Aduke23:
I shouldn't say this but my dad doesn't care. He doesn't give a hoot about us. My mum, despite the little she has, she shoulders 99% of the responsibility at home. This is not something told by my mum, but something we the children witness with our own eyes. In the course of fulfilling this responsibility, it has drained her shop.
My dad, at times when he has money he hides it in hidden parts of his wallets which my mum sees ( although she doesn't take form the money).
My dad just doesn't give a hoot. Whenever we're sick, my dad doesn't even ask how we're feeling let alone taking care of us, and when he's sick, he acts like baby wanting attention which we reluctantly give for the sake of God coz in all sincerity, he doesn't deserve it.
Whenever I'm at sch, I can call my dad for weeks and he would be comfortable not picking, ignoring my calls. He has never for once call me to check up on me at sch except once in a while when he has something to ask.
I'm fed up of his nonchalant ways.
So, him and my mum had little argue today, and he decided to leave home, because my mum rented our apartment ( a room self) my mum has been pushed to wall and she had to just speak her mind today, and he decided to leave.
I didn't make any attempt to stop him because I'm pained.
Everyone, have I done something wrong by not stopping him?

nicerod:
There must be a reason he's not showing concerned about his children.


Please don't take sides


I pray God provides for ur needs

zeuss:
You did the ryt thing....the man is evil

Jennyclay:
Biko, let the irresponsible man go.

Is not as if you & your mother were benefitting anything from the supposed "head of family". Biko, let him get lost.

What is really wrong with men in this country? Haba!

In a relationship, He can't take good care of his girlfriend.. He enters into marriage, he can't still take good care of your wife & children . Kilode!!

Nawa oo

nicerod:
There must be a reason he's not showing concerned about his children.


Please don't take sides


I pray God provides for ur needs

nicerod:
There must be a reason he's not showing concerned about his children.


Please don't take sides


I pray God provides for ur needs

Aduke23:

What are you saying? You better know what you would say.
My mum is not even the kind of mother who would spoil father to his children. In fact, whenever I want to react based on his behaviors, my mum cautions me.
I once reacted badly towards him and my mum kneeled to beg and order me to seek his forgiveness else she will never forgive me.
I'm not taking sides, but even the blind knows my mum isn't a bad person. He himself knows, but he's just that way( no thanks to his up bringing).
My mum didn't even and I know will never ask him to leave, but he decided to, thinking I would stop acting like a victim, not knowing I'm even pained than my mum.
So, don't even go there.

libertyfather:
If everything you type up there is true ...let him go

Aduke23:

No foul words pls.
I just want to know if I did the right thing

Aduke23:

Pls, what kind of reason could make someone not concerned about his children?
Your comment is just annoying.... I'm sorry to say.

Mitchewww

nicerod:



I'm not staying with


I'm not judging you


Just advising u not to takes sides .

Aduke23:

I understand you asking me not to take sides, but stating there could be a reason why a father wouldn't care for is children is sounds annoying

Redoil:

maybe you and your siblings are not his biological children

Wawelexy:
I won't judge this man yet, I mean who doesn't care about the well being of his biological children, was he like that from onset? Who knows maybe the man discovered the hidden secrete... Talk to your mom very well, she might knows the cause of her husband behaviour but hide it from you and plays the victim card, women are pro in this....

Just saying, might be wrong

nicerod:


Only God knows


Maybe ur mum offended him in the past

Aduke23:

You no get point oga. Not taking sides with my mum, but I'm no kid. I'm 23 approaching 24. He knows my mum is a prize to him. He's just doesn't deserve my mum. In fact, I've been resisting the urge to ask my mum why she ended up with him.

mployer:


Stop talking nonsense. Some men are plain irresponsible.

Foodqueen:
Someone dash him plenty money for Xmas, that's why he look for smaii excuse to leave,

He will be back when he has finish the money on him.

Justbehave:
Mad people. Una don gather to finish the man but on the thread were a mother is beating her sick husband and aiding her 16 years daughter olosho work,non of Una condemn her. Hypocrites.

Aduke23:

I don't know that, and if truly the thread is real, the mother is indirectly laying curse on her children.
My mum do tell me all the thing she tolerates from my dad is solely because of her children