If you take time to read a number of blogs, dating-related internet message boards ,discussion forums, radio programs and podcasts revolving on dating and relationships, you will inevitably find a number of women blaming men for 90-99% of the problems in today’s dating scene. Conversely you will find a high number of men blaming women for 90-99% of the problems in today’s dating scene.
 
So whose fault is it? The men or women?

For both to blame each other it shows that each gender is saying the truth of the other.

The reality is, members of both genders are guilty of the problems in today’s dating scene.
 
Anyone who feels like the problems of today’s dating scene are the fault of men only or women only is incredibly narrow-minded, sexist and delusional.

Misogynistic red pillers/meninist blame women completely while radical feminists/feminazis put the blame solely on me

I have noticed that a lot of so-called ‘dating experts’ attempt to make the problems in today’s dating scene seem more ‘complicated’ than they really are.  Actually, most of the problems in today’s dating scene are very, very simple.
 
A vast majority of men and women are not honest with members of the opposite sex about the exact type of romantic and sexual companionship that they really want.
 
Manipulative Games Men Play:
 
✓ We have men who will mislead women into believing that they are interested in a long-term sexual relationship, but in reality, these men really want a short-term sexual relationship.
 
✓ We have men who will mislead women into believing that they are interested in a strictly monogamous sexual relationship or marriage, but in reality, these men really want to engage in promiscuous and/or polyamorous sex with multiple women.
 
✓ We have men who will mislead women into believing that they are content with being a woman’s ‘BFF’ or ‘male girlfriend,’ but in reality, these men really want to be involved with these women in some sort of romantic or sexual manner.
 
Manipulative Games Women Play:
 
¶ We have women who mislead men into believing that they never have, and never will engage in promiscuous and/or polyamorous sex, when the reality is, they have engaged in at least a few episodes of short-term and/or non-monogamous ‘casual’ sex with at least a man or many MEN.
 
¶ We have women who mislead men into believing that they want to be that man’s long-term girlfriend or future wife because they really, truly ‘love’ them … when the reality is, these women really want to connect with a man simply because they know they can have their way with him (i.e., control the relationship) and they know they will be able to monopolize that man’s financial resources in order to improve their overall quality of life.
 
¶ We have women who will allow themselves to get pregnant by a man who has never once expressed an interest in marrying them and never once expressed an interest in raising children with them, and then when those men refuse to date them, marry them, and raise a family with them, they turn around and suggest that this man ‘deceived’ them and is an ‘irresponsible parent.’
 

ANALYSIS

The main problem, as I see it, is that not too many men and women seem to be interested in engaging in romantic and sexual relationships that are mutually rewarding and beneficial, and full of honesty, sincerity, and genuine love and desire.
 
In the world of sports, the participants are very competitive because at the end of the athletic event, they want to be labeled ‘the winner.’ On the contrary, the world of dating and relationships is not supposed to be about one romantic companion ‘winning’ while the other sex partner ‘loses.’
 
In the last couple of decades, many men have been guilty of leading women on and toying with their emotions, while many women have been guilty of leading men on and toying with their egos and their strong desire for sex.

Both men and women deserve to be called out for behavior that is dishonest , disingenuous, vitriolic and duplicitous toward members of the opposite sex.

Members of both genders need to be harshly admonished each time they are guilty of exhibiting blatantly misleading behavior and engaging in manipulative 'head games' with one another.
 
Members of both genders are guilty of lying to their spouses or long-term romantic companions of being monogamous while cheating on them with additional lovers behind their back.  

Honesty is the best.

This is wrong.

The men are to be blamed because, they are the ones giving this women access to this manipulations

Man wer woman still dy play to believe some crap na MUGU

Both men and women are at fault
But relationship should be about understanding each other

Solofresh2:
The men are to be blamed because, they are the ones giving this women access to this manipulations

Does that then justify the act?

If the man is blinded by delusions( love) then she should take advantage of him?

And it's also women fault for letting men take advantage of them?

What you are implying is that all is fair in love and war, that the end always justify the means.

And in Nkem owoh's voice "If any body fall mugu ahhh my brother I go chop am".

To me o, women are to be blame, after u marry them u later discover the lies they're hiding from u. Bro after God, fear woman