happily ever after" but she prefer to dump that caring brother who will treasurer her, buy her things , give her money which she will eventually give the other guy!!!


I have seen many relationship and marriages crumble simple because husband or bf is too caring and both parties split and returns to the ex who treats them bad!!! Ladies will say the devil you have known is better than the angle you are just meeting!!!

Must we then say that one shouldn't be too caring , or give the other partner too much attention? if that is not there then why the relationship?

I wonder in 20yrs from now whether there will even be marriage or serious relationship. This present generation does not know what they want.

You too loving and caring you are a simp, maga and foolish. you decide not to be loving and caring you become a wicked, heartless and evil person.

way forward pls!!!

dangle a string in front of a cat, the cat'll try to catch it. As long as the string is beyond the cats reach, the cat will try to catch it and you'll have the cat's attention. The moment the cat catches the string, game over. You lose its attention.

So on how to treat a woman?/its to balance out your push and pull game. Know when to give them attention and when to withhold same. They figure you out, its game over.

If you are broke make sure you give her orgasm. If you are weak in bed, make sure you give her millions of Dollar daily. This is how to keep a slay queen.

I am talking about slay queens oh, not about women that have sense and dignity.

immortalcrown:
If you are broke make sure you give her orgasm. If you are weak in bed, make sure you give her millions of Dollar daily. This is how to keep a slay queen.

I am talking about slay queens oh, not about women that have sense and dignity.

hmmm!!!! Where are those women that has sense and dignity bro? or should I say out of 100% only 2 % has this characteristics

mariovito:
dangle a string in front of a cat, the cat'll try to catch it. As long as the string is beyond the cats reach, the cat will try to catch it and you'll have the cat's attention. The moment the cat catches the string, game over. You lose its attention.

So on how to treat a woman?/its to balance out your push and pull game. Know when to give them attention and when to withhold same. They figure you out, its game over.

Hmm! are u saying as a man your woman must not be able to predict you?

Yeah, a lot of nonsense is being spread by social media. Most people don' tknow they're being programmed by what they read about relationship advice online.

Everybody is doing the same thing, pretend like you don't care, while you're dying inside. And the reason why everyone seems the same is because we get our information from one source, the internet.

udofia234:
Happy Sunday my fellow nairalanders!!!
I read a thread just last week the OP was telling the men not to give ladies or out gf 100% of our attention, make that our attention scarce, that by doing such it will make the lady crave and beg for your attention. Most ladies and few men came online to revile this guy, insulted him but he stood his ground.


I seem not to understand this generation is it not that a guy or lady that loves you will always want to talk, gist, play or even spend most time with their bf or gf but reverse is the case now, if u care too much the girl go say u be maga, or he's choking me, imagine me oo!!! it is not only in women, most men always get bored anytime their gf is around them, some will say she's always hanging around me!! for God sake who should she change around with? her ex?


This is very common in ladies when a guy is extremely caring they see the guy as a business venture they can exploit, call him simp and store his name as maga,at the end they break up with the guy and fall into the hand of another who treats them like trash, dumps them and they will now come out to say all men are wicked! imagine!!!


A lady once told me when I asked her why she is still dating her ex who is a Casanova, see her idiotic response " I date him because I love the way he treats me and I'm believing that one day I'll win his heart and we'll live happily ever after" but she prefer to dump that caring brother who will treasurer her, buy her things , give her money which she will eventually give the other guy!!!


I have seen many relationship and marriages crumble simple because the bf or gf is too caring and both parties split and returns to the ex who treats them bad!!! Ladies will say the devil you have known is better than the angle you are just meeting!!!

Must we then say that one shouldn't be too caring , or give the other partner too much attention? if that is not there then why the relationship?

I wonder in 20yrs from now whether there will even be marriage or serious relationship. This present generation does not know what they want.

You too loving and caring you are a simp, maga and foolish. you decide not to be loving and caring you become a wicked, heartless and evil person.

way forward pls!!!

udofia234:

hmmm!!!! Where are those women that has sense and dignity bro? or should I say out of 100% only 2 % has this characteristics

Good qualities are always scarce.

SenecaTheYonger:
Yeah, a lot of nonsense is being spread by social media. Most people don' tknow they're being programmed by what they read about relationship advice online.

Everybody is doing the same thing, pretend like you don't care, while you're dying inside. And the reason why everyone seems the same is because we get our information from one source, the internet.

social media cannot be ignored but instead we should know what we want. sir I still disagree with u sir on this social media issue are u telling me that a lady of 23-30 yrs does not know what she wants?

udofia234:



are u telling me that a lady of 23-30 yrs does not know what she wants?

Yes

immortalcrown:
Good qualities are always scarce.

For sure bro! but this good qualities do not know what they want hence they fall into the wrong hands! I've seen a guy train a girl in school for 4 good year after graduation she discovered the man is not up to her class! who gave u that class? is it not that same man u are dumping? bro!! up till now that lady in question is not married, every man she marries either dies or break up with her , the man she left is happily married with wonderful children

SenecaTheYonger:

Yes

Baba!! I no belief sir, they just decided to flow the wrong way.

You just voiced my sentiments...

udofia234:



Hmm! are u saying as a man your woman must not be able to predict you?

mariovito:
You just voiced my sentiments...

oh!! noted. problem half solved

udofia234:
Happy Sunday my fellow nairalanders!!!
I read a thread just last week the OP was telling the men not to give ladies or out gf 100% of our attention, make that our attention scarce, that by doing such it will make the lady crave and beg for your attention. Most ladies and few men came online to revile this guy, insulted him but he stood his ground.


I seem not to understand this generation is it not that a guy or lady that loves you will always want to talk, gist, play or even spend most time with their bf or gf but reverse is the case now, if u care too much the girl go say u be maga, or he's choking me, imagine me oo!!! it is not only in women, most men always get bored anytime their gf is around them, some will say she's always hanging around me!! for God sake who should she hange around with? her ex?


This is very common in ladies when a guy is extremely caring they see the guy as a business venture they can exploit, call him simp and store his name as maga,at the end they break up with the guy and fall into the hand of another who treats them like trash, dumps them and they will now come out to say all men are wicked! imagine!!!


A lady once told me when I asked her why she is still dating her ex who is a Casanova, see her idiotic response " I date him because I love the way he treats me and I'm believing that one day I'll win his heart and we'll live happily ever after" but she prefer to dump that caring brother who will treasurer her, buy her things , give her money which she will eventually give the other guy!!!


I have seen many relationship and marriages crumble simple because husband or bf is too caring and both parties split and returns to the ex who treats them bad!!! Ladies will say the devil you have known is better than the angle you are just meeting!!!

Must we then say that one shouldn't be too caring , or give the other partner too much attention? if that is not there then why the relationship?

I wonder in 20yrs from now whether there will even be marriage or serious relationship. This present generation does not know what they want.

You too loving and caring you are a simp, maga and foolish. you decide not to be loving and caring you become a wicked, heartless and evil person.

way forward pls!!!

there's this woman that I like, we talked one day a Sunday, then on Monday I stopped d conversation just to know if she wants me, she did not message me, till today thats Sunday and I've messaged her again, I just want to know if she likes me and wants me to be around her, just a simple Hello, would av made a whole lot of meaning to me, I love her she's married too, but I still love her, I respect the husband and the two kids she has, I respect her marriage but then I still love her,

See finish na disease , if you too show human being love dem go see u finish.

marlow1962:
See finish na disease , if you too show human being love dem go see u finish.

Na so baba

In all you do, prioritise self-respect.

If you hide your feeling they will call you impotent

" I date him because I love the way he treats me and I'm believing that one day I'll win his heart and we'll live happily ever after" but she prefer to dump that caring brother who will treasurer her, buy her things , give her money which she will eventually give the other guy!!!

Stay TOXIC guys!


1. Treat her like a celebrity and she treats you like a fan. And vice versa.
2. They absolutely love to chase. They do it better and awfully obvious than men does.

If you've never reached a stage where a girl is chasing you, my sincerest condolences. You might never experience genuine burning desire in your life - SUCKS TO BE YOU!

If a guy tries this with me, he's a goner. You'll CHASE me, I won't. If you like someone, what's the point of acting like you don't? Or trying not to be too vulnerable? With love comes vulnerability. It's why I don't take these redpillers on this forum seriously. I have received premium love and attention all my life, so why then should I settle for one Obi Akpo in the name of he's "playing hard to get"? Boy, bye.

UyaiIncomparabl:
If a guy tries this with me, he's a goner. You'll CHASE me, I won't. If you like someone, what's the point of acting like you don't? Or trying not to be too vulnerable? With love comes vulnerability. It's why I don't take these redpillers on this forum seriously. I have received premium love and attention all my life, so why then should I settle for one Obi Akpo in the name of he's "playing hard to get"? Boy, bye.

Lol....girl bye too, Vagina full every where, very cheap. Girl bye

czarr:
Lol....girl bye too, Vagina full every where, very cheap. Girl bye

There are girls and there are GIRLS. Substance will always outweigh chaff. Bye again.

czarr:
Lol....girl bye too, Vagina full every where, very cheap. Girl bye

*

UyaiIncomparabl:


There are girls and there GIRLS. Substance will always outweigh chaff. Bye again.

it's a lie, it's the same vagina, substance my foot, which girl doesn't claim to have substance?

Bye bye.

czarr:
it's a lie, it's the same vagina, substance my foot, which girl doesn't claim to have substance?

I'm done.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm done.

Good.

Acidosis:

In all you do, prioritise self-respect.

Naso

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there's this woman that I like, we talked one day a Sunday, then on Monday I stopped d conversation just to know if she wants me, she did not message me, till today thats Sunday and I've messaged her again, I just want to know if she likes me and wants me to be around her, just a simple Hello, would av made a whole lot of meaning to me, I love her she's married too, but I still love her, I respect the husband and the two kids she has, I respect her marriage but then I still love her, [/quote


Hmm

Acidosis:

In all you do, prioritise self-respect.

Noted

TOPCRUISE:
If you hide your feeling they will call you impotent

Nah! Its self respect

InfinityFabric:

Stay TOXIC guys!


1. Treat like a celebrity and she treats you like a fan. And vice versa.
2. They absolutely love to chase. They do it better and awfully obvious than men does.

If you've never reached a stage where a girl is chasing you, my sincerest condolences. You might never experience genuine burning desire in your life - SUCKS TO BE YOU!

Nice one boss!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
If a guy tries this with me, he's a goner. You'll CHASE me, I won't. If you like someone, what's the point of acting like you don't? Or trying not to be too vulnerable? With love comes vulnerability. It's why I don't take these redpillers on this forum seriously. I have received premium love and attention all my life, so why then should I settle for one Obi Akpo in the name of he's "playing hard to get"? Boy, bye.

You are different that is why u are talking this way, you will agree with me that there are ladies that acts the way we discussed.