Let's answer these tough questions about marriage.

There were researches carried out that shows there is a rise in gamophobia ( fear of marriage) due to alot happening to marriages.

Let's answer these tough questions about marriage.

Question 1 : “If Marriage is So Great, Why So Many Divorces?

There are alot of cases of marriages not lasting for a year as some as early as 2weeks.

Another question then is.

Question 2 : If Marriage is So Bad, Why So Many Weddings?

Despite the divorces, the heartbreaks, tumoil etc every saturday people still get wedded.


Let's all contribute to this debate as it affects us one way or the other.

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Interesting...er, questions.

Marriage na grocery store, ppl are rushing in to buy while others dy rush comot, either dem don buy already or say d store no get wertin dem want or say wertin dem wn buy for the store no good.

Marriage is a very good and wonderful if you meet the right partner

Question 1 : “If Marriage is So Great, Why So Many Divorces?

Nothing wrong with marriage just this generation have got it all wrong.

One of the major cause of so many divorce nowadays is because people are not playing their roles in marriages anymore. Many women have buy in the western ideal of Gender equality bullshi..t hence the whole 50/50 nonsense.

They no longer want to rest in their femininity and be submissive. Many don’t understand the true meaning of submissiveness, they think been submissive to a man means you get treated like shi..t.

also most men are not true leaders and providers anymore thereby putting a lot of stress on women because now they have to work to help provide, while still performing their womanly roles of been a home marker, looking after the children, etc.

If we follow the divine order there will be no problem. The man is the leader of the home
The
Man should provide and protect, the woman should bring peace to the man and follow his lead and be submissive.


Another thing is that people are quick
To leave for the mere inconstant feeling of not been happy anymore. People rip their whole family apart simply because they are not happy anymore.
I mean who lied to ya all and told you that you will be happy through out your marriage? You don’t just up
And leave simply because you are not happy anymore a temporary emotion that can easily be fixed.

Qatar2022:
Marriage is a very good and wonderful if you meet the right partner

Isn't that the very same simple logic to pretty much every kind of relationship out there?

Rokiatu45:
Question 1 : “If Marriage is So Great, Why So Many Divorces?

Nothing wrong with marriage just this generation have got it all wrong.

One of the major cause of so many divorce nowadays is because people are not playing their roles in marriages anymore. Many women have buy in the western ideal of Gender equality bullshi..t hence the whole 50/50 nonsense.

They no longer want to rest in their femininity and be submissive. Many don’t understand the true meaning of submissiveness, they think been submissive to a man means you get treated like shi..t.

also most men are not true leaders and providers anymore thereby putting a lot of stress on women because now they have to work to help provide, while still performing their womanly roles of been a home marker, looking after the children, etc.

If we follow the divine order there will be no problem. The man is the leader of the home
The
Man should provide and protect, the woman should bring peace to the man and follow his lead and be submissive.


Another thing is that people are quick
To leave for the mere inconstant feeling of not been happy anymore. People rip their whole family apart simply because they are not happy anymore.
I mean who lied to ya all and told you that you will be happy through out your marriage? You don’t just up
And leave simply because you are not happy anymore a temporary emotion that can easily be fixed.

You did well in answering the first question.

However, let's review your answer.

You said one of the cause is that couples are not playing their roles anymore.

Why do you think that is happening now why not 100 years ago.

Could it be that people are tired of the expectations of marriage or gender roles.

Are the traditional tenets of marriage ideal?

Men: want peace, options and rest of mind and understanding

Women: want the man, don't want to share the home n impatient this days.

Men are quick to chase away if no leave or the woman is not willing to share with another woman

Women are so quick to judge a man and expects heaven and more for just being women.

BOTTOM LINE IS, EVERYBODY DEY FORM WOKENESS AND ITS KILLING THE INSTITUTION CALLED MARRIAGE ESPECIALLY THE CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE THO.

Magnoliaa:
Interesting...er, questions.

What do you have to say

virginprincess:

what is a virgin doing on this thread